Books

[Sticky] Ebook Release: Online Game: The No-Nonsense Guide to Getting Girls on Dating Sites and Apps

With Covid-19 causing our political leadership to panic and locking us down, picking up women is now a bigger challenge than ever before. You can’t do day game, you can’t do club game, and you can also forget about social circle game. This was motivation enough for me to put some extra time into my… Continue reading [Sticky] Ebook Release: Online Game: The No-Nonsense Guide to Getting Girls on Dating Sites and Apps

Black Pill · Open Post

Open Post: What Men and Women Find Attractive in Each other and Why

This is another post on speculative thinking based on evolutionary psychology. It was inspired by a comment made by GoodLookingAndSleazy on an Open Thread. He wrote: It’s funny when girls say that “personality is everything.” WTF do they even mean? Confidence? Sense of humor? Being nice? Cocky? The only thing universal and consistent about what… Continue reading Open Post: What Men and Women Find Attractive in Each other and Why

Open Post · Society

Open Post: The Stained Reputation of Nurses

On my other blog, Pickernanny made the following statement about nurses [comments section]: By the way, you might not be surprised by how raunchy some of the young female nurses I work with can be. Openly talking about their sex lives, the guys they would fuck in the building or have fucked, discussing penises etc.… Continue reading Open Post: The Stained Reputation of Nurses

Mindset · Open Post

Open Post: How to Bang 1 in 4 Girls

Blog reader ‘Dude’ left a comment that nicely summarizes the core idea behind my books Minimal Game and Club Game, namely to make very targeted approaches. The average “gamer” approaches indiscriminately and may get one date out of 1,000 approaches, but with a smarter approach you can eliminate all the approaches that don’t go anywhere.… Continue reading Open Post: How to Bang 1 in 4 Girls

SJWs · Society

A Prime Example of Deluded Leftist Thinking: Rapes Happen Because of Dark Corners

You may be wondering why the Left is so keen on suppressing freedom of speech. The answer is quite surprising as it is due to a completely warped worldview according to something you don’t talk about does not exist. They believe that language shapes reality, not the other way around. Thus, in Left Think, you… Continue reading A Prime Example of Deluded Leftist Thinking: Rapes Happen Because of Dark Corners

Gender Dynamics · Open Post

Open Post: Will Evolution Eliminate Extreme Female Hypergamy?

The following was recently posted by Richard: I had a thought today regarding something that has been on my mind for quite a while. If the women who hold out for the perfect guy the longest end up not having kids, won’t that breed their personality types out of the gene pool? In the past… Continue reading Open Post: Will Evolution Eliminate Extreme Female Hypergamy?

Men vs Women

What Avid Video Gamers and Crazy Cat Ladies Have in Common

It is a self-evident truth that men and women are different. Nonetheless, the leftist mainstream wants women to compete with men in male domains, with various levels of success. Yet, letting men compete with women in female domains is much less important as that would, presumably, lead to increased oppression of women. One of the… Continue reading What Avid Video Gamers and Crazy Cat Ladies Have in Common

Open Post · Society

Open Post: Intelligence and Truth Seeking

A new commenter, Z, left a great comment regarding intelligence and an interest in questioning appearances and learning about the causes of things. You could aptly call the approach of the average person regarding modeling reality black-box thinking, and if you think I’m exaggerating, ask the average woman how she thinks some part of her… Continue reading Open Post: Intelligence and Truth Seeking

Open Post · Society

Open Post: Chinese Men Don’t Like “Leftover Women”

My favorite female ever, Sleazy’s Wife, left the following comment: Found yet another instance of the Chinese being brutally honest to one another regarding dating (in the context of leftover women):  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4mCVS20gj_8 If a blind date said to me that as a husband, he wants to make the final decision on what electronics to buy… Continue reading Open Post: Chinese Men Don’t Like “Leftover Women”

Gender Dynamics

Pickup and the Problem of Incongruent Behavior

We got some good news recently: one of our former regulars, Lisbon, reappeared and told us that he got a girlfriend. Congratulations, bro! This is significant because he had been telling us for many months that he’s an “incel” and can’t get laid to save his life. He somehow had drunk sluts in clubs making… Continue reading Pickup and the Problem of Incongruent Behavior

Black Pill · Men

Fallacy Time: “Height Doesn’t Matter Because I’m Doing Better than My Taller Friends”

I think we all agree here that height is a hugely important factor for getting girls. It may even be the most important component of your looks that determines your overall level of success, or your potential maximum. Of course, this argument is based on the assumption that we keep all other factors equal. This… Continue reading Fallacy Time: “Height Doesn’t Matter Because I’m Doing Better than My Taller Friends”

Men · Mindset

Hyper-Attractiveness in Mass Media and the Problem of Skewed Male Self-Image

Many men, even attractive ones, drastically underestimate where they rank in terms of attractiveness. There are many reasons for this. With younger men, an issue is that women their age may simply have access to a larger dating pool. An 18-year old girl could date guys of any age and may realistically go for someone… Continue reading Hyper-Attractiveness in Mass Media and the Problem of Skewed Male Self-Image

Meeting Women

Quickly Decide if You Want to Have Sex With Her

Sometimes, guys pursue a woman not because they are sexually interested in her, but for various other reasons. A big one is validation. If you haven’t gotten laid in months, then the attention as well as the prospect of having sex with a woman you don’t find particularly attractive may be preferable to consuming online… Continue reading Quickly Decide if You Want to Have Sex With Her

Men · Society

Why Successful Bachelors Struggle with Finding Meaning in Life

In the olden days, it was easy to find meaning in life. True, life was ultimately as meaningless as it is nowadays, but before you arrived at that point, if at all, you were close to the natural end of your lifespan already anyway. Before you could find ever-lasting peace six feet under, after pondering… Continue reading Why Successful Bachelors Struggle with Finding Meaning in Life

Black Pill · Mindset · Society

You Need to Accept the Harsh Truth (About Everything)

In a recent Open Thread we discussed whether women are really attracted to their husbands. I stated that most women are not, and based this on the observation that women flock towards a small fraction of men in online and real-life dating. Those men get all the action. It’s just another example of the Pareto… Continue reading You Need to Accept the Harsh Truth (About Everything)

Relationships

Why Women Past Their Best-Before Date File for Divorce

As you may have heard, there have been some dark clouds hanging over the British Royal Family. Prince Harry and the single mother he wifed-up, Meghan Markle, want to live their own life and no longer take part in the various gigs the Royal PR Troupe has to endure. In the comments section, we have… Continue reading Why Women Past Their Best-Before Date File for Divorce

Meeting Women · Mindset

Getting Prematurely Attached to That One Girl

A few concepts old-school PUAs introduced are valid, such as “one-itis”, i.e. obsessing about a particular girl. In this particular scene, though, this meant PUAs obsessing about more or less any girl who gave them any kind of attention at all. You had guys report about “catching one-itis” basically every time they went out. In… Continue reading Getting Prematurely Attached to That One Girl

Meeting Women · Mindset

If One Girl Has Had Sex With You, Many More Will

We have talked about the 80/20 split in male attractiveness on online dating platforms according to which women deem only 20% of men to be attractive, and 80% as unattractive. In contrast, when men rate women, the result is a bell curve with most women rated as around average, with outliers on both ends of… Continue reading If One Girl Has Had Sex With You, Many More Will

Meeting Women · Men

Dealing With Rejection Effectively

A recent discussion in The Open Thread #54 centered around the question of how to deal with rejection. Basically every guy who has ever approached a woman knows that getting turned down can really sting. In the worst case, a high number of rejections may even demotivate guys from approaching women altogether in the future.… Continue reading Dealing With Rejection Effectively

Black Pill · Dating

MGTOW Message from a 64-year-old Veteran

Blog reader “john smith” left a great comment on my recent article, There Will be Increasingly Fewer ‘Good Men’ in the Future. I think it deserves more attention, so I am reproducing it in full below, with some minor edits. Message for the younger men: I’m 64, soon to be 65. Divorce-raped, false domestic violence… Continue reading MGTOW Message from a 64-year-old Veteran