Meeting Women · Men

Dealing With Rejection Effectively

A recent discussion in The Open Thread #54 centered around the question of how to deal with rejection. Basically every guy who has ever approached a woman knows that getting turned down can really sting. In the worst case, a high number of rejections may even demotivate guys from approaching women altogether in the future.… Continue reading Dealing With Rejection Effectively

Black Pill · Dating

MGTOW Message from a 64-year-old Veteran

Blog reader “john smith” left a great comment on my recent article, There Will be Increasingly Fewer ‘Good Men’ in the Future. I think it deserves more attention, so I am reproducing it in full below, with some minor edits. Message for the younger men: I’m 64, soon to be 65. Divorce-raped, false domestic violence… Continue reading MGTOW Message from a 64-year-old Veteran

Society · Women

How Women Benefit From Claiming that Personality, not Looks, Matter in Men

In a recent exchange in the comments section, blog reader “GoodLookingAndSleazy” pointed out the existence of the concept of men having some (supposedly) unknown quality that makes them irresistible. It is often referred by the French expression “je ne sais quoi”, which translates to “I don’t know what”. Interestingly, it is only the most handsome… Continue reading How Women Benefit From Claiming that Personality, not Looks, Matter in Men

Society

If MGTOW Wasn’t a Threat, the Mainstream Would Ignore it

There are countless fringe communities, many wholesome, some harmful. Most of them happily exist in their own little bubble. Very few of them outwardly promote themselves. For instance, in the gay community, the garishness of the “queers” is viewed with some disdain. Yet, any sexual perversion is getting plenty of airtime in mainstream media, and… Continue reading If MGTOW Wasn’t a Threat, the Mainstream Would Ignore it

Women

Evaluating a Woman’s Character Based on Weak Signals

One of the complaints of married men is that their sweetheart quickly transformed after marriage. Their slim, high-libido, rational, and frugal girlfriend turned into a fat, frigid, manic, and wasteful wife. Of course, I am exaggerating a little bit. Still, they claim that they did not see it coming. However, it is quite possible to… Continue reading Evaluating a Woman’s Character Based on Weak Signals