Blog reader ‘Dude’ left a comment that nicely summarizes the core idea behind my books Minimal Game and Club Game, namely to make very targeted approaches. The average “gamer” approaches indiscriminately and may get one date out of 1,000 approaches, but with a smarter approach you can eliminate all the approaches that don’t go anywhere. Here is what he wrote:
Step 1: Be as attractive as you personally can
Step 2: Look which women are checking you out / give you signals
Step 3: Of those girls, go up to the ones you like the most
The whole last year I did exactly that . Didn’t went out a lot, but when I approached a girl it was mostly a one in done situation. No false numbers, no flaking, follow up date after meeting every time (I don’t do ONS, hate them) . Lay ratio 1/4 approaches – not 100 dead end approaches to get 1 fake number like all low IQ “coaches” teach.
This is how it is done. If you are good, you do about a handful of approaches and get laid. Sometimes, you may have a night where you do just one approach, and you succeed. Going out, making one approach, i.e. approaching the one girl you want to bang, and banging her is infinitely more fulfilling than “practicing approaches” or “doing warm-up sets'” or whatever else the PUA crowd told you.
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