Blog reader “Manuel S.” asked a question about born-again virgins in response to my post, The kinds of women you should not date:
But what about [women who] disavow of their past and “find Jesus”? They in theory become conservative women, right? Can a man afford to buy that conversion?
The answer should be obvious, but the obvious is not necessarily so. Otherwise, there would not even be any women around who think they can just start over with their sex life. It is a fact of life that time moves forward, relentlessly. Once a moment is gone, it is gone. You may have memories you cherish, and you may have to live with the consequences of past decisions.
Of course, the crushing forces of reality are no match for wishfully thinking snowflakes. Her pussy may have taken more than a dozen cocks. She could well have had an abortion. But never mind — if a snowflake decides she’s going to be a virgin again, so shall it be.
The problems should be obvious. It’s not as if she can simply cast of the tremendous emotional baggage she has acquired in years if not a decade of offering her pussy to men who, and rightly so, never in their wildest dreams would have considered her long-term material. Furthermore, she has an entire lifetime to account for that led to her being a slut. Waking up one day and vowing to be a slut no more just doesn’t cut it. People have a hard enough time changing even trivial habits, why should a woman who has decades of poor impulse control to look back upon find it easy to not take cock anymore?
Furthermore, we have to consider that women who are shitty long-term prospects know full-well that men only stick around if they take their dick. Sometimes, when you bang such a “reformed slut”, she may announce that she “never does something like that” or that she “normally waits”. The more honest ones even comment that “they promised themselves to wait, but…”. Once a slut, always a slut. As they age, their sexual market value drops precipitously, so her choices will be between not getting laid (because quality guys have better prospects) or just keep doing what they always have been doing (being sluts). After all, it’s highly likely that a woman who willingly fucks guys has very little else going on in her life.
Of course, cucks may now come to the defense of these poor little women who deserve our compassion. They may accuse me of hypocrisy. After all, don’t guys like us fuck a lot of women? Unfortunately, for them, there is a very big difference: for a woman to get laid, all it takes is giving in. The guy makes all the moves. As a guy, though, you need to make an active effort. If you don’t do anything, you won’t get laid. For the sake of the argument we ignore obvious outliers that have women come to them, like celebrities. As a consequence, it is a lot easier for a guy, once he decides to settle down, to keep his dick in his pants. However, if you only had to go about your day and, well, go with the flow, it would be a lot harder to not engage in promiscuity.