When browsing the black pill wiki incels.wiki, I came across an entry for the term “chadstruck“, which is their version of the term “lovestruck”. Of course, this is not a perfect equivalence as intense physical attraction has little to do with love and much more with lust. Yet, it may very well be the only… Continue reading Chadstruck: The Paramount Importance of Physical Attraction in Dating
The issue of this site being flagged as “untrustworthy” by your browser of choice has come up frequently. While this site does not process any personal data, there would be no technical justification for adding an SSL certificate. However, for the sake of improved user experience, I just added an SSL certificate to this blog.… Continue reading SSL Certificate Added
Today I witnessed an interaction between a young man and a woman that perfectly illustrates anti-game. I was at the library to return some books. As I did so, a guy and a girl just got up from their table. It seems they just wrapped up working on an assignment. This being Sweden, they of… Continue reading A Great Example of Anti-Game
One of the most persistent half-truths in the seduction and red pill communities is that confidence gets you laid. “Just be confident, bro!,” you were told. However, just like it was with the ever-elusive quality of having a sense of humor, unattractive men didn’t seem to be able to develop enough confidence to bang top… Continue reading Anti-Game and The Problem of Lack of Confidence
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #51
I recently spoke to a very attractive guy whose self-image has not quite caught up to reality yet as he still believes that he’s only average. Compared to the average guy, though, he’s doing very well. Should he manage to lose his “anti-game“, he’ll do phenomenally well in the future. It sounds as if he… Continue reading Pity Fucks and Mercy Fucks Do Not Exist Outside of Fantasy
The manipulations of women with regards to their appearance are a recurring topic on this blog. We have discussed make-up, image manipulation, and video filters. Of course, standard cosmetic procedures are also part of the wilted Western woman’s toolkit when she is bracing herself for a last-ditch effort of snagging a man, after spending her… Continue reading Beware: Modern facelifts shave decades off a woman’s face
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #50
A question that is on the mind of many men who are trying to bang more women is how they can know that she is interested in you. This is easy: you will (almost) never know until you approach her. While in movies, and porn, it is commonly the woman who does all the work,… Continue reading Do not Wait for Strong Signals!
Imagine you ask your boss if you could get a certain qualification, of course sponsored by the company. At first he is a bit skeptical yet mildly supportive, telling you that you should hit some milestones first or maybe just put in a few more years. You diligently do that. Later, you revisit this topic.… Continue reading Admitting That It Is Not Going to Happen
As has become obvious even to those who used to fully buy into the promises of the pick-up industry, “game” does not exist. If she is not attracted to you, then approaching her from a 45-degree angle from behind or asking her if she flosses before or after brushing is not going to get her… Continue reading Do you have Anti-Game?
In case you watched the stream of SmashGodxXx aka. Asian Chad that cost him $5,000 in the end, you may have perked up when he pushed back. Her opening move was demanding that he buys her dinner. He asked her, “What’s in it for me?” It was clear to him from the get-go that he… Continue reading Consider what’s in it for you before you buy her dinner
Two of my recent posts seemed to have the theme, “Just get a doll!“, alluding to Turd Flinging Monkey’s catchphrase. A reader of my blog pointed me to another recent case that is not quite as head-spinning as getting locked up for being unattractive, but it is by no means something to just laugh at.… Continue reading Asian Chad has to pay $5k in Arbitration Court For Letting a Chick Abuse Him
In my book Minimal Game, I mention the anecdote of some Russian teenage girl sitting on top of me who suddenly got shy and told me to “not look at it”, referring to her supposedly asymmetrical nostrils. This struck me as utterly ludicrous. As I further pointed out in this context, the problem with unrealistic… Continue reading Dealing With Unjustified Feelings of Hopelessness
I recently wrote a post about a guy in the UK who is facing up to ten years in jail and may have to register as a sex offender for touching a girl’s elbow. It was a girl he knew from his school, but that did not help him. He just wasn’t good-looking enough. That… Continue reading Pick-up Artist Jailed for Two Years for Creeping Out Girls
I recall that we once joked about, on my old blog, that the difference between sexual harassment and flirting is simply due to how attractive you are. If you’re good looking, you’re flirting with her, but if you’re not, you’re sexually harassing her. The sad thing is that this isn’t a joke. When feminists campaign… Continue reading Awkward Geek is Facing Years of Jail for Touching a Girl’s Elbow
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #49
I had a client recently who asked me for some career guidance. He was toying with the idea of reducing his hours so that he could have more time for chasing after women. For context, the guy is quite young, early to mid-20s, and has already made some impressive strides in his fields. In short,… Continue reading Should you do X or Chase Women?
Men are the favorite punching bag of the liberal mainstream, in particular if they are white and straight. While it is not the case that the Incel crowd is defined by skin color — from what I gather, a significant part of it consists of Indians working in the United States — the scorn that… Continue reading The Incel Phenomenon Affects Women More than Men
Recently, a concern-trolling reader posted some rather insulting comment on here, which can be found in The Open Thread #48. Said reader, whom I suspect to be female, posted the following video. As you can see, it exploits people with disabilities. The viewer is supposed to feel sympathy for their plight. Despite their deformities and… Continue reading Your Personality is Irrelevant
While comments on this blog are anonymous, there was a potential privacy issue due to so-called Gravatar Hovercards. If your email address is not linked to a profile on Gravatar.com, a random image is created. However, if it is, then WordPress shows a link to your Gravatar profile in said ‘Hovercards’. Of course, these may… Continue reading Admin: Gravatar Hovercards have been disabled
I just noticed that three recent comments of regulars ended up in the spam folder. Two had two links, and one had one link to BitChute, which is a site the Google-dominated Internet does not like very much. Neither of it should have happened. Should you leave a comment that does not show up within… Continue reading Admin: Comments not showing up? Message me!
From now on, the Open Thread will be tagged with consecutive numbers. We have had 47 posts in this category so far. The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be… Continue reading Open Thread #48
Some time ago a Chinese music video went viral in which a girl group sang that in order to date a guy, he has to have a house and a car. This was good for a chuckle. Here is the video: As I remembered this, I did a bit of research on dating customs in… Continue reading Honest Chinese vs Dishonest Western Dating
Blog reader Yarara left an interesting comment on my post “How Women Turn Chads into Misogynists” that sparked some discussion. He wrote: I am not calling you wrong, but have you considered the possibility that you have some selection bias due to the female pool you predominantly tapped into (figuratively and literally). While my lay… Continue reading Are Women in Clubs of a Lower Quality?
The YouTube channel IncelTV hosts the following clip, which was shared with us by blog reader Lisbon. It contains scenes from a dating show called “Take me Out” that seems to be designed to boost the ego of women and shatter the ego of unattractive men. Have a look: As cruel as this TV show… Continue reading This TV Show Demonstrates how much Looks matters
In response to a statement about sex with prostitutes being fake, a new reader, Derick, left the following comment on my post “Fucking Prostitutes is for Winners, not Losers!“: That pornstar you jerk off to is even more fake but you love it nonetheless. Think about how good it would be inside her pussy as… Continue reading Putting ‘fake sex’ with Prostitutes in Perspective
As I thought some more about the vitriol I received from a female reader recently, I realized that there is another issue why the most attractive men have the worst opinion of women. Sure, as they are more attractive, they have more sex, and they also witness the negative side of women a lot more… Continue reading How men and women view one-night stands
A (supposedly) female reader got very upset after reading my article “The Plummeting Price of Pussy“. She writes: You guys are a bunch of sexless incels. By the ignorance of your sexist conversation none of you get regular consistent sex. It’s like the blind leading the blind with these comments. Sound like a bunch of… Continue reading How Women Turn Chads into Misogynists
Those of you who have been around for a decade or so are probably familiar with Assanova. If not, then maybe you have had a look at the few sites I link to from this blog, which includes an archive of some of his posts. If you are not familiar with him, then maybe you’ll… Continue reading Assanova is Back!
In the United States, prostitution is illegal in most states. On top, there is a perceived negative stigma of paying for sex. Only losers do so, feminists and soy-boys wail. I have had a few clients from the US who were curious about the societal attitude towards prostitution in Europe. For some reason, they tend… Continue reading Fucking Prostitutes is for Winners, not Losers!
In the comments section, we have been talking about the monetization of online dating and the perceived need to, for instance, “boost” your profile on Tinder to get more matches. A few years ago, Tinder was quite a gold mine for many. However, over time, even guys who used to do exceptionally well have noticed… Continue reading Tinder does not care whether you get laid
Recently one of my readers mentioned a resource I was not familiar with, incels.wiki. While I view the incel community with some skepticism due to its often evident defeatism, that does not mean that a lot of the knowledge gathered over there is without value. Quite the contrary, in fact. In particular, I would like… Continue reading Scientific Realism in Dating
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread 2019 (#14)
I have sunk a big chunk of my spare time in the last few months into my online dating book. The manuscript is currently around 150 pages long and comparable to Minimal Game with its no-nonsense approach to improve your success in the dating arena. I have completed a first draft, which I have already… Continue reading Status Update (October 2019)
As I was going through a few more stories for a potential new entry in my Sleazy Stories series of books, I came across some notes on a rather peculiar encounter. For context, I was partying in Berlin, Germany, and because I was going out so much I knew quite a few people. Once, I… Continue reading There are no “Cougars”
One of my readers recently posted a picture of gym thot fashion, which shows a woman wearing see-through leggings that reveal her underwear. No, not just the shape, but the color and fine details as well. Here is what this looks like: This is by no means the most provocative kind of outfit you can… Continue reading Thots and their “comfortable” gym clothes
I have written a few posts about my run-ins with gym thots before. I thought I had seen plenty of obnoxious behavior already, all aimed at getting the maximum exposure to men. Yet, two behaviors stood out to me recently. Both happened in the free-weights section. Here is the first one. Imagine you are a… Continue reading New Lows in Gym Thottery
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread 2019 (#13)
Have you ever thought about the fundamental difference of male and female friendships? As almost all of you who are reading this are men, I suppose you are well aware that, once the support network of high school and college is gone, it takes quite some effort to stay in touch with your friends. Most… Continue reading The seemingly paradoxical nature of female friendships
A while ago a reader left a particularly misguided comment on my blog. It was the following (see the comments section of the post “Men Who No Longer Really Care About Women”): Honestly, you need to give women a break. Why? They are fed terrible propaganda from a young age and practically brainwashed into a… Continue reading No, we don’t need to give women a break
It’s been a while since my last status update. I have been quite busy at work and in my private life, knocking items off my bucket list, so I did not manage to write as much as I would have liked. That being said, I was hardly idle. Sleazy Stories IV is basically done. There… Continue reading Status Update (September 2019)
Recently I was asked a rather peculiar question. The guy’s issue was that he seemed to only ever meet women who are in a relationship. Consequently, he was wondering what he should do and where he could find single women. Questions like this reveal that (honest) men are at a serious disadvantage in the dating… Continue reading You’ll rarely meet single women
The other day I came across a tragicomic piece of news: some woman used to do yoga poses hanging over the railing of her balcony, which is 25 meters (> 75 ft) above ground. All went well, until she finally slipped, and crashed to the ground. She didn’t quite qualify for a Darwin Award as… Continue reading Many women have no proper sense of danger
I have been sitting on a complete draft of Sleazy Stories IV for a few months now, and I could have put out a fifth book in this series by now as well. However, I can’t quite bring myself to continue with it. At some point in the not-too-distant future I most certainly will, however.… Continue reading Sexual Degeneracy and Societal Decline
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread 2019 (#12)
Last month I wrote an article on real-time image manipulation, which included FaceTune as an example and also a video of some YouTube creator who demonstrated the effect of a filter. It made him look a good ten years younger. With FaceTune, women can, among others, increase the size of their eyes. Looking younger and… Continue reading The Next Frontier in Real-Time Visual Trickery
Back in the days I faced a lot of hostility online by PUAs and their sad gaggle of shills when I pointed out that looks do indeed matter and that height is very important for success with women. In contrast, the commercial seduction industry promoted the claim that looks do not matter. As height falls… Continue reading The Ultimate Post on Male Height
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread 2019 (#11)
Arguably the key element of seduction is sexual escalation. If you don’t push the interaction from hello to sex, with various steps in between, you will hardly ever get your dick wet because women just won’t do the work for you. Exceptions to the rule exist, for instance if some gold-digger targets you for your… Continue reading How Women Try to Gradually Milk you For Money