A reader of my blog recently left a comment on my post, Proud Sluts Are Worse Than Guys Who Burn Their Money He writes that he is fed up with women with high partner counts:
The women I’ve dated who had high partner counts had issues and I’ve learned my lesson the hard way. Inquiries about her promiscuous past would be met with “I’m proud of my experiences” or..
“Ihave no regrets”. I’m not puttingup with that anymore.
The bigger problem, though, is that trying to find a woman with a low partner count, let alone a virgin, is almost an impossibility in the current year
This reader is not alone, though. What I have been increasingly noticing is that there seem to be more men around nowadays who don’t even want to invest any time or energy into dating women. I know a few guys who go wild in the brothels of Eastern Europe or tear up Pattaya but who live quiet, content lives at home. When I was younger, though, it seemed that every guy wanted to get laid. If you had anti-social hobbies or did not want to spend your money on a
Through my professional context, I happen to know a few guys who would make for rather eligible bachelors. One recently tried to bring up #metoo via a joke, which I ignored because I’m a “ghost” in real life. It’s quite obvious that he gets it. Instead of wining and dining chicks, he has a high-end VR setup in a dedicated room in his apartment; he has the best consumer hardware you can buy. A few years ago, guys were ashamed to mention their prized possessions in public. Guys are no longer in any way ashamed that they spend a lot of money on themselves. A decade ago you were a “manchild” if you had a gaming rig in your apartment. Today, there are no chicks around who could call you that because you no longer give a shit.
What I have also noticed is that guys are increasingly getting fed up with Western women. I mean in real life. My first wife was a white Western woman, blond and blue-eyed, and with a sense of entitlement that only grew with age; my new wife is a demure and petite Asian who actively supports instead of obstructs me. Heck, I commonly get so drawn into my work or hobbies that I forget that she’s around. In contrast, the average Western woman I dated just could not stand if I did anything on my own — no, not picking up chicks with my bros but just sitting down and reading a book for a while or meditating. This is not a unique experience. Yesterday’s simp wanted a new girlfriend as soon as his last one left him. Today’s men often take long breaks, sometimes a permanent one, from having a girlfriend after yet another bad experience. Guys have slowly been waking up and no longer believe that having a relationship is necessarily beneficial to you. If you don’t want to have kids, then don’t even bother.
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