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Has porn been breeding a generation of (literal) cucks?

The other day I listened to a few MGTOW-inspired videos on autoplay in the background. I don’t recall the source, but one guy raised the question if porn consumption has led to men being more accepting of men getting cheated on or making the even agreeable to their girls fucking other guys, possibly even in their presence. He was convinced this was the case. I wasn’t.

Even though his argument didn’t strike me as fully convincing, it’s worth spending some thoughts on regardless. That YouTuber made the rough argument that guys who watch porn are used to jerking off to another guy fucking a woman. I no longer watch porn, but when I occasionally did, I strongly preferred the POV (point of view) subgenre, where you’re essentially watching another guy’s cock on screen having its way with a woman. It’s like an avatar in a video game. Just like you steer a gun through an obstacle course in a first-person shooter, so does POV porn put a dick in front of you that represents your actions in a fantasy world, like some sexual rollercoaster. Yet, if you don’t watch POV porn or don’t get your rocks off watching some woman masturbate on screen, you’re likely watching a dude plow other chicks.

I’d say it’s a bit of a stretch from jerking it to Johnny Sins ravaging Porn Starlet #213 of the current year to being accepting of a dude fucking your chick. I think the biggest problem I have with the original argument is that you don’t view the chick on screen as some kind of stand-in for any past, present or future girlfriend. Instead, you view her as a chick who makes a few grand for providing access to her holes on camera. In that way, porn is objectifying. If it was the case that Joe Cuck is dating porn starlets, I’d say it makes sense that he doesn’t mind her fucking other dudes. That is not how things shake out in reality, though.

Instead, I think Joe Cuck not getting upset about his girlfriend wanting to be in a “polyamorous” relationship, which amounts to his girlfriend getting dick while he may stroke it to porn when she’s not around, has a lot more to do with guys just having no concept of standing up for themselves. They could put their girlfriend in place, but they are too afraid she’d get upset, so they’ll put on their best soy-face smile and nod when their girlfriend, Stacy the Wall-Hitter, tells Joe that she’d like to “experiment”. Thus, Stacy goes looking for Aaron or Tyrone and tells them that her husband is fine with it, and, oh, if you want to fuck them in the bathroom without his knowledge, it would have to be quick.

I can’t fathom the appeal of cuckoldry at all. I do vividly recall the first time a woman approached me and asked me if I wanted to have sex with her while her husband was in the room and watching. She was still pretty good-looking, presumably in her late twenties, and the thousand-cock star on her face certainly would have made it appealing to give her a good frosting. From what I could tell, the dynamics were that the poor beta provider schmuck she managed to rope in just didn’t dare to stand up for himself. I guess it’s not cheating if her husband is watching. She probably thought her guy was a complete moron.

I would wager that whenever any kind of cuckoldry fetish is being played out, the woman was the one pushing for it. The scenario of a guy asking around if anybody wants to fuck his girlfriend or wife, no strings attached, is just too absurd. How many guys would you need to ask? I’d bet you’d easily find someone willing to do so. Yet, that is certainly not what the woman wants. She doesn’t want to cuckold her partner with just anybody. At least I would be extremely surprised if that was the case. This is, in my opinion, the clearest indication that women must be the driving force behind the cuckoldry fetish. Men could stop this by putting their foot down or just not dating such a trashy woman in the first place. I think the only sane reaction to a woman telling you if you’d be okay with her fucking another guy in your presence is to kick her out. That’s probably too much for Joe Cuck to do. He can’t do that. Telling his woman to fuck other guys is likewise too much for him as it also depends on imposing his will on her. It’s a lot easier to jerk off while Tyrone bangs his wife. That doesn’t mean it’s because he’s spent years practicing the art of masturbation while watching other guys fucking women on screen.


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5 thoughts on “Has porn been breeding a generation of (literal) cucks?

  1. Porn is about fantasy and immersion. I don’t give a fuck what the guy looks like in it, because like you said, he’s basically just an “avatar,” but if he’s got a dick that looks nothing like mine, or fucks in a way that I wouldn’t or is boring, I’ll move on to the next video. It removes my immersion. Same with solo girls masturbating with a vibrator, or lesbian stuff, even amateur; there’s no way I can enjoy being immersed just sitting and watching them do their thing. Cuckoldry also has a level of voyeurism that I find boring and repulsive, this idea of inaction and powerlessness instead of virtual simulation. Furthermore, I have zero attachment to any of the women in the videos, nor do I expend any resources on them, emotional or otherwise. There’s about a million differences between watching porn and being a cuck.

  2. Most of what is considered porn is too direct for me. I’m skeptics of this guy’s argument, but not entirely dismissive.

    There seems to be an aspect of shame that people find erotic. Think of the catholic schoolgirl in the skirt archetype. I wonder if maybe guys conflate the shame stemming from restrictive upbringings with the sort of “naughty but in a good way” aspect of sex. Maybe they have some sort of shame attached to porn, sex and masturbation causing their minds to associate shame with pleasure. Cuckoldry is certainly shameful. That said, generally speaking I’m sure you’re right. It’s predominantly a function of the pussification of, well everything

  3. I don’t think porn has anything to do with it. More the numbers of broken homes that create these feminised men. And the increasingly more sexually crazed whore women. But i also think the numbers aren’t as high as they want people to believe. Just like with the interracial thing. Yes it happens. But they are trying to normalise it. Women often falll for the group pressure thing. If you hype iit up than they want to try it too.

  4. Well, I cannot fully decide where to stand on this debate. On the one hand, for some time I hung around a swinger club with a LTR partner of mine, but the interactions were as never one-sided as in Sleazys description, meaning I was never left jerking off alone but doing the other guys girl/wife. On a few occasions we would do a threesome with a girl/woman while her partner watched. For us, there was a sense of complicity and companionship in being perverts together 🙂 and from my conversations with other couples, a lot of them felt the same way. And IIRC, most of the guys and men I saw there did not come across as feminine in any sense.

    Sooo… the scenario of someone asking guys to fuck your girl/wife is not absurd to me, but it is extremely uncommon. No idea if porn was a factor for anyone there, to me it certainly feels porn was mostly irrelevant here.

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