One of our regulars, GoodLookingAndSleazy, shared an unfortunate story the other day:
Christ almighty guys another former coworker of mine killed himself. I just found out yesterday. He was hit by a big rig on the freeway not far from where I live. The investigators don’t know why he was there. I met his dad yesterday shook hands and gave him a hug. His parents are understandably denying suicide because he got into the Air Force and was going to move to Texas for training with a hot coworker. Supposedly they had a date that night. Jesus…………….
I don’t care what drugs he may or may not have been on. Nobody tries to cross the fucking freeway especially in California.
I am not sure we need to speculate much about what happened here. First, the guy goes on a date with his hot co-worker, then something unknown happens, and the next thing we know is that this young man walks into traffic to get run over. The most plausible interpretation is that this young man received information that undermined or destroyed his reality. Not know what to do next, he overreacted and committed suicide. Probably most of us have heard of similar stories before, some of you may even personally have known a guy who ended his life over a woman.
Inexperienced men have the problem that they underestimate the intoxicating effect women can have. Of course, I am not talking about women in general but about a woman who seems to be a perfect fit for you. A lot of this is surely projection on behalf of the man, but this does not change the outcome. I should also add that women on the Cluster B spectrum deliberately create this fantasy for you.
Cluster B women shape their personality on-the-fly to put up the perfect fantasy for you, just so that you fall in love with them. This is similar to how the biggest sluts are able to adjust to how they suck your dick or how they fuck you based on your response. If you have ever had a woman who tried out a few things first and suddenly it seemed you were in the groove and she turned from a 3/10 cocksucker into a 10/10 in the span of a few bobbing movements, or from a thoroughly mediocre fuck into a top-notch one, you know what I am talking about. The sobering thought here is that they can do the same with anyone other guy, too. They wear their personality like a mask and they fuck as if they are playing jazz with your dick. They pick up cues, hit their stride, and just go with it. This is a great quality if you are fucking a whore but if you notice this in a woman you consider turning into your girlfriend or wife, you should to run for the hills, but make sure you bust all the nuts you want in her before you do that, provided you can remain emotionally distant, and stay out of harms way.
Guys with little experience can easily be tricked into having found someone “special”. After all, her (fake) personality is exactly what he wanted in a girlfriend, and the sex is great, too. Yet, if she then takes this way, for instance because she got bored, found another guy, or only wanted to toy with yet another guy’s heart anyway, those guys suddenly look into an abyss. Some cannot take it.
On a side note, if you want to ride out a relationship with a perfect female chameleon, her ugly personality will come out sooner or later. Similarly, her performance in bed will degrade rapidly at some point. She does this when she thinks she has full control over you. You will get “splitting” both in and outside the bedroom, i.e. she puts on a very pleasant persona less and less often and, conversely, her ugly self comes out more and more. You will also notice that her performance in the bedroom is more and more erratic; she may even start playing mind games with you just to mess with you, e.g. you built a certain perception of what she likes, but suddenly she claims that “it hurts” or that she “was never into that” or similar, but the next time, she is really into it again, and so on.
Now that I have diagnosed the problem, the next question is how to prevent this. Well, probably only experience will help you. If I had a son, I would make sure he bangs hookers regularly as soon as he hits puberty. This way, he will build natural immunity against the evil machinations of wicked women. If your dad did not pay hookers to bang you, then the next best option is to seek out women to fuck and not proceed to anything more serious at all. Do this for a while just to learn more about women. You will probably also learn, particularly if you are only in your early 20s, that a relationship can wait. The worst that can happen to any guy is to have little experience and run into a woman who is out to destroy you, subconsciously or otherwise. Those Cluster B crazies will do exactly that if you allow them to get their hooks into you.
Lastly, I am reminded of what a friend of mine told me many years ago. In his words, “picking up women saves lives”. By this he meant that men who learn to pick up women will not get depressed and kill themselves due to loneliness. My view, in contrast, is that every man should learn to be fine on their own. They should not need a woman to give their life meaning, and if you look for a woman to give your life meaning, I think you have a much bigger problem to solve. (I also think that society has moved past shaming men for being single so this is less and less of a problem.) However, there are also men who seemingly have their life together, yet they do not know how evil women can be and how much they can mess with their life. Thus, I think that, indeed, sexual experience can save lives, but not in the sense my friend meant. Instead, it can save lives because it makes you less vulnerable. You go from being the plaything of a female psychopath to an observer-participant who know what is going on, recognizes the dangers, and has the ability to bail, now or after he has gotten out of the interaction what he wanted.
Addendum: After I proof-read the article but before posting it, I noticed that GoodLookingAndSleazy had posted an update. Here is what he wrote:
I’m still a little shook. I talked to the girl and she seemed nonchalant about it. Just said he lived near there and was walking home. I said “crossing the freeway??” She just shrugged. I asked her about moving to Texas with him and she asked me who told me.
I just said it was the rumor mill she said she didn’t want anyone to know. I also heard she dressed like a whore and went out a couple nights later.
She’s more nervous about speaking at his funeral. At my own grandma’s funeral I spoke and everybody loved it. Didn’t feel nervous. Duty called and I answered.
Why am I not surprised? The indifference as well as her looking for the next mark are textbook Cluster B behavior. This seems to be a genuinely damaged person. I am also reminded of a story I read a while ago of a teenage girl who got involved with an unstable emo guy only to encourage him to kill himself. Women may have a hard time murdering you, but some seem quite adept at making men want to kill themselves.