Our biological purpose is to produce offspring. This easily explains why men want to acquire resources and women want to be sexually attractive. Each sex simply maximizes what the other values. Self-actualization, these days often put under the MGTOW umbrella, is an evolutionary dead end, as fulfilling as it may be for every single man… Continue reading Female Beauty Operation Desperation
When browsing the black pill wiki incels.wiki, I came across an entry for the term “chadstruck“, which is their version of the term “lovestruck”. Of course, this is not a perfect equivalence as intense physical attraction has little to do with love and much more with lust. Yet, it may very well be the only… Continue reading Chadstruck: The Paramount Importance of Physical Attraction in Dating
The issue of this site being flagged as “untrustworthy” by your browser of choice has come up frequently. While this site does not process any personal data, there would be no technical justification for adding an SSL certificate. However, for the sake of improved user experience, I just added an SSL certificate to this blog.… Continue reading SSL Certificate Added
Today I witnessed an interaction between a young man and a woman that perfectly illustrates anti-game. I was at the library to return some books. As I did so, a guy and a girl just got up from their table. It seems they just wrapped up working on an assignment. This being Sweden, they of… Continue reading A Great Example of Anti-Game
One of the most persistent half-truths in the seduction and red pill communities is that confidence gets you laid. “Just be confident, bro!,” you were told. However, just like it was with the ever-elusive quality of having a sense of humor, unattractive men didn’t seem to be able to develop enough confidence to bang top… Continue reading Anti-Game and The Problem of Lack of Confidence
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #51
I recently spoke to a very attractive guy whose self-image has not quite caught up to reality yet as he still believes that he’s only average. Compared to the average guy, though, he’s doing very well. Should he manage to lose his “anti-game“, he’ll do phenomenally well in the future. It sounds as if he… Continue reading Pity Fucks and Mercy Fucks Do Not Exist Outside of Fantasy
The manipulations of women with regards to their appearance are a recurring topic on this blog. We have discussed make-up, image manipulation, and video filters. Of course, standard cosmetic procedures are also part of the wilted Western woman’s toolkit when she is bracing herself for a last-ditch effort of snagging a man, after spending her… Continue reading Beware: Modern facelifts shave decades off a woman’s face
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #50
A question that is on the mind of many men who are trying to bang more women is how they can know that she is interested in you. This is easy: you will (almost) never know until you approach her. While in movies, and porn, it is commonly the woman who does all the work,… Continue reading Do not Wait for Strong Signals!
Imagine you ask your boss if you could get a certain qualification, of course sponsored by the company. At first he is a bit skeptical yet mildly supportive, telling you that you should hit some milestones first or maybe just put in a few more years. You diligently do that. Later, you revisit this topic.… Continue reading Admitting That It Is Not Going to Happen
As has become obvious even to those who used to fully buy into the promises of the pick-up industry, “game” does not exist. If she is not attracted to you, then approaching her from a 45-degree angle from behind or asking her if she flosses before or after brushing is not going to get her… Continue reading Do you have Anti-Game?
In case you watched the stream of SmashGodxXx aka. Asian Chad that cost him $5,000 in the end, you may have perked up when he pushed back. Her opening move was demanding that he buys her dinner. He asked her, “What’s in it for me?” It was clear to him from the get-go that he… Continue reading Consider what’s in it for you before you buy her dinner
Two of my recent posts seemed to have the theme, “Just get a doll!“, alluding to Turd Flinging Monkey’s catchphrase. A reader of my blog pointed me to another recent case that is not quite as head-spinning as getting locked up for being unattractive, but it is by no means something to just laugh at.… Continue reading Asian Chad has to pay $5k in Arbitration Court For Letting a Chick Abuse Him
In my book Minimal Game, I mention the anecdote of some Russian teenage girl sitting on top of me who suddenly got shy and told me to “not look at it”, referring to her supposedly asymmetrical nostrils. This struck me as utterly ludicrous. As I further pointed out in this context, the problem with unrealistic… Continue reading Dealing With Unjustified Feelings of Hopelessness
I recently wrote a post about a guy in the UK who is facing up to ten years in jail and may have to register as a sex offender for touching a girl’s elbow. It was a girl he knew from his school, but that did not help him. He just wasn’t good-looking enough. That… Continue reading Pick-up Artist Jailed for Two Years for Creeping Out Girls
I recall that we once joked about, on my old blog, that the difference between sexual harassment and flirting is simply due to how attractive you are. If you’re good looking, you’re flirting with her, but if you’re not, you’re sexually harassing her. The sad thing is that this isn’t a joke. When feminists campaign… Continue reading Awkward Geek is Facing Years of Jail for Touching a Girl’s Elbow
The Open Thread is a place for open discussion among my readers. Post anything you feel like sharing! From now on, the Open Thread will no longer be monthly. Instead, there will be a new Open Thread whenever it is adequate. The stage is yours. Go ahead! The latest Open Thread is made ‘sticky’ to… Continue reading Open Thread #49
I had a client recently who asked me for some career guidance. He was toying with the idea of reducing his hours so that he could have more time for chasing after women. For context, the guy is quite young, early to mid-20s, and has already made some impressive strides in his fields. In short,… Continue reading Should you do X or Chase Women?
Men are the favorite punching bag of the liberal mainstream, in particular if they are white and straight. While it is not the case that the Incel crowd is defined by skin color — from what I gather, a significant part of it consists of Indians working in the United States — the scorn that… Continue reading The Incel Phenomenon Affects Women More than Men