As I revealed recently, I have been working on a book on online dating. In my notes, I came across a particular incident, which probably won’t show up in that book. However, you may get a kick out of it. Tinder is a pretty decent tool. You may think it is only for hooking up,… Continue reading Seen on Tinder: Free Rent in Exchange for Sex
The other day I found myself in a business meeting. We were mostly a bunch of new faces to each other, so we took turns briefly introducing ourselves. Of course, to make things a bit friendlier, we followed up the brief summary of our respective professional backgrounds with one or two sentences about our personal… Continue reading The Socially Acceptable Hobbies of Women
The other day I heard about a personal tragedy in my extended social circle, alongthe lines of a friend of a friend of a friend’s personal misfortune. It involves a young couple. Both are in their early twenties. The woman has a reputation ofbeing a slut. Often, this means that other women are jealous of her looks,… Continue reading Why Men Cheat on Sluts
I recently read the Korean high literature manga “H-Campus”, which is short for “Hentai Campus”. It’s reasonably entertaining but I can’t recommend it fully, so there won’t be a proper review. The story is irrelevant, but for context I’ll add that it’s about a new degree program at a fictional Korean university that teaches you… Continue reading How Your Fuck Buddy Deludes Herself
I have noticed a particular kind of pattern among some of the women I interact with. Well, let’s start with the guys first: Most guys, but not nearly all, do a diligent job. They somehow realize that they get a paycheck in exchange for sticking to their job description. You ask for information or request… Continue reading Serial Dating Makes Women Bad Workers
One of my readers recently raised the question of whether it is unethical to pick up (easy) women, or whether it is even your duty. He referred to a statement I once made, namely that if you don’t pick them up and fuck them, then someone else likely will. The reasoning is simply that seduction… Continue reading Ethical Considerations of Picking Up Women
One of the dumbest pieces of supposed wisdom relating to the sexes that are floating around is that women are the gatekeepers of sex, but men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Women often say that crap. It has very little to do with reality, however. Here is what is going on: Your typical uncritical woman… Continue reading Men are not the Gatekeepers of Relationships
Jeff Bezos is the richest man in the world if you exclude all those shadowy people who hold their wealth in trusts which they do not legally own, such as the Queen of England and the trillions she has stashed away this way. Bezos made his money with Amazon, which briefly was the most valuable… Continue reading The Richest Man in the World is Getting a Divorce
In my last post, When Beta Providers Get Laid, It Is Not Real Sex, you have read the following: One girl who relentlessly hit on me for about a year — she hung out in the same clubs as I — ended up with two kids from two guys. I remember her bitching about some… Continue reading An Example of an Alpha Putting a Woman in her Place
If you want to be happily married, the odds are stacked against you. The divorce rate is around 50%. On top, you can safely assume that not all the remaining marriages are happy ones. Just read up on issues like dead bedrooms, marital infidelity, or, for a perhaps unexpected twist, the fate of guys who… Continue reading The happy couple you see may hate each other’s guts
There is the phenomenon of the 30k-millionaire, i.e. the guy who barely gets by but who pretends to be a big spender. If you have ever been to an expensive club and seen four or five guys sharing a table with exactly one bottle, that is the kind of guy I am talking about. They… Continue reading The futility of wanting to impress women with money
My dating advice largely centers around the importance of looks, status, and money. Of course, this is in stark contrast to mainstream advice by dating gurus who proclaim that “looks don’t matter”. It is of little surprise that about a decade after the PUA heydays, such claims are no longer as prominently made. People have… Continue reading Acknowledging the realities of dating is not defeatism
An issue that will affect all men who ever marry is that your chances of marrying someone who turns out to have a toxic personality is quite high. If you doubt my claim that the majority of guys will get screwed, then look up divorce statistics and take into considerations that surely a non-trivial number… Continue reading This is how men end up marrying the wrong woman
When I had dinner with a friend of mine in Singapore, I dropped that I was intending to get married once more. He is married himself, but because very few of his friends are, he could not contain his bewilderment. The first thing he mentioned was that those friends of his “don’t think women are… Continue reading Men not Wanting to Marry or even Date: Anecdotes from Singapore
I recently came across the seedy Korean manga SStudy by Husky-Nom and Edge-Edge, which has been translated as Sunggi’s Study Group. I quite enjoyed it. During its three seasons, which total 77 installments, we follow a group of young Korean men and women whose life is in limbo. They have finished high school, and their… Continue reading The Korean manga “SStudy” shows how women lead men astray and wreck their life
I recently caught up with a few old friends. Some of them still live in Berlin, others used to live there, but moved away. Yet, they still have contact with friends there. What I noticed upon reflection was that in terms of interest in women, many of those guys seem to have moved beyond Western… Continue reading Men Dropping out of Dating: Contemporary Berlin
Ever since I divorced my wife, quite a few people asked me how I handled the financial part of it. Those people were also often surprised that I was in such a great mood and seemingly unaffected by the divorce proceedings. While I certainly appreciated that some people, including regular readers of my blog, reached… Continue reading The Economics of My First Marriage and Divorce
Previously, I have written about various aspects of sex dolls, both their effect on the dating market as well as economic aspects from the point of view of a whoremonger or a brothel owner. In this post, I will do some back-of-the-envelope calculations that will show how truly disastrous sex dolls will be for real… Continue reading The Breathtaking Economics of a Sex Doll vs a Girl Friend vs a Hooker
Despite “progressive” outlets claiming that women constitute about half of gamers, the reality is that those numbers only work out if you pretend that highly simplistic mobile phone games are video games. If you, on the other hand, consider only games that run on dedicated hardware, be it the PC or a game console, the… Continue reading Why Women Dislike Guys who Play Video Games
Some weeks ago I came across a blog post by a high-ranking Google engineer, an early employee who is most certainly worth many millions of dollars. His post was about his wife, who died all of a sudden. He didn’t mention the cause of death. I don’t want to draw undue attention to him, and… Continue reading Does a (perceived) lack of choice make men settle for fat women?
We are all very aware of the issues with typical Western women. They are entitled, overweight and unattractive, disrespectful, and slutty. In general, they bring very little to the table. Of course, not all women are like that, but if you pick a Western woman at random, it is much more likely than not that… Continue reading Women from China and South East Asia aren’t Unicorns
You’re horny and you want to get laid. Because you know what matters for short-term sexual attraction, you work out and dress well. Thus, you spend a lot of time, energy, and money to look good so that one of the girls at the local club decides to spread her legs for you. You think… Continue reading With Women, Your Reward for Success is Working Harder and Paying More
A topic I’ve been discussing quite a bit with my girlfriend recently is how Asian culture affects men much more negatively than women. After all, a submissive woman is desirable, while a submissive man is not. In this post, my submissive Asian cutie describes two of her cucked friends. I will follow this up with… Continue reading Guest post by my girlfriend: Two exemplary cucked Asian men
Alek Novy pointed me to the video below, which has Roosh talking about “game” in the current year. It seems to have been taken from some kind of “State of the Union” address to his followers. Go watch the entire thing if you want. It’s just a few minutes long. His main claim is that… Continue reading Roosh thinks that “game” is getting harder
As I’ve talked about earlier, I deliberately abstained from women in my adolescence, chasing a dream instead. Only after that didn’t quite come to fruition did I start bothering with women. Partly, I did this out of curiosity. Things turned out quite well on that front, and I probably got hooked a bit too much… Continue reading You win by not playing
While my piece on Nelly Furtado hitting The Wall could be seen as a spiteful attack on the dignity of a woman, it is much closer to the truth that there is a very important message hidden in it, and one most of you should be well-aware of: modern Western women age brutally fast. From… Continue reading Don’t bother settling down if you can only get sub-standard women
Blog reader Alvin quite recently left a comment on sex and its appeal for inexperienced men on the latest Open Thread. I quote the main part: For me personally, I think when I didn’t have sex there was a kind of “mystique” about it. Once I had it however, that mystique faded; I found that… Continue reading You need to stop viewing sex as oh-so special
While we have grown very skeptical of the idea of keeping a woman around for a long-term relationship, with the exception of the truly exceptional ones, the average Joe still wants to have a girlfriend or a wife at all costs. Thus, it is interesting to look at what those costs include. I find them… Continue reading The true cost of a woman
Some time ago one of my clients asked me how to avoid drama in your life. Let’s say you bang a lot of women. Sooner or later, you’ll come across someone crazy. She could be a stalker, she could be a crazy feminist who is pissed at the world and is looking for a man… Continue reading Seducer survival tip: Don’t give her your name
In my last article, Your sex drive vs. your desire of picking up women, I mentioned that one motivation behind my wild seducer days was that I was pretty obsessed with sex for a while. It’s doubtful whether I could seriously have called myself a sex-addict, but seeing how wishy-washy a discipline psychology is, I… Continue reading Determination and pickup
Some days ago a reader pointed me to Blackdragon’s blog. That is a guy I first encountered on the old mASF forum about a decade ago. I don’t have the impression that he’s stupid, but I always had the impression that his priorities are a bit odd. For one, back then he insisted on solely… Continue reading Your sex drive vs. your desire of picking up women
In my last post, “It is hard to figure out how to do a relationship properly”, I made the argument that “doing” a relationship properly is not difficult in general. It is only difficult for crazy women. As the examples of encounters with crazy women I described was rather extreme, I’d like to elaborate on… Continue reading Why you’ll meet crazier women through one-night stands
In my most recent bashing of Lauren Southern, I mocked her, among others, for making the claim that it is hard to figure out how to do a relationship properly. If you have only ever encountered typical Western women, you are probably inclined to agree with that statement, but let’s dig a little bit deeper.… Continue reading “It is hard to figure out how to do a relationship properly”
Alek Novy just shared a video in which a female matchmaker rants because her female clients had expectations that were completely out of touch with reality. Apparently, they all wanted the buff dominant-but-cucked 22 year-old billionaire who has so little self-respect that he would settle for a run-of-the-mill trashy woman: Apparently she closed her business.… Continue reading Female matchmaker has enough of women with unrealistic expectations
Alek Novy just left an excellent comment on my post on the feminist #metoo circle jerk, which deserves wide attention. He systematically dismantles the myth of sexual harassment and male power, until he arrives at the one category of girl a high-quality male, according to feminists, is allowed to get involved with, and only under… Continue reading According to feminism, your only option is to wait for ugly girls to approach you (Guest post by Alek Novy)
I recently came across an article by one Andy Verderosa with the title, One Man’s Quest to Calculate his Lifetime Average Cost-per-Date. The article itself is not very interesting, but there is one obvious consideration the author does not take into account, which I am going to elaborate on. First, here is the key part… Continue reading The true “true cost” of dating
I occasionally listen to Aaron Clarey’s YouTube videos when I need an excuse for playing a few rounds of Tetris. I tend to agree with most of what he says, but on a few rare occasions he makes statements that only make me shake my head. In particular, a lot of what he has to… Continue reading No, Aaron Clarey, picking a fattie and slimming her down is a bad idea
In my last post I, Men who don’t seriously date in their early 20s dodge bullets, I discussed the downfalls of settling down in one’s adolescence. I also elaborated on why it’s a shockingly bad decision to marry a girl your own age, or, even worse, one who is older than you. My appeal to… Continue reading The importance of post-orgasmic clarity in dating
A few weeks ago I visited my parents for a few days. As they don’t need the space, they kept my room the way it was when I moved out. This put me in the convenient position that I never really had to go through my things and decide what I wanted to keep. However,… Continue reading Men who don’t seriously date in their early 20s dodge bullets
While the PUA industry as a whole has gone bust, there are still a few stragglers around who prey on moronic men. One such PUA is “Johnny Berba”. I wasn’t familiar with him, but Alek Novy posted a video of that guy on one of the recent Open Threads. Watch the video first, please: Alek… Continue reading Cringe-worthy PUA is proud of picking up land whale
My view on dating has changed quite radically over the last year or so. While I used to buy into the Western concept of “dating for fun”, where you meet someone, kind of get along, and then just give it a try, and nothing is ever serious, I have come to much more appreciate a… Continue reading The absurdity of splitting up due to personality differences
This is another old and unpublished post of mine, which I originally wrote in early 2010. I recently received an email in which a guy made an interesting observation while reading through some of my earliest public forum posts: “In one of your post, you wrote how you had trouble sleeping next to a new… Continue reading When learning how to pick up girls, every step closer to the goal is valuable
I’m still going through files that I have amassed over the last 5 to 10 years. While doing so, I unearthed anther article, which I completed but never posted anywhere. The context was that back then, some PUAtards wrote about “neediness management”, which I thought was yet another nonsensical concept. The claim was that guy… Continue reading Neediness Management — A Problem that takes care of itself
I just came across two screenshots I have taken some time ago, one from Reddit, and the other from my old blog. They were taken at different times, but they make a wonderful juxtaposition as they illuminate the difference of the delusions undesirable men and women harbor when it comes to long-term relationships. We have… Continue reading Male vs female delusions about SMV for long-term relationships
It’s been a while since I’ve written about yellow fever. What I’ve noticed, certainly much more online than in real life, is that there is quite a bit of resentment against guys who date Asian bombshells with a sky-high IQ and a pleasant personality. The reactions of white men and white women are quite different,… Continue reading “You’re only dating Asian because you can’t get white girls, waaah!!”
When I think of my bros, I get the impression that none of them ever wanted to have children. Those of them who do, however, all accidentally impregnated their girlfriends or fuck buddies, who were then able to upgrade their relationship to marriage. In the underclass, that kind of behavior may be unusual. Their women… Continue reading The male vs female perspective on wanting to have children
Note: I just came across this post, which I wrote four years ago but apparently never posted. The context was, once again, PUA shilling on my old blog, which strangely enough completely stopped after the commercial PUA industry collapsed. Recently [edit: in early 2013!] someone left the following comment on my blog, attempting to justify… Continue reading Mark Manson’s dubious “5 to 10 minute screening” technique
Blog reader Jake left a fabulous comment on my post “Asian women are stealing our white men!”, which deserves to be read by more of you guys. To me, what the typical Western woman offers is akin to a bowl of rotten food, sold at exorbitant prices. Sure, if you think that is what food… Continue reading Reader Comment: “Dating my first Asian woman made me loathe Western women!”
I voiced my disapproval of YouTuber “Blonde in the Belly of the Beast” in my last post already, but in more general terms. As I dug around some more, I noticed that she has a video on YouTube for men, telling them how to “overcome unattractive beta qualities”. It’s a crock of shit, to be… Continue reading Bad dating advice from “Blonde in the Belly of the Beast”
(Note: this is another post that is based on an old draft. The reference to Alek Novy is about a very active discussion on my old blog, where we dissected the “social contract” in dating, i.e. men approach women, which leaves women initially powerless, but spares them from rejection.) We’ve heard the feminist bullshit: men… Continue reading The true power dynamics on the sexual market place