In a recent Open Thread we discussed whether women are really attracted to their husbands. I stated that most women are not, and based this on the observation that women flock towards a small fraction of men in online and real-life dating. Those men get all the action. It’s just another example of the Pareto… Continue reading You Need to Accept the Harsh Truth (About Everything)
I would guess that most of my readers are in their 20s and 30s. However, there are outliers on both ends. The oldest guy who ever contacted me was in his 60s. We also get the occasional teenager showing up. This year I also had a few clients in their early twenties who told me… Continue reading There Will be Increasingly Fewer “Good Men” in the Future
In a recent exchange in the comments section, blog reader “GoodLookingAndSleazy” pointed out the existence of the concept of men having some (supposedly) unknown quality that makes them irresistible. It is often referred by the French expression “je ne sais quoi”, which translates to “I don’t know what”. Interestingly, it is only the most handsome… Continue reading How Women Benefit From Claiming that Personality, not Looks, Matter in Men
There are countless fringe communities, many wholesome, some harmful. Most of them happily exist in their own little bubble. Very few of them outwardly promote themselves. For instance, in the gay community, the garishness of the “queers” is viewed with some disdain. Yet, any sexual perversion is getting plenty of airtime in mainstream media, and… Continue reading If MGTOW Wasn’t a Threat, the Mainstream Would Ignore it
Imagine you ask your boss if you could get a certain qualification, of course sponsored by the company. At first he is a bit skeptical yet mildly supportive, telling you that you should hit some milestones first or maybe just put in a few more years. You diligently do that. Later, you revisit this topic.… Continue reading Admitting That It Is Not Going to Happen
Two of my recent posts seemed to have the theme, “Just get a doll!“, alluding to Turd Flinging Monkey’s catchphrase. A reader of my blog pointed me to another recent case that is not quite as head-spinning as getting locked up for being unattractive, but it is by no means something to just laugh at.… Continue reading Asian Chad has to pay $5k in Arbitration Court For Letting a Chick Abuse Him
I recently wrote a post about a guy in the UK who is facing up to ten years in jail and may have to register as a sex offender for touching a girl’s elbow. It was a girl he knew from his school, but that did not help him. He just wasn’t good-looking enough. That… Continue reading Pick-up Artist Jailed for Two Years for Creeping Out Girls
I recall that we once joked about, on my old blog, that the difference between sexual harassment and flirting is simply due to how attractive you are. If you’re good looking, you’re flirting with her, but if you’re not, you’re sexually harassing her. The sad thing is that this isn’t a joke. When feminists campaign… Continue reading Awkward Geek is Facing Years of Jail for Touching a Girl’s Elbow
Men are the favorite punching bag of the liberal mainstream, in particular if they are white and straight. While it is not the case that the Incel crowd is defined by skin color — from what I gather, a significant part of it consists of Indians working in the United States — the scorn that… Continue reading The Incel Phenomenon Affects Women More than Men
Some time ago a Chinese music video went viral in which a girl group sang that in order to date a guy, he has to have a house and a car. This was good for a chuckle. Here is the video: As I remembered this, I did a bit of research on dating customs in… Continue reading Honest Chinese vs Dishonest Western Dating
In the United States, prostitution is illegal in most states. On top, there is a perceived negative stigma of paying for sex. Only losers do so, feminists and soy-boys wail. I have had a few clients from the US who were curious about the societal attitude towards prostitution in Europe. For some reason, they tend… Continue reading Fucking Prostitutes is for Winners, not Losers!
Recently one of my readers mentioned a resource I was not familiar with, incels.wiki. While I view the incel community with some skepticism due to its often evident defeatism, that does not mean that a lot of the knowledge gathered over there is without value. Quite the contrary, in fact. In particular, I would like… Continue reading Scientific Realism in Dating
I have written a few posts about my run-ins with gym thots before. I thought I had seen plenty of obnoxious behavior already, all aimed at getting the maximum exposure to men. Yet, two behaviors stood out to me recently. Both happened in the free-weights section. Here is the first one. Imagine you are a… Continue reading New Lows in Gym Thottery
I have been sitting on a complete draft of Sleazy Stories IV for a few months now, and I could have put out a fifth book in this series by now as well. However, I can’t quite bring myself to continue with it. At some point in the not-too-distant future I most certainly will, however.… Continue reading Sexual Degeneracy and Societal Decline
Last month I wrote an article on real-time image manipulation, which included FaceTune as an example and also a video of some YouTube creator who demonstrated the effect of a filter. It made him look a good ten years younger. With FaceTune, women can, among others, increase the size of their eyes. Looking younger and… Continue reading The Next Frontier in Real-Time Visual Trickery
A few weeks ago one of my readers posted a video of a brief report on North Korea and remarked that the women in it are very good-looking. This piqued my curiosity, so, for the sake of research, I watched that video and concluded that the native women were indeed quite pretty. Likewise, the comments… Continue reading Women in Representative Roles in China vs. The West
Recently, one of my readers asked why women nowadays seem to get tattoos more often than men. (This observation is correct.) I’ll answer this question later, but I’d like to first start by exploring why women get tattoos. The following is a series of hypotheses that are based on observations and reflections, and they have… Continue reading Why Women Get Tattoos
I recently watched John Wick 3, which is a decent action flick. The artistic vision of it is a bit muddled, and not just because I dislike seeing a dude wearing a black suit, black dress shirt, and a black tie. Who comes up with such bullshit? What is worse is the retro-futurism the movie… Continue reading There are hardly any women without tattoos anymore
I was first made aware of how women manipulate images of themselves when I dipped my toes into online dating well over a decade ago. I had one encounter where I was supposed to meet up with a total stunner. She had breathtaking pictures on her profile. What I got to see in real life,… Continue reading Photoshop was Yesterday: The New Reality of Female Image Manipulation
It seems that there has been an influx of blue-pilled cucks or women pretending to be men recently. One of them wrote, in response to my article Men Who No Longer Really Care About Women: I don’t really care much about partner count per se, because certain circumstances lead to those partner counts. I actually… Continue reading There are No Accidental Whores
I received a comment on my post The Emptiness of Travelling and Travelling Sluts that reminded me of the heydays of the PUA community. I quote, I think the sluttiness applies to a particular demographic, think lower-class British girls with slabs of makeup on. Such comments only thinly veil the insecurity of the person writing… Continue reading Middle Class Women Are the Biggest Sluts
This post is a follow-up to my recent article, The Gym Thot Invasion of the Free Weights Section, which I concluded with the observation that gym thots don’t seem to be getting the kind of attention they want. Consequently, they may ramp up the sluttiness to even higher levels. It is already the case that… Continue reading Gym Thot, Cover Thyself!
Based on my admittedly limited knowledge that is based on the one gym I go to, it seems that we have a reached a tipping point with regards to the collective effort of thots to conquer gyms. While, numerically speaking, women may well have been a majority in gyms all along, even though many of… Continue reading The Gym Thot Invasion of the Free Weights Section
The topic of women who love traveling recently came up in the comments, so I decided to organize my thoughts on this matter. First and foremost, traveling has become an utterly meaningless experience. In much of the world, you get basically the exact same products and services. If some woman tells you she loves flying… Continue reading The Emptiness of Travelling and Travelling Sluts
Over the years I have lost all interest in the output of Hollywood. The last two somewhat recent movies I enjoyed were Edge of Tomorrow and Battle Angel Alita. Perhaps it is no coincidence that they are both adaptations of Japanese source material. Japan is indeed where I get my entertainment from nowadays. A big… Continue reading Irreverent Sexual Humor and Depictions of Women in Anime and Manga
We are in a new age of censorship. It is quite surprising that it has taken this long for the powers that be to crack down on free speech online. I think the main reason is that the elites where simply unable to fathom the revolutionary power of the Internet, which can give every Joe,… Continue reading Writing in the Age of Censorship
On a recent coaching call, a client told me that he sometimes meets women via online dating who seem fundamentally pissed off. He could not quite explain why that is because the preceding exchange online did not raise any red flags. However, there is a big reason why you encounter such women, and it has… Continue reading Why Women Often Get Bitter in their 20s
Have you ever wondered why the mainstream backs women so strongly and eagerly lashes out at men? The reason is quite simple: even though there is an income gap — not a pay gap — between men and women, in relationships, women largely control how the money is spent. Her money is her money, but… Continue reading Capitalist Backing of Female Empowerment
When my first wife wanted to start an argument, she would visit this very blog and skim a few posts until she came across something she did not like. Given the content you find on here, it did not take her very long to do so. Then she would lash out at me for being… Continue reading Writing “Bad Things” About Women
Has it ever struck you as odd that SJWs not only have a double standard about virtual men versus virtual women but also about the objectification of real women versus the objectification of virtual ones? As a case of the former, consider that titillating female video game characters cause waves of protest; censorship is now… Continue reading Why SJWs Love Twitch Thots but Hate Sexy Virtual Women
In a recent article, I wrote about the cognitive dissonance of women who believe that their professional success is due to their own ability as opposed to affirmative action and quotas. Some women are indeed so deluded that they do not even realize that theirs is a make work job that is merely seen as… Continue reading Examples of “Easy Mode” for Women
A friend of mine from Berlin recently told me about an utterly bizarre date. The guy itself is quite interesting. Judging by how he dresses, in his spare time, you’d believe him to be a bit of a leftie, yet he has shifted hard to the right in recent years, after experiencing first-hand what it’s… Continue reading A Friend’s Bizarre Tinder Date
I took a walk in my area in the late afternoon yesterday. It’s a quiet and peaceful part of town, yet I suddenly heard booming music. As I was walking in that direction anyway, I checked it out. Note that there are no gangs in my part of town, so I view it as incredibly… Continue reading The Kindergarten Thot Party
The other day, someone on Reddit mentioned that porn star Christy Mack got beaten to a pulp by her boyfriend after he found her in bed with another guy. The context was that not even the unarticulated threat of physical violence can keep damaged women in check (would you fuck over a guy who looks… Continue reading The Curse of High-Definition Porn (No, it’s not about ‘addiction’ and women who look ‘too good’)
Alek Novy asked me recently to elaborate a bit on my second time hitting the clubs (see the comments here), i.e. after my first marriage had fallen apart. As my reply got a bit long, I’m posting it below. Compared to my first time, the age of women was skewing a bit higher, mid-to-late twenties… Continue reading My Second Stint in Clubs
There was one comment on my last article, Success with Women and the Diminishing Returns of Money: Billionaire Edition, which I thought deserves some further discussion. In short, one reader claimed the following: They may date and marry plain women but I can assure you their side women and whores are top-notch. This statement may… Continue reading Money and Quality of Service of Escorts
There is the widely-held belief that more money makes you more successful with women. I consider this a highly dubious claim. First, for hook-ups, the question of how thick your wallet is likely does not even enter the picture. Sure, if you’re operating at the level of a genuine hobo, the most chiseled abs most… Continue reading Success with Women and the Diminishing Returns of Money: Billionaire Edition
I recently wondered if the website TagTheSponsor is still around. It is. There is seemingly no shortage of women on Instagram who are ready to get pooped on by an oil sheik — or someone who pretends to be one. In case you are not familiar with that site, its goal is to provide proof… Continue reading Why TagTheSponsor is an Evergreen Site
At work I listen to electronic dance music a lot. A track I quite recently came across is “Girls & Boys” by Bali Bandits, some no-name duo. It’s a great track. Give it a listen if you like EDM: This is the kind of music I loved dancing to when I roamed the clubs. The… Continue reading Pick-up and the Degeneracy Dilemma, or: Why you probably won’t find a good girlfriend or wife
As I have been going through the material for my book on relationships, I had an interesting insight. It is generally acknowledged that the hook-up culture has been made possible by women’s “liberation”. Feminists told them that it is okay to be sluts, and women all over the industrialized world listened. We also know that… Continue reading Hook-up Culture is a “Hack” of Female Hypergamy
I received a long and very well written email by a reader recently, who shared his thoughts on an article published by the BBC, entitled “The Christmas present that could tear your family apart.” In short, it points out that doing a DNA test with the entire family could very well be that family’s end… Continue reading Are DNA Tests Tearing Families Apart?
The other day I listened to Joe Rogan’s most recent interview with Jordan Peterson while doing some chores. I did not find it overly interesting, but one remark stood out. Peterson claims that the link between women’s liberation and prosperity “seems causal”, i.e. the more a society “liberates” women from their child-bearing duties, the more… Continue reading The Link between Prosperity and Women’s Liberation
A married couple I know recently had a disagreement. The wife got into a foul mood because her husband asked her if she had gained weight. That was already very diplomatic of him because she had visibly gained weight. Now the wife is upset because the criticism of her husband makes her feel more insecure.… Continue reading Not Acknowledging an Issue Does Not Make it Disappear
When you see a thot down the street you may wonder what her parents may think of her. Surely, they cannot be fine with her letting her tits hang out or getting pumped and dumped by Chad and Tyrone all the time. Yet, you would be wrong. It is quite likely that the mother actively… Continue reading Some Parents are Proud of Thot Daughters
Quite recently there was a comment by a new reader of this blog. He wrote the following as a response to my article Would you bother with women if prostitution was legal and (very) cheap?. I’m actually living this lifestyle. I live in Austria, prostitution is legal here, and I have sex with escorts/prostitutes on… Continue reading Married Men and Hookers
When watching 500 Days of Summer, I also noticed that the man is acting like a woman. He shouts, he cries, he loses control of his life. We see him drink, stop going to work, or behave like an ass to colleagues because he doesn’t feel good. This seemed incongruent to me because these are… Continue reading Emotional Reactions are for Women, not Men
Out of curiosity, I recently watched the romantic comedy “500 Days of Summer”. I was pretty certain it would be utter shit. Really, don’t expect too much. However, the relevant part is that that movie was a massive box office success. It was made on a budget of a few million dollars, but it brought… Continue reading The movie “500 Days of Summer” and its Glorification of the Utterly Mediocre Woman
On my last trip to Singapore I attended a meeting at a company that is located in one of those big office skyscrapers. After making it past the lobby, I stepped into the elevator. There, I noticed that there was a bright white camera that stood out very clearly from the dark interior of the… Continue reading Surveillance cameras protect men more than women
Women are already complaining that there are “no good men left”. Of course, women who make those laments are commonly not what one would consider good girls. So, the issue is not that there are no good men left, but that those good men either pick younger, more attractive, and mentally healthier women or they… Continue reading The Coming Collapse of Casual Dating
Over the summer I had some time to kill. When the announcement of a new Pokemon game for the Nintendo Switch was made, it struck me that I never played any games in that series. On a whim, I tried one out: Pokemon FireRed, which is a remake of the original Pokemon Red. In short,… Continue reading Pokemon FireRed is Red-Pilled