The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! Note that there is also an Open Thread on… Continue reading [Sticky] Open Thread 2019 (#7)
The paperback edition of Sleazy Stories III: A Seducer’s Stream of Thots is now available for purchase on Amazon.com and other retailers. Get it, and let me know how what you think of it! If you’ve enjoyed the previous books in this series, you will enjoy this one as well.
By now you have learned that “just being yourself” doesn’t get you girls, unlike your mom told you. You may also have learned that approaching hundreds of girls indiscriminately doesn’t get you laid either, let alone with “10s”. So, what is left? That’s easy, check out my books. My free ebook Debunking the Seduction Community played a… Continue reading [Sticky] Want a head start? Buy my books!
A commenter on this blog recently asked if women can sense how much money you have. For the most part, they cannot. They rely on information you provide. This has some interesting implications because deception is not the sole domain of the woman. Yet, faking wealth is a lot more difficult than faking good looks… Continue reading “So, how Much Money do you Make?”
One of my readers recently shared a story about a girl who was genuinely throwing herself at him. He chickened out, and as a consequence, the girl felt rejected, which meant that he missed his one and only chance to get her. Normally, women send, at best, ambiguous signals. That one was rather forward, though,… Continue reading The One Who Got Away (Be Glad That She Did)
After writing my two articles “The Wall Illustrated: Jesse Jane” and “The Curse of High-Definition Porn (No, it’s not about ‘addiction’ and women who look ‘too good’)“, I did some research and tracked down footage of Jesse Jane in her prime. If you’re curious, there is a two-part series called “The Best of Jesse Jane”.… Continue reading Revisiting SD Porn: Visual Trickery has a Long Tradition
If you watch Turd Flinging Monkey (TFM) on YouTube, you may have heard him use the phrase that “testosterone is the hormone of the Gods.” Sometimes, he even plays a silly clip with a booming and distorted voice with that message. Yet, I have severe reservations about such strong claims. TFM uses that phrase when… Continue reading Testosterone is not the Hormone of the Gods
I had a few clients over the years with body image issues. Influenced by depictions of effeminate men in advertising, they were convinced that they were ugly. One of those guys stands out to me in particular. He’s a bit short of six feet, has a really great jawline and pronounced lips, but also some… Continue reading The Criminally Underrated Thug Look
The paperback edition of Sleazy Stories III was released on 15 April. I will prepare the Kindle edition soon and hope to have it out by the end of June. Sleazy Stories IV is currently in the proof-reading phase. I can’t give you a precise release date yet. However, it seems likely that it will… Continue reading Status Update (May 2019)
After I published my article “A Friend’s Bizarre Tinder Date”, Sleazy’s Gal, who happens to know that guy as well, asked me if his love life has gotten more successful after getting his new job. The context is that he made a career transition that took some time to get going. He quit a decent… Continue reading Economic Success and Success with Women
Have you ever wondered why the mainstream backs women so strongly and eagerly lashes out at men? The reason is quite simple: even though there is an income gap — not a pay gap — between men and women, in relationships, women largely control how the money is spent. Her money is her money, but… Continue reading Capitalist Backing of Female Empowerment
When my first wife wanted to start an argument, she would visit this very blog and skim a few posts until she came across something she did not like. Given the content you find on here, it did not take her very long to do so. Then she would lash out at me for being… Continue reading Writing “Bad Things” About Women
When guys bring up the problems associated with dating modern women, such as their boundless narcissism, general lack of interests, shallowness, or the fact that dating is a rather costly affair, all with a doubtful payoff, feminists and their enablers are quick to shout that “not all women are like that.” We mock this with… Continue reading The NAWALT Claim is an Admission of Defeat
It’s spring in Northern Europe. As temperatures rise, single young women seem to be getting more eager to get dicked down again. Thus, they are trying to get more attention. Now that the winter is gone, this is getting easier. The other day I made two observations in that regard, which I’d like to briefly… Continue reading Are Thots Getting More Desperate?
I briefly studied in Germany, where I had a professor who went off the script at the beginning of the first lecture of his course, talking about how he views men and women at university. He claimed that women are more intelligent than men despite having smaller brains, work more diligently, and do better as… Continue reading Why Men are (Potentially) Happier than Women
Has it ever struck you as odd that SJWs not only have a double standard about virtual men versus virtual women but also about the objectification of real women versus the objectification of virtual ones? As a case of the former, consider that titillating female video game characters cause waves of protest; censorship is now… Continue reading Why SJWs Love Twitch Thots but Hate Sexy Virtual Women
In a recent article, I wrote about the cognitive dissonance of women who believe that their professional success is due to their own ability as opposed to affirmative action and quotas. Some women are indeed so deluded that they do not even realize that theirs is a make work job that is merely seen as… Continue reading Examples of “Easy Mode” for Women
A friend of mine from Berlin recently told me about an utterly bizarre date. The guy itself is quite interesting. Judging by how he dresses, in his spare time, you’d believe him to be a bit of a leftie, yet he has shifted hard to the right in recent years, after experiencing first-hand what it’s… Continue reading A Friend’s Bizarre Tinder Date
It’s been a while since I’ve done a “The Wall Illustrated” post, but here is another and very tragic one. It started with me doing a bit of research online for my post on HD porn. I should not have looked up Jesse Jane, I shouldn’t have done it. I think that in her prime… Continue reading The Wall Illustrated: Jesse Jane
On the weekend or on some evenings, I read at my local university library as I like a change of scenery every once in a while. My favorite reading room has a few rows of tables with dividers in between. If it weren’t for the barrier in the middle, you would face some other person… Continue reading Ambiguous Signals from Women
I took a walk in my area in the late afternoon yesterday. It’s a quiet and peaceful part of town, yet I suddenly heard booming music. As I was walking in that direction anyway, I checked it out. Note that there are no gangs in my part of town, so I view it as incredibly… Continue reading The Kindergarten Thot Party
The other day, someone on Reddit mentioned that porn star Christy Mack got beaten to a pulp by her boyfriend after he found her in bed with another guy. The context was that not even the unarticulated threat of physical violence can keep damaged women in check (would you fuck over a guy who looks… Continue reading The Curse of High-Definition Porn (No, it’s not about ‘addiction’ and women who look ‘too good’)
Alek Novy asked me recently to elaborate a bit on my second time hitting the clubs (see the comments here), i.e. after my first marriage had fallen apart. As my reply got a bit long, I’m posting it below. Compared to my first time, the age of women was skewing a bit higher, mid-to-late twenties… Continue reading My Second Stint in Clubs
After posting my article “Women don’t nag Chads who can provide for them”, I had another relevant insight on that very topic. In the previous article, I wrote that because women can’t nag a short but economically successful guy, in the hope of making him grow, they’d rather nag an economically less successful but tall… Continue reading Another Note on Women Who Nag their Partner
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! Note that there is also an Open Thread on… Continue reading Open Thread 2019 (#6)
A common observation that has become a cliche is that wives and girlfriends do not like that their men play video games. This starts early in the dating process. Some women even state on their online dating profiles that they “don’t date gamers” or even that they “hate video games”. Quite frankly, women are pretty… Continue reading Women don’t nag Chads who can provide for them
When editing Sleazy Stories IV, I thought of some of my club pickups. As some of you may know, I chose a very physical and aggressive approach, which worked very well for me. Quite often, my outfit was a bit risqué as well. Think of wearing a dress jacket with nothing underneath — yes, nothing!… Continue reading Scrawny and Lean versus Buff and Fat
A relatively frequent occurrence among those of my clients who book multiple sessions, with an eye towards long-term improvements, is that they sometimes hit a plateau. Surely, those of you who worked hard to improve your odds fucking random women have made similar experiences. Skillful early physical escalation is a good example. It takes experience… Continue reading Progress is Often Invisible
As I revealed recently, I have been working on a book on online dating. In my notes, I came across a particular incident, which probably won’t show up in that book. However, you may get a kick out of it. Tinder is a pretty decent tool. You may think it is only for hooking up,… Continue reading Seen on Tinder: Free Rent in Exchange for Sex
There was one comment on my last article, Success with Women and the Diminishing Returns of Money: Billionaire Edition, which I thought deserves some further discussion. In short, one reader claimed the following: They may date and marry plain women but I can assure you their side women and whores are top-notch. This statement may… Continue reading Money and Quality of Service of Escorts
You may have noticed that I have not posted many articles recently. This does not mean that I have been losing interest in keeping the Aaron Sleazy persona alive. Quite the contrary is true, in fact. Instead of writing articles for my blogs, I have been spending a significant amount of time on my books.… Continue reading Status Update (April 2019)
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! Note that there is also an Open Thread… Continue reading Open Thread 2019 (#5)
There is the widely-held belief that more money makes you more successful with women. I consider this a highly dubious claim. First, for hook-ups, the question of how thick your wallet is likely does not even enter the picture. Sure, if you’re operating at the level of a genuine hobo, the most chiseled abs most… Continue reading Success with Women and the Diminishing Returns of Money: Billionaire Edition
I recently wondered if the website TagTheSponsor is still around. It is. There is seemingly no shortage of women on Instagram who are ready to get pooped on by an oil sheik — or someone who pretends to be one. In case you are not familiar with that site, its goal is to provide proof… Continue reading Why TagTheSponsor is an Evergreen Site
The other day I found myself in a business meeting. We were mostly a bunch of new faces to each other, so we took turns briefly introducing ourselves. Of course, to make things a bit friendlier, we followed up the brief summary of our respective professional backgrounds with one or two sentences about our personal… Continue reading The Socially Acceptable Hobbies of Women
The other day I heard about a personal tragedy in my extended social circle, alongthe lines of a friend of a friend of a friend’s personal misfortune. It involves a young couple. Both are in their early twenties. The woman has a reputation ofbeing a slut. Often, this means that other women are jealous of her looks,… Continue reading Why Men Cheat on Sluts
One of the games I was recently curious about but not quite sure whether I want to buy it was Rockstar’s Red Dead Redemption 2. The novelty of open-world games has long worn off for me, and Rockstar’s earlier title, Grand Theft Auto V, the most recent game of that genre I played, was a… Continue reading Red Dead Redemption 2 has a Valuable Lesson for Men
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! Note that there is also an Open Thread… Continue reading Open Thread 2019 (#4)
I recently read the Korean high literature manga “H-Campus”, which is short for “Hentai Campus”. It’s reasonably entertaining but I can’t recommend it fully, so there won’t be a proper review. The story is irrelevant, but for context I’ll add that it’s about a new degree program at a fictional Korean university that teaches you… Continue reading How Your Fuck Buddy Deludes Herself
I have noticed a particular kind of pattern among some of the women I interact with. Well, let’s start with the guys first: Most guys, but not nearly all, do a diligent job. They somehow realize that they get a paycheck in exchange for sticking to their job description. You ask for information or request… Continue reading Serial Dating Makes Women Bad Workers
Sleazy Stories III: A Seducer’s Stream of Thots will be released on April 15. To whet your appetite, I have made a sample PDF available. You can download it on that book’s product page.
At work I listen to electronic dance music a lot. A track I quite recently came across is “Girls & Boys” by Bali Bandits, some no-name duo. It’s a great track. Give it a listen if you like EDM: This is the kind of music I loved dancing to when I roamed the clubs. The… Continue reading Pick-up and the Degeneracy Dilemma, or: Why you probably won’t find a good girlfriend or wife
One of my readers recently raised the question of whether it is unethical to pick up (easy) women, or whether it is even your duty. He referred to a statement I once made, namely that if you don’t pick them up and fuck them, then someone else likely will. The reasoning is simply that seduction… Continue reading Ethical Considerations of Picking Up Women
I just added the product page for Sleazy Stories III: A Seducer’s Stream of Thots. You can already preorder it on Amazon. This book will be released as a paperback on April 15, 2019. The Kindle version will appear later in 2019. I will soon upload a sample, including the table of contents. Stay tuned!
After the seduction community collapsed, which I am very happy to have played a major role in (cf. Debunking the Seduction Community), several follow-up communities sprang up. An existing one got an influx of people, too. The existing community that absorbed part of the old seduction community is MGTOW, i.e. Men Going Their Own Way.… Continue reading The Biggest Problem of the Black Pill Community: Defeatism
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! Note that there is also an Open Thread… Continue reading Open Thread 2019 (#3)
One of my readers posted a rather amusing clip from The Simpsons that gives a quick summary of how feminism turns women into childless crazy cat ladies. Watch and laugh: Did you enjoy this article? Excellent! Here are some further steps to consider:1) If you want to read more from Aaron, check out his excellent… Continue reading The Origin of the Crazy Cat Lady
A few years ago it became customary to mock middle-aged men, celebrities and regular guys alike, if they were gaining weight as opposed to their once lean and mean selves. The “dad bod” consists of a bit of a belly and maybe even man boobs. If you desire to have a dad bod, just drink… Continue reading “Dad Bod” vs “Mom Bod”
I had an interesting conversation the other day. Some guy told me that he looked up a few of his exes and a few girls who only led him on. Some took advantage of him when he was young and naive, others turned out to be crazy and had to be let go. He was… Continue reading Gloating Over the Misfortune of Ex-Girlfriends
One of the dumbest pieces of supposed wisdom relating to the sexes that are floating around is that women are the gatekeepers of sex, but men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Women often say that crap. It has very little to do with reality, however. Here is what is going on: Your typical uncritical woman… Continue reading Men are not the Gatekeepers of Relationships
As I have been going through the material for my book on relationships, I had an interesting insight. It is generally acknowledged that the hook-up culture has been made possible by women’s “liberation”. Feminists told them that it is okay to be sluts, and women all over the industrialized world listened. We also know that… Continue reading Hook-up Culture is a “Hack” of Female Hypergamy