I just returned from a doctor’s appointment of my wife, which I attended in case there are any language issues. The visit went about as bad as you could imagine. My wife has recurring back pains, nothing overly serious, but she wanted to get a prescription for physiotherapy. The actual appointment was almost like a… Continue reading Medicine is a Nasty Subscription Business
In the hey-days of the pickup industry, I got the occasionally genuinely bizarre request, e.g. guys who were relatively old virgins telling me that they want not just to have sex with women but they had very specific ideas about having multiple fuck buddies around. One told me about a very particular practice he was… Continue reading Getting a Taste of What You Think You Want
There is a very peculiar claim that is very popular among apparently all hucksters and grifters, namely the claim that you should not be too careful about spending your money because you can “always make money back”. In contrast, you need to be protective of your time because it is simply limited. This statement may… Continue reading You Can Neither Make Money Back nor Time
I mentioned before that I moved away from the degeneracy that is so widely celebrated in our big Western cities. Currently, I am renting an attached house in a village. We have a small garden, a tiny one, actually. Overall, this patch of grass amounts to perhaps 30 square meters in total. This is obviously… Continue reading The Joy of Gardening
The topic of this post, which is based on a comment left by Maou, had been on my backlog for over a year, but a few days ago I received an email by someone else, asking about it and if I would be interested in responding to that comment as part of an article request.… Continue reading Reflections on a Possibly Wasted Decade Spent on Picking up Women
I am in the perhaps rare situation that my wife is a homemaker, and one who enjoys cooking. This was completely normal as little as thirty years ago but when I mention this today, I get told that I need to be “more inclusive” in my language. This is not a joke. I once casually… Continue reading Following the Recipe
The term “schizo” is often used in a somewhat derogatory way, implying that someone has lost touch with reality, seeing connections that are not there. There is also the aspect that people are often quickly labelled as supposed schizos because they make connections that are very obvious to them yet completely unfathomable to run-of-the-mill mid-wits.… Continue reading Schizo Mindset, Winner Mindset
P Ray recently asked if he could write a guest post on the advantages of lady boys over regular women. You will find his detailed thoughts on the issue below. First, lets get a few obvious things out of the way. If you are looking for “the one” to father children then obviously this advice… Continue reading Guest Post: The Case for Lady Boys (by P Ray)
In my last article, I made the statement, “If money was taken care of, probably a fair number of men would be fine with just pursuing their hobbies.” There are some implications to this, which I am exploring further in this post. By and large, I think that men are happiest if they have some… Continue reading Work, then What?
Adaptability is one of the biggest strengths of men, and it is also arguably one of their biggest weaknesses. To put it simply, you can get used to more or less anything and before you know it, this environment will be your new normal. Anybody who has ever travelled to a poorer country probably knows… Continue reading Getting out of the Shit Tier
I received the following article request, which is related to my article on dealing with a failed relationship: What’s the best course of action when moving on after a failed relationship and dealing with the emotional pain? For example, I’ve heard people say, make some goals, take a trip, but all this sounds easier said… Continue reading Mental Resilience
I received the following article request: When a Chad is surrounded by other Chads, do those Chads ever pose a sexual threat? I posted this comment in one of your Open Threads. How should a Chad handle these situations? How does an aging Chad cope that his looks are fading and will no longer be… Continue reading Aspects of Chad Psychology
I used to think that all this talk in some corners of the Internet about the harmful influence of porn on society was exaggerated. After talking to men who told me about their genuine porn addiction, I changed my mind on that matter. One guy told me that he used to spend hours every day… Continue reading Another Argument in Favor of No-Fap
I recently spoke to a client who wanted to discuss the direction his life has been going. One issue we breached was having children. For context, this guy has not even reached his mid-20s but has enjoyed spectacular early success in his career. This year, he expects to pocket $200 to $220k, which probably comfortably… Continue reading If you Want Kids Later, You Can Have Them
Several times in my consultation sessions as well as among friends and acquaintances have I encountered guys being stuck between two worlds. On the one hand, they would like to keep dating (or sleeping) around, or pursuing their hobbies, or make more money, but on the other they also realize that they have been, abstractly… Continue reading The Indecision about Settling Down
A recurring theme on this blog, in particular in the Open Threads, is the discrepancy between reality and the make-believe world the mainstream is pushing. I notice this in my day-to-day life as well, with people acting not in accordance with reality but some kind of gobbledegook world that is so inconsistent that your head… Continue reading Smile Less!
In an extended exchange with one of my readers who seems rather impervious to reasoned argument, I was hit with the following statement: You are writing this like I’m not aware of all the theories which float around in far-right circles. It’s not like you are such a creative genius Aaron that you discovered this… Continue reading Dealing With Disrespect
One of the key phrases Looks Maximus uses is, “life-affirming experiences”. You may dismiss this as posturing, considering that he promotes a “whore-maxxing” lifestyle as the complete opposite of the life the traditional wage-slave lives. I am referring to the study hard, work hard, and at the very end, after a life of relative discomfort,… Continue reading The Wisdom of “Looks Maximus” (II): Life-Affirming Experiences
I recently received the following article request: Had an article idea for you. I recently read an article on a dissident site where it briefly mentioned how hostile people on the ‘far right’ can be when dealing with newcomers. I’ve also noticed online that people in this sub-sub-subculture tend to act this way, basically requiring… Continue reading Getting Rid of Destructive Habits
Now that “natural bodybuilding” has been exposed as a scam, with many figureheads exposed as juicers, it seems that Internet culture has moved on to fully embracing steroids. People nowadays even build audiences around their admitted use of steroids, like “Looks Maximus”. In one of his videos, he spends about 40 minutes telling you why… Continue reading The Questionable Glorification of Roiding and Muscles
When you watch Wrath of Man the first time, you may be surprised that the main protagonist downplays his abilities. There is some foreshadowing as well. For instance, he ends up passing some skill test at exactly 70%, which is the minimum required. Later on, though, we learn that he is a highly trained killer… Continue reading Notes on Wrath of Man (II): Hiding your Power Level
I have listened to quite a bit of Looks Maximus’s video, which you can find on YouTube and Odysee. He has a pleasant voice and he brings up some rather interesting points. In this article, and subsequent ones, however, I want to focus on key themes of his message. Some of them he does not… Continue reading The Wisdom of “Looks Maximus” (I): You are a Pleb
The manga Berserk has been exceedingly successful. Kentaro Miura began publishing it in 1989, and it is still ongoing. I originally became aware of it in the early 2000s via the video game Berserk: Guts’ Rage. I don’t have much of a recollection of it. Also, I never really looked into the manga either but… Continue reading Reflections on Themes of the Manga/Anime Berserk and the Spiritual Bankruptcy of Modernity
Ubermensch recently left a very good comment on why people stick to their beliefs, even if they do not serve them well. Here it is in full: The majority of people have “status quo” bias when it comes to their beliefs. If you point out a flaw in them, instead of changing their belief, they… Continue reading Open Post: The Status-Quo Bias
If you are used to questioning your beliefs and have managed to change some of them throughout your life, you may find it difficult to grasp that some people would rather suffer the consequences of holding questionable beliefs than admit that they are wrong. This is most obvious in the case of women who advocate… Continue reading Harmful but Convenient Self-Images and their Relation to Reality
I recently got a new client who asked me to systematically assess his looks and lifestyle and give him pointers on how to improve them in order to maximize the his smash yield. He has been very receptive to my suggestions. For instance, when I suggested a particular hairstyle and trim of his beard, he… Continue reading The Willingness to Change
The original metaphor of the red and blue pill is inspired by the movie The Matrix. Neo, the protagonist, has the choice between taking the blue pill, which brings him back to a fake (but very pleasant) reality; in contrast, taking the red pill would mean that he has to continue viewing reality as it… Continue reading The Black Pill is the Original Red Pill
Recently, we have been talking about experiences with difficult women on this blog. As it turned out, some of you have encountered or even had relationships with women suffering from cluster B personality disorders. It’s probably a bit of a stretch to say that those women “suffer” because they seem to quite enjoy living out… Continue reading Speaking Openly about Difficulties with Women
Sometimes, I meet a guy who is seemingly doing quite well with women. You look at him and you conclude that there is no way that this dude does not get laid. Yet, there is the phenomenon of the “chadcel”, to borrow a term AlekNovy introduced on this blog, i.e. good-looking guys who could get… Continue reading You Need to Lead
The phenomenon that men are so heavily controlled by their wives or girlfriends that they seem to have no will of their own anymore is so widespread that we have a term for that in the English language. We call such men “pussy-whipped”. Language is very telling because such terms only stick because they are… Continue reading The Incredibly Powerful Cuck Camouflage
There are a few catchy phrases that summarize what women want, e.g. a man with six-pack abs who is six feet tall and has a six-inch dick. The reason a six-inch dick is mentioned here is not that it’s so staggeringly big but simply that it goes with the theme. Likewise, six feet is tall… Continue reading Seemingly Only Slightly Above Average Men and Women are Much Rarer than You May Think
Most of you probably know of Dan Bilzerian, the real-world billionaire roider playboy who is infamous for his excessive lifestyle. On his Instagram page you’ll find countless pictures of himself in a sea of women. Here’s a good example (Fair Use assumed): The average Joe now sees this and might be envious of this guy… Continue reading The Dan Bilzerian Deception
A common phenomenon is that when guys want to rack up lays and manage to do so, they go through a phase in which their standards may be a bit lower. This does not necessarily apply to a woman’s physical appearance, however. Instead, you could notice several red flags and still want to bang her.… Continue reading You Can’t Afford to Uncritically Pursue Women
In a recent comment on an Open Thread, Alek Novy made a very good observation about men who are too picky. He rightly diagnosed, I bet most blackpillers have no problem jerking off to a ton of porn. But if they saw that same girl in clothes and without makeup, she’s not good enough for… Continue reading Open Post: The Pornstar/Plain Jane Paradox
I recently came across a tweet by a strong, empowered woman who was afforded a seemingly rare moment of introspection due to the ongoing Covid-19 PsyOps operation. She wrote that sitting at home all day made her aware that her hobbies consist of the following: going to bars eating at restaurants frequenting non-essential businesses Now… Continue reading The “Get a Life!” Insult
Blog reader ‘Dude’ left a comment that nicely summarizes the core idea behind my books Minimal Game and Club Game, namely to make very targeted approaches. The average “gamer” approaches indiscriminately and may get one date out of 1,000 approaches, but with a smarter approach you can eliminate all the approaches that don’t go anywhere.… Continue reading Open Post: How to Bang 1 in 4 Girls
In my last post I jokingly introduced the Blue Pill Conformance Index (BPCI) as a measure of how much of a blue-pilled cuck you are. In hindsight, though, it is pretty obvious that this metric is just as legitimate as a ton of b.s. metrics I encountered at university. For the uninitiated, every field is… Continue reading The Blue Pill Conformance Index (BPCI)
Part of the nature of pseudonymous conversations online is that people tend to be more honest. In real life, you have to put up a facade of how tough and stoic you are, and any self-doubts you utter in public will only undermine your position because, unlike mainstream propaganda tells you, showing any weakness as… Continue reading You’re Way Above Average Intelligence
Many men, even attractive ones, drastically underestimate where they rank in terms of attractiveness. There are many reasons for this. With younger men, an issue is that women their age may simply have access to a larger dating pool. An 18-year old girl could date guys of any age and may realistically go for someone… Continue reading Hyper-Attractiveness in Mass Media and the Problem of Skewed Male Self-Image
(No, I’m not talking about killing her. Guys, seriously!) One of my clients recently shared a very interesting story from his dating life with me. In short, he showed up on a date. The woman’s behavior could be described as disinterested to hostile, and after a while, he got up, wished her a good day,… Continue reading The Power of Ending a Bad Date
In a recent Open Thread we discussed whether women are really attracted to their husbands. I stated that most women are not, and based this on the observation that women flock towards a small fraction of men in online and real-life dating. Those men get all the action. It’s just another example of the Pareto… Continue reading You Need to Accept the Harsh Truth (About Everything)
A few concepts old-school PUAs introduced are valid, such as “one-itis”, i.e. obsessing about a particular girl. In this particular scene, though, this meant PUAs obsessing about more or less any girl who gave them any kind of attention at all. You had guys report about “catching one-itis” basically every time they went out. In… Continue reading Getting Prematurely Attached to That One Girl
We have talked about the 80/20 split in male attractiveness on online dating platforms according to which women deem only 20% of men to be attractive, and 80% as unattractive. In contrast, when men rate women, the result is a bell curve with most women rated as around average, with outliers on both ends of… Continue reading If One Girl Has Had Sex With You, Many More Will
