I had a very interesting consultation session a few weeks ago. It centered on leaving the pickup scene behind at or perhaps slightly after your peak, and the risk of missing this window. As I have real-world friends who are in the corresponding age range, i.e. roughly their mid-30s to early 40s, this was a… Continue reading The Off-Ramp in Pickup
Pickernanny just posted a detailed and highly accurate post on the correlation between porn-like sex and dealing with a cluster B-type woman, which I have decided to repost as an article to give it greater visibility. In light of Cheeky_James recent arrival and skimming through the conversations, and reflecting on some of my past encounters… Continue reading Guest Post: Reflecting on Cluster B-Type Women (By Pickernanny)
I once dated a woman who could best be called a social butterfly, with a very large circle of friends. Of course, the guys only hung around because they wanted to fuck her, and the other girls she did not even like that much but those were the friends she had. They competed against each… Continue reading Women who Brunch
I have notes dating back well over a decade, and there are a few I have not used for articles or any of my books out of respect of various women, albeit chances of them finding this material would have been slim to none. Still, eventually plenty of time passes, and, for instance, some young… Continue reading A Young Slut’s Diary
I received the following article request: Can you discuss how to deal with women who give off mixed signals? I’m not sure if mixed signals are the same as push/pull, hot/cold and playing hard to get. I’ve met very few women who have often given me mixed signals where one minute they are into me and the next minute… Continue reading Understanding Mixed Signals
I had an interesting consultation today, in which one of the topics we discussed was about women you meet up with but feel somewhat indifferent about, despite having originally been quite excited to meet up with them. Surely, many of you have been in similar situations. Keep in mind that I am not talking about… Continue reading Women You Feel Lukewarm About
Recently I had to attend a tech conference. As you can easily guess, the demographics at such events are quite predictable. You have over 90% of guys in the attendance, all of them in some tech field and therefore able to not only feed themselves and even an entire family on one income, if they… Continue reading Beta-Buxxing and the Looks Threshold
A while ago I rewatched James Cameron’s True Lies. It is generally considered one of his weakest movies, if not the weakest one. The criticism is not unwarranted as the plot is pretty nonsensical, the narration long-winded, Schwarzenegger’s acting comical, and the humor and slapstick often fall flat. Nonetheless, it is not a bad movie.… Continue reading Sexual Attraction and the Drive to Reproduce
One of our regulars, GoodLookingAndSleazy, shared an unfortunate story the other day: Christ almighty guys another former coworker of mine killed himself. I just found out yesterday. He was hit by a big rig on the freeway not far from where I live. The investigators don’t know why he was there. I met his dad… Continue reading Banging a Lot of Random Women Can Save Your Life
The other day, ZeroHedge had a throwaway article on the cost of a “cheap date”, defined as “cab rides, dinner/lunch for two at a pub or diner, soft drinks, two movie tickets and a couple of beers”. I would agree that this definition of a blue-pilled standard date is reasonably accurate but you should probably… Continue reading The Blue-Pill Dinner Date Money Pit
We previously discussed the importance of hints at a woman being of good or bad character, e.g. her doing small favors for you or actively trying to please you, not necessarily restricted only to sex. Alas, the opposite also exists, meaning that some where women care little about your needs. I mentioned the example of… Continue reading Female Resource Extraction Strategies, Fast and Slow
I live in a typical Western progressive city, which means that rampant degeneracy is all around me, which I contribute to with my taxes. I still get something back, namely bizarre interactions with society. In this post, I describe a recent one, which would have been impossible in a properly run country. Last weekend, I… Continue reading “My mom looks young for her age”
After a brutal two or three months, I have finally had a bit of spare time for myself. Some of it I spent on catching up on my favorite content creators. This is a relatively short list, which includes FaceandLMS. I’m not this guy’s target audience but I like his sense of humor. He’s tuned… Continue reading In Dating, “Something” is Not Necessarily Better than Nothing
Jack Ryan left a great comment on the new reality of dating in a world stricken by the Covid-19 hoax. He writes: I work as a Correctional Officer in a state prison in the United States and I can tell you everything you said is on point. I noticed when I was still going to… Continue reading Open Post: “I’m playing these women hard like a pimp in today’s dating market”
(No, I’m not talking about killing her. Guys, seriously!) One of my clients recently shared a very interesting story from his dating life with me. In short, he showed up on a date. The woman’s behavior could be described as disinterested to hostile, and after a while, he got up, wished her a good day,… Continue reading The Power of Ending a Bad Date
Blog reader “john smith” left a great comment on my recent article, There Will be Increasingly Fewer ‘Good Men’ in the Future. I think it deserves more attention, so I am reproducing it in full below, with some minor edits. Message for the younger men: I’m 64, soon to be 65. Divorce-raped, false domestic violence… Continue reading MGTOW Message from a 64-year-old Veteran
As has become obvious even to those who used to fully buy into the promises of the pick-up industry, “game” does not exist. If she is not attracted to you, then approaching her from a 45-degree angle from behind or asking her if she flosses before or after brushing is not going to get her… Continue reading Do you have Anti-Game?
In case you watched the stream of SmashGodxXx aka. Asian Chad that cost him $5,000 in the end, you may have perked up when he pushed back. Her opening move was demanding that he buys her dinner. He asked her, “What’s in it for me?” It was clear to him from the get-go that he… Continue reading Consider what’s in it for you before you buy her dinner
Recently I was asked a rather peculiar question. The guy’s issue was that he seemed to only ever meet women who are in a relationship. Consequently, he was wondering what he should do and where he could find single women. Questions like this reveal that (honest) men are at a serious disadvantage in the dating… Continue reading You’ll rarely meet single women
Arguably the key element of seduction is sexual escalation. If you don’t push the interaction from hello to sex, with various steps in between, you will hardly ever get your dick wet because women just won’t do the work for you. Exceptions to the rule exist, for instance if some gold-digger targets you for your… Continue reading How Women Try to Gradually Milk you For Money
After I published my article “A Friend’s Bizarre Tinder Date”, Sleazy’s Gal, who happens to know that guy as well, asked me if his love life has gotten more successful after getting his new job. The context is that he made a career transition that took some time to get going. He quit a decent… Continue reading Economic Success and Success with Women
When guys bring up the problems associated with dating modern women, such as their boundless narcissism, general lack of interests, shallowness, or the fact that dating is a rather costly affair, all with a doubtful payoff, feminists and their enablers are quick to shout that “not all women are like that.” We mock this with… Continue reading The NAWALT Claim is an Admission of Defeat
As I revealed recently, I have been working on a book on online dating. In my notes, I came across a particular incident, which probably won’t show up in that book. However, you may get a kick out of it. Tinder is a pretty decent tool. You may think it is only for hooking up,… Continue reading Seen on Tinder: Free Rent in Exchange for Sex
The other day I found myself in a business meeting. We were mostly a bunch of new faces to each other, so we took turns briefly introducing ourselves. Of course, to make things a bit friendlier, we followed up the brief summary of our respective professional backgrounds with one or two sentences about our personal… Continue reading The Socially Acceptable Hobbies of Women
The other day I heard about a personal tragedy in my extended social circle, along the lines of a friend of a friend of a friend’s personal misfortune. It involves a young couple. Both are in their early twenties. The woman has a reputation of being a slut. Often, this means that other women are jealous of… Continue reading Why Men Cheat on Sluts
I recently read the Korean high literature manga “H-Campus”, which is short for “Hentai Campus”. It’s reasonably entertaining but I can’t recommend it fully, so there won’t be a proper review. The story is irrelevant, but for context I’ll add that it’s about a new degree program at a fictional Korean university that teaches you… Continue reading How Your Fuck Buddy Deludes Herself
I have noticed a particular kind of pattern among some of the women I interact with. Well, let’s start with the guys first: Most guys, but not nearly all, do a diligent job. They somehow realize that they get a paycheck in exchange for sticking to their job description. You ask for information or request… Continue reading Serial Dating Makes Women Bad Workers
One of my readers recently raised the question of whether it is unethical to pick up (easy) women, or whether it is even your duty. He referred to a statement I once made, namely that if you don’t pick them up and fuck them, then someone else likely will. The reasoning is simply that seduction… Continue reading Ethical Considerations of Picking Up Women
One of the dumbest pieces of supposed wisdom relating to the sexes that are floating around is that women are the gatekeepers of sex, but men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Women often say that crap. It has very little to do with reality, however. Here is what is going on: Your typical uncritical woman… Continue reading Men are not the Gatekeepers of Relationships
Jeff Bezos is the richest man in the world if you exclude all those shadowy people who hold their wealth in trusts which they do not legally own, such as the Queen of England and the trillions she has stashed away this way. Bezos made his money with Amazon, which briefly was the most valuable… Continue reading The Richest Man in the World is Getting a Divorce
In my last post, When Beta Providers Get Laid, It Is Not Real Sex, you have read the following: One girl who relentlessly hit on me for about a year — she hung out in the same clubs as I — ended up with two kids from two guys. I remember her bitching about some… Continue reading An Example of an Alpha Putting a Woman in her Place
If you want to be happily married, the odds are stacked against you. The divorce rate is around 50%. On top, you can safely assume that not all the remaining marriages are happy ones. Just read up on issues like dead bedrooms, marital infidelity, or, for a perhaps unexpected twist, the fate of guys who… Continue reading The happy couple you see may hate each other’s guts
There is the phenomenon of the 30k-millionaire, i.e. the guy who barely gets by but who pretends to be a big spender. If you have ever been to an expensive club and seen four or five guys sharing a table with exactly one bottle, that is the kind of guy I am talking about. They… Continue reading The futility of wanting to impress women with money
My dating advice largely centers around the importance of looks, status, and money. Of course, this is in stark contrast to mainstream advice by dating gurus who proclaim that “looks don’t matter”. It is of little surprise that about a decade after the PUA heydays, such claims are no longer as prominently made. People have… Continue reading Acknowledging the realities of dating is not defeatism
An issue that will affect all men who ever marry is that your chances of marrying someone who turns out to have a toxic personality is quite high. If you doubt my claim that the majority of guys will get screwed, then look up divorce statistics and take into considerations that surely a non-trivial number… Continue reading This is how men end up marrying the wrong woman
When I had dinner with a friend of mine in Singapore, I dropped that I was intending to get married once more. He is married himself, but because very few of his friends are, he could not contain his bewilderment. The first thing he mentioned was that those friends of his “don’t think women are… Continue reading Men not Wanting to Marry or even Date: Anecdotes from Singapore
I recently came across the seedy Korean manga SStudy by Husky-Nom and Edge-Edge, which has been translated as Sunggi’s Study Group. I quite enjoyed it. During its three seasons, which total 77 installments, we follow a group of young Korean men and women whose life is in limbo. They have finished high school, and their… Continue reading The Korean manga “SStudy” shows how women lead men astray and wreck their life
I recently caught up with a few old friends. Some of them still live in Berlin, others used to live there, but moved away. Yet, they still have contact with friends there. What I noticed upon reflection was that in terms of interest in women, many of those guys seem to have moved beyond Western… Continue reading Men Dropping out of Dating: Contemporary Berlin
Ever since I divorced my wife, quite a few people asked me how I handled the financial part of it. Those people were also often surprised that I was in such a great mood and seemingly unaffected by the divorce proceedings. While I certainly appreciated that some people, including regular readers of my blog, reached… Continue reading The Economics of My First Marriage and Divorce
Previously, I have written about various aspects of sex dolls, both their effect on the dating market as well as economic aspects from the point of view of a whoremonger or a brothel owner. In this post, I will do some back-of-the-envelope calculations that will show how truly disastrous sex dolls will be for real… Continue reading The Breathtaking Economics of a Sex Doll vs a Girl Friend vs a Hooker
Despite “progressive” outlets claiming that women constitute about half of gamers, the reality is that those numbers only work out if you pretend that highly simplistic mobile phone games are video games. If you, on the other hand, consider only games that run on dedicated hardware, be it the PC or a game console, the… Continue reading Why Women Dislike Guys who Play Video Games
Some weeks ago I came across a blog post by a high-ranking Google engineer, an early employee who is most certainly worth many millions of dollars. His post was about his wife, who died all of a sudden. He didn’t mention the cause of death. I don’t want to draw undue attention to him, and… Continue reading Does a (perceived) lack of choice make men settle for fat women?
We are all very aware of the issues with typical Western women. They are entitled, overweight and unattractive, disrespectful, and slutty. In general, they bring very little to the table. Of course, not all women are like that, but if you pick a Western woman at random, it is much more likely than not that… Continue reading Women from China and South East Asia aren’t Unicorns
You’re horny and you want to get laid. Because you know what matters for short-term sexual attraction, you work out and dress well. Thus, you spend a lot of time, energy, and money to look good so that one of the girls at the local club decides to spread her legs for you. You think… Continue reading With Women, Your Reward for Success is Working Harder and Paying More
A topic I’ve been discussing quite a bit with my girlfriend recently is how Asian culture affects men much more negatively than women. After all, a submissive woman is desirable, while a submissive man is not. In this post, my submissive Asian cutie describes two of her cucked friends. I will follow this up with… Continue reading Guest post by my girlfriend: Two exemplary cucked Asian men
Alek Novy pointed me to the video below, which has Roosh talking about “game” in the current year. It seems to have been taken from some kind of “State of the Union” address to his followers. Go watch the entire thing if you want. It’s just a few minutes long. His main claim is that… Continue reading Roosh thinks that “game” is getting harder
As I’ve talked about earlier, I deliberately abstained from women in my adolescence, chasing a dream instead. Only after that didn’t quite come to fruition did I start bothering with women. Partly, I did this out of curiosity. Things turned out quite well on that front, and I probably got hooked a bit too much… Continue reading You win by not playing
While my piece on Nelly Furtado hitting The Wall could be seen as a spiteful attack on the dignity of a woman, it is much closer to the truth that there is a very important message hidden in it, and one most of you should be well-aware of: modern Western women age brutally fast. From… Continue reading Don’t bother settling down if you can only get sub-standard women
Blog reader Alvin quite recently left a comment on sex and its appeal for inexperienced men on the latest Open Thread. I quote the main part: For me personally, I think when I didn’t have sex there was a kind of “mystique” about it. Once I had it however, that mystique faded; I found that… Continue reading You need to stop viewing sex as oh-so special
While we have grown very skeptical of the idea of keeping a woman around for a long-term relationship, with the exception of the truly exceptional ones, the average Joe still wants to have a girlfriend or a wife at all costs. Thus, it is interesting to look at what those costs include. I find them… Continue reading The true cost of a woman
