The ubiquity of smartphones may be a net-negative on society overall, but it also draws attention to aspects of reality our hostile elites are either oblivious to or would much prefer to pretend that they are not real. The narrative of the strong, empowered woman is a good example. It is fully obvious that women… Continue reading Hamas War Brides and the Evolutionary Realities of Womanhood
I recently watched Cruel Intentions, a teen romance that might have some elements of titillation, but as I was watching it with the eye of a completely disinterested observer, I cannot say whether I found Sarah Michelle Gellar in it hot. This is not a particularly deep movie. In short, it is about a bunch… Continue reading Cruel Intentions (1999)
During a recent business trip I made a most curious observation. I stayed at a typical business hotel, meaning that you get functional, clean rooms, and a perfectly serviceable breakfast buffet. As is common, before entering the breakfast area, the service staff asks for your room number to check whether your stay includes breakfast. If… Continue reading The Parable of the Boomer Scammers at the Hotel Breakfast Buffet
In one of Schopenhauer’s books, he muses about old age, and the years in which you do not yet belong to the afterworld but more and more lose your foothold in the real world. The people around you die off one by one, and for everyone who dies there will not be anybody replacing them.… Continue reading Losing Friends
I had a very interesting consultation session a few weeks ago. It centered on leaving the pickup scene behind at or perhaps slightly after your peak, and the risk of missing this window. As I have real-world friends who are in the corresponding age range, i.e. roughly their mid-30s to early 40s, this was a… Continue reading The Off-Ramp in Pickup
I received the following request: From your personal experience with women, are there situations in which Chads will come across that Beta Males won’t and vice-versa? Do you come across perhaps five or eight common situations with women that are very common across the board? First, there definitely is a difference in the kind of experiences… Continue reading Chad-Only Experiences With Women
I occasionally have clients who need to take meds at fixed times. As you can imagine, this is potentially disruptive as you need to plan your life around that. Diabetics who need to inject themselves with insulin tend to have bigger issues than people that only need to swallow some pills every day or a… Continue reading Pickup and Having to Take Meds
Recently I had to attend a tech conference. As you can easily guess, the demographics at such events are quite predictable. You have over 90% of guys in the attendance, all of them in some tech field and therefore able to not only feed themselves and even an entire family on one income, if they… Continue reading Beta-Buxxing and the Looks Threshold
I recently had to sit in in a few panel interviews as part of the interview process of some senior candidates. For the sake of showcasing diversity, we also had two women take part in it, even though one could question whether their level of experience warranted their inclusion, but this was clearly not the… Continue reading “Everybody is always so happy to help!”
A few weeks ago I went on a hiking trip, visiting a spot I particularly enjoyed as a kid. Imagine an elevated plain with a few rocks scattered around that drops rather steeply into a valley, and on the other side you see a forest with six gorillion trees, trees as far as the eye… Continue reading Hiking and Darwinian Selection
Blog reader John Smith left a great commentary on why he is fed up with the system. I am reposting it on the front page to give it more visibility. His original comment follows below. I don’t give a flying f**k about my country any longer. Why should I when 85% of the population (probably… Continue reading A Male Awakening Story: 85% of the Population Hate You (Guest Post by John Smith)
Recently, blog reader Dude posted a link to a video in which a follower of PUA doctrine reveals that he was put into a psychiatric ward after a cold approach. Here is the video: I assume that the information presented is true. Also, I do not want to make fun of this guy, even though… Continue reading PUAs and Psychiatric Wards
I received the following article request: Is a Chad always a Chad? So do most women still consider guys who were Chads in their 20s as Chad in their 30s and 40s assuming the guys stay in decent shape (not sloppy or obese) and take care of their hair (ie if they are balding opt… Continue reading Once a Chad, Always a Chad?
When I look back at the topics I have written about in the last 10+ years, there is a clear progression. I started with writing on how to pickup women, as well as making fun of the pickup community. The latter happened a bit later, but it was an obvious consequence of realizing how nonsensical… Continue reading Ugliness is Political: The Inevitable Rise of Leftism
Back in the days, seduction gurus claimed that “looks don’t matter”, and, according to them, neither did height, race, and penis size. This was the biggest tell that this industry was a complete sham. The backlash against the seduction community, in the form of the black pill community, is maybe a bit too extreme with… Continue reading Environmental Causes of Women Wanting Taller Men
I have been following Thinking Ape for a few years. His content does not fully engage me but I find him interesting enough to listen to in the background. His most recent video is a three-hour-plus conversation with a “doomer”. I don’t want to retreat the content. Instead, I would like to focus on a… Continue reading The Cards You Have Been Dealt
Recently, Pickernanny posted the video below, with the apt caption, “Successfully subverted. I give you modern Western woman”: https://files.catbox.moe/iubf70.mp4 This is a brief clip, not even half a minute long, in which several teenage girls brag about being total sluts, as if it was a badge of honor. Not only is there not a shred… Continue reading Expensive Schools Will not Keep your Daughters Chaste
I have listened to quite a bit of Looks Maximus’s video, which you can find on YouTube and Odysee. He has a pleasant voice and he brings up some rather interesting points. In this article, and subsequent ones, however, I want to focus on key themes of his message. Some of them he does not… Continue reading The Wisdom of “Looks Maximus” (I): You are a Pleb
We previously had discussions about how nonsensical terms like “premature ejaculation” in their current interpretation are. Originally, it means that the man came before his peepee was in her vajayjay. This can certainly happen in the case of an over-excited teen who is about to smash for the first time. These days, however, apparently all… Continue reading Cumming Quickly is an Evolutionary Advantage
Today, I listened to this discussion: The participants are: a host whose name I don’t recall, Sandman, FaceandLMS, and some guy named First. Either the host or “First” let off some of the most absurd statements I’ve heard in a while. I should have time-stamped it but that was not possible as I was doing… Continue reading Beware of Fake BlackPill Gurus!
A reader from Germany recently told me about a rather unusual ad for an online dating app. Normally, these target men. They show young, attractive women who are more than eager to go on a date with unkempt, unsuccessful, and unattractive men. In reality, of course, dating sites tend to contain a lot of fake… Continue reading A Targeted Online Dating Ad for Women
After a brutal two or three months, I have finally had a bit of spare time for myself. Some of it I spent on catching up on my favorite content creators. This is a relatively short list, which includes FaceandLMS. I’m not this guy’s target audience but I like his sense of humor. He’s tuned… Continue reading In Dating, “Something” is Not Necessarily Better than Nothing
Some time ago Chris asked, On previous discussion it has been noted that men consider a woman’s body more important than her face for sexual arousal and/or attraction. A woman can appeal to men in different ways. What do women find arousing in men? A muscular body at 7 percent body fat. etc…? I have… Continue reading Male Appeal to Women: Face, Height, and Body
To me, it is quite obvious that if people had accepted reality for what it is, fads like pick-up artistry would never have taken off. Reality hands out red (and black) pills all the time. In that regard, Martin left a very good comment recently, which I’d like to give more exposure. He wrote the… Continue reading Open Post: Black Pills From Escorts
This is another post on speculative thinking based on evolutionary psychology. It was inspired by a comment made by GoodLookingAndSleazy on an Open Thread. He wrote: It’s funny when girls say that “personality is everything.” WTF do they even mean? Confidence? Sense of humor? Being nice? Cocky? The only thing universal and consistent about what… Continue reading Open Post: What Men and Women Find Attractive in Each other and Why
I think we all agree here that height is a hugely important factor for getting girls. It may even be the most important component of your looks that determines your overall level of success, or your potential maximum. Of course, this argument is based on the assumption that we keep all other factors equal. This… Continue reading Fallacy Time: “Height Doesn’t Matter Because I’m Doing Better than My Taller Friends”
In a recent Open Thread we discussed whether women are really attracted to their husbands. I stated that most women are not, and based this on the observation that women flock towards a small fraction of men in online and real-life dating. Those men get all the action. It’s just another example of the Pareto… Continue reading You Need to Accept the Harsh Truth (About Everything)
Blog reader “john smith” left a great comment on my recent article, There Will be Increasingly Fewer ‘Good Men’ in the Future. I think it deserves more attention, so I am reproducing it in full below, with some minor edits. Message for the younger men: I’m 64, soon to be 65. Divorce-raped, false domestic violence… Continue reading MGTOW Message from a 64-year-old Veteran
When browsing the black pill wiki incels.wiki, I came across an entry for the term “chadstruck“, which is their version of the term “lovestruck”. Of course, this is not a perfect equivalence as intense physical attraction has little to do with love and much more with lust. Yet, it may very well be the only… Continue reading Chadstruck: The Paramount Importance of Physical Attraction in Dating
The YouTube channel IncelTV hosts the following clip, which was shared with us by blog reader Lisbon. It contains scenes from a dating show called “Take me Out” that seems to be designed to boost the ego of women and shatter the ego of unattractive men. Have a look: As cruel as this TV show… Continue reading This TV Show Demonstrates how much Looks matters
