Today I witnessed an interaction between a young man and a woman that perfectly illustrates anti-game. I was at the library to return some books. As I did so, a guy and a girl just got up from their table. It seems they just wrapped up working on an assignment. This being Sweden, they of course talked in the library. After mutual affirmation of how well their silly, little project went, the girl asked the guy about his plans for the evening. This is where things got interesting.
Well, first I sat down at the closest table and pretended to do some work on my laptop while those two fumbled around. Upon being asked about his plans, the guy gave some nondescript answers. The girl interrupted him quickly and stated,
“I have no plans for tonight!”
This is quite an announcement. In fact, it is an obvious hint that she wanted him to ask her to hang out. I bet she was hoping for some “Netflix and chill”. The average woman will pretend that she is always busy and if she’s not then it’s because she’s specifically making time for you. Here, you have a woman telling the guy that she is his for the taking.
In response, the guy then said something along the lines of that it’s nice to have an evening for yourself and that he has to get going. Then he left. The chick blurted out a, “have fun, see you tomorrow!” and then he was gone. In her mind, she has literally thrown herself at him. She’ll probably make a few more attempts, but if he does not make a move, then this will be it.
The guy was pretty good-looking. She was likewise quite attractive. Chad did not bite, though. Granted, I obviously do not know if the guy was into her but just didn’t notice her offer or whether he was not interested in her, or possibly even in women in general. In this day and age, with more and more men going their own way, it is certainly possible that he just didn’t want to bother. Then again, how come he ended up in a group assignment with her? I have never taken a class in which people were randomly paired up. In any case, this guy’s inactivity is a prime example of “anti-game”. As I’m writing this post, he could probably have her riding his dick in his apartment if he wanted to. I hope he’s not sitting at home now, wondering how to make a move.
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