The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading [Sticky] Open Thread #58
For the first time since offering consultation sessions, which was over ten years ago, I have slightly adjusted prices. Current and recent clients can make use of the previous offer until the end of 2020 (more details below). Instead of offering packages consisting of 1, 3, and 5 sessions, I now offer 1, 5, and… Continue reading [Sticky] Updated Consultation Fees (12/2019)
By now you have learned that “just being yourself” doesn’t get you girls, unlike your mom told you. You may also have learned that approaching hundreds of girls indiscriminately doesn’t get you laid either, let alone with “10s”. So, what is left? That’s easy, check out my books. My free ebook Debunking the Seduction Community played a… Continue reading [Sticky] Want a head start? Buy my books!
As you may have heard, there have been some dark clouds hanging over the British Royal Family. Prince Harry and the single mother he wifed-up, Meghan Markle, want to live their own life and no longer take part in the various gigs the Royal PR Troupe has to endure. In the comments section, we have… Continue reading Why Women Past Their Best-Before Date File for Divorce
I have finally finished Sleazy Stories IV. It took me quite a bit longer than I thought as I had too much going on in my life. The cover is still left to do. I will probably release it first as a Kindle ebook as this is a lot faster than preparing the paperback release.… Continue reading Sleazy Stories IV is Done
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #57
A few concepts old-school PUAs introduced are valid, such as “one-itis”, i.e. obsessing about a particular girl. In this particular scene, though, this meant PUAs obsessing about more or less any girl who gave them any kind of attention at all. You had guys report about “catching one-itis” basically every time they went out. In… Continue reading Getting Prematurely Attached to That One Girl
We have talked about the 80/20 split in male attractiveness on online dating platforms according to which women deem only 20% of men to be attractive, and 80% as unattractive. In contrast, when men rate women, the result is a bell curve with most women rated as around average, with outliers on both ends of… Continue reading If One Girl Has Had Sex With You, Many More Will
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #56
A recent discussion in The Open Thread #54 centered around the question of how to deal with rejection. Basically every guy who has ever approached a woman knows that getting turned down can really sting. In the worst case, a high number of rejections may even demotivate guys from approaching women altogether in the future.… Continue reading Dealing With Rejection Effectively
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #55
It is the end of 2019, so now is the time to appeal to all of you financially well off Chads to donate a few coins to the upkeep of this site. As you know, I do not run any ads on this site. This benefits the reading experience as there are no flashy banners… Continue reading End-Of-Year Fundraiser
Blog reader “john smith” left a great comment on my recent article, There Will be Increasingly Fewer ‘Good Men’ in the Future. I think it deserves more attention, so I am reproducing it in full below, with some minor edits. Message for the younger men: I’m 64, soon to be 65. Divorce-raped, false domestic violence… Continue reading MGTOW Message from a 64-year-old Veteran
I would guess that most of my readers are in their 20s and 30s. However, there are outliers on both ends. The oldest guy who ever contacted me was in his 60s. We also get the occasional teenager showing up. This year I also had a few clients in their early twenties who told me… Continue reading There Will be Increasingly Fewer “Good Men” in the Future
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #54
In a recent exchange in the comments section, blog reader “GoodLookingAndSleazy” pointed out the existence of the concept of men having some (supposedly) unknown quality that makes them irresistible. It is often referred by the French expression “je ne sais quoi”, which translates to “I don’t know what”. Interestingly, it is only the most handsome… Continue reading How Women Benefit From Claiming that Personality, not Looks, Matter in Men
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #53
There are countless fringe communities, many wholesome, some harmful. Most of them happily exist in their own little bubble. Very few of them outwardly promote themselves. For instance, in the gay community, the garishness of the “queers” is viewed with some disdain. Yet, any sexual perversion is getting plenty of airtime in mainstream media, and… Continue reading If MGTOW Wasn’t a Threat, the Mainstream Would Ignore it
One of the complaints of married men is that their sweetheart quickly transformed after marriage. Their slim, high-libido, rational, and frugal girlfriend turned into a fat, frigid, manic, and wasteful wife. Of course, I am exaggerating a little bit. Still, they claim that they did not see it coming. However, it is quite possible to… Continue reading Evaluating a Woman’s Character Based on Weak Signals
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #52
Our biological purpose is to produce offspring. This easily explains why men want to acquire resources and women want to be sexually attractive. Each sex simply maximizes what the other values. Self-actualization, these days often put under the MGTOW umbrella, is an evolutionary dead end, as fulfilling as it may be for every single man… Continue reading Female Beauty Operation Desperation
When browsing the black pill wiki incels.wiki, I came across an entry for the term “chadstruck“, which is their version of the term “lovestruck”. Of course, this is not a perfect equivalence as intense physical attraction has little to do with love and much more with lust. Yet, it may very well be the only… Continue reading Chadstruck: The Paramount Importance of Physical Attraction in Dating
The issue of this site being flagged as “untrustworthy” by your browser of choice has come up frequently. While this site does not process any personal data, there would be no technical justification for adding an SSL certificate. However, for the sake of improved user experience, I just added an SSL certificate to this blog.… Continue reading SSL Certificate Added
Today I witnessed an interaction between a young man and a woman that perfectly illustrates anti-game. I was at the library to return some books. As I did so, a guy and a girl just got up from their table. It seems they just wrapped up working on an assignment. This being Sweden, they of… Continue reading A Great Example of Anti-Game
One of the most persistent half-truths in the seduction and red pill communities is that confidence gets you laid. “Just be confident, bro!,” you were told. However, just like it was with the ever-elusive quality of having a sense of humor, unattractive men didn’t seem to be able to develop enough confidence to bang top… Continue reading Anti-Game and The Problem of Lack of Confidence
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #51
I recently spoke to a very attractive guy whose self-image has not quite caught up to reality yet as he still believes that he’s only average. Compared to the average guy, though, he’s doing very well. Should he manage to lose his “anti-game“, he’ll do phenomenally well in the future. It sounds as if he… Continue reading Pity Fucks and Mercy Fucks Do Not Exist Outside of Fantasy
The manipulations of women with regards to their appearance are a recurring topic on this blog. We have discussed make-up, image manipulation, and video filters. Of course, standard cosmetic procedures are also part of the wilted Western woman’s toolkit when she is bracing herself for a last-ditch effort of snagging a man, after spending her… Continue reading Beware: Modern facelifts shave decades off a woman’s face
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #50
A question that is on the mind of many men who are trying to bang more women is how they can know that she is interested in you. This is easy: you will (almost) never know until you approach her. While in movies, and porn, it is commonly the woman who does all the work,… Continue reading Do not Wait for Strong Signals!
Imagine you ask your boss if you could get a certain qualification, of course sponsored by the company. At first he is a bit skeptical yet mildly supportive, telling you that you should hit some milestones first or maybe just put in a few more years. You diligently do that. Later, you revisit this topic.… Continue reading Admitting That It Is Not Going to Happen
As has become obvious even to those who used to fully buy into the promises of the pick-up industry, “game” does not exist. If she is not attracted to you, then approaching her from a 45-degree angle from behind or asking her if she flosses before or after brushing is not going to get her… Continue reading Do you have Anti-Game?
In case you watched the stream of SmashGodxXx aka. Asian Chad that cost him $5,000 in the end, you may have perked up when he pushed back. Her opening move was demanding that he buys her dinner. He asked her, “What’s in it for me?” It was clear to him from the get-go that he… Continue reading Consider what’s in it for you before you buy her dinner
Two of my recent posts seemed to have the theme, “Just get a doll!“, alluding to Turd Flinging Monkey’s catchphrase. A reader of my blog pointed me to another recent case that is not quite as head-spinning as getting locked up for being unattractive, but it is by no means something to just laugh at.… Continue reading Asian Chad has to pay $5k in Arbitration Court For Letting a Chick Abuse Him
In my book Minimal Game, I mention the anecdote of some Russian teenage girl sitting on top of me who suddenly got shy and told me to “not look at it”, referring to her supposedly asymmetrical nostrils. This struck me as utterly ludicrous. As I further pointed out in this context, the problem with unrealistic… Continue reading Dealing With Unjustified Feelings of Hopelessness
I recently wrote a post about a guy in the UK who is facing up to ten years in jail and may have to register as a sex offender for touching a girl’s elbow. It was a girl he knew from his school, but that did not help him. He just wasn’t good-looking enough. That… Continue reading Pick-up Artist Jailed for Two Years for Creeping Out Girls
I recall that we once joked about, on my old blog, that the difference between sexual harassment and flirting is simply due to how attractive you are. If you’re good looking, you’re flirting with her, but if you’re not, you’re sexually harassing her. The sad thing is that this isn’t a joke. When feminists campaign… Continue reading Awkward Geek is Facing Years of Jail for Touching a Girl’s Elbow
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #49
I had a client recently who asked me for some career guidance. He was toying with the idea of reducing his hours so that he could have more time for chasing after women. For context, the guy is quite young, early to mid-20s, and has already made some impressive strides in his fields. In short,… Continue reading Should you do X or Chase Women?
Men are the favorite punching bag of the liberal mainstream, in particular if they are white and straight. While it is not the case that the Incel crowd is defined by skin color — from what I gather, a significant part of it consists of Indians working in the United States — the scorn that… Continue reading The Incel Phenomenon Affects Women More than Men
Recently, a concern-trolling reader posted some rather insulting comment on here, which can be found in The Open Thread #48. Said reader, whom I suspect to be female, posted the following video. As you can see, it exploits people with disabilities. The viewer is supposed to feel sympathy for their plight. Despite their deformities and… Continue reading Your Personality is Irrelevant
While comments on this blog are anonymous, there was a potential privacy issue due to so-called Gravatar Hovercards. If your email address is not linked to a profile on Gravatar.com, a random image is created. However, if it is, then WordPress shows a link to your Gravatar profile in said ‘Hovercards’. Of course, these may… Continue reading Admin: Gravatar Hovercards have been disabled
I just noticed that three recent comments of regulars ended up in the spam folder. Two had two links, and one had one link to BitChute, which is a site the Google-dominated Internet does not like very much. Neither of it should have happened. Should you leave a comment that does not show up within… Continue reading Admin: Comments not showing up? Message me!
From now on, the Open Thread will be tagged with consecutive numbers. We have had 47 posts in this category so far. The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be… Continue reading Open Thread #48
Some time ago a Chinese music video went viral in which a girl group sang that in order to date a guy, he has to have a house and a car. This was good for a chuckle. Here is the video: As I remembered this, I did a bit of research on dating customs in… Continue reading Honest Chinese vs Dishonest Western Dating
Blog reader Yarara left an interesting comment on my post “How Women Turn Chads into Misogynists” that sparked some discussion. He wrote: I am not calling you wrong, but have you considered the possibility that you have some selection bias due to the female pool you predominantly tapped into (figuratively and literally). While my lay… Continue reading Are Women in Clubs of a Lower Quality?
The YouTube channel IncelTV hosts the following clip, which was shared with us by blog reader Lisbon. It contains scenes from a dating show called “Take me Out” that seems to be designed to boost the ego of women and shatter the ego of unattractive men. Have a look: As cruel as this TV show… Continue reading This TV Show Demonstrates how much Looks matters
In response to a statement about sex with prostitutes being fake, a new reader, Derick, left the following comment on my post “Fucking Prostitutes is for Winners, not Losers!“: That pornstar you jerk off to is even more fake but you love it nonetheless. Think about how good it would be inside her pussy as… Continue reading Putting ‘fake sex’ with Prostitutes in Perspective
As I thought some more about the vitriol I received from a female reader recently, I realized that there is another issue why the most attractive men have the worst opinion of women. Sure, as they are more attractive, they have more sex, and they also witness the negative side of women a lot more… Continue reading How men and women view one-night stands
A (supposedly) female reader got very upset after reading my article “The Plummeting Price of Pussy“. She writes: You guys are a bunch of sexless incels. By the ignorance of your sexist conversation none of you get regular consistent sex. It’s like the blind leading the blind with these comments. Sound like a bunch of… Continue reading How Women Turn Chads into Misogynists
Those of you who have been around for a decade or so are probably familiar with Assanova. If not, then maybe you have had a look at the few sites I link to from this blog, which includes an archive of some of his posts. If you are not familiar with him, then maybe you’ll… Continue reading Assanova is Back!