One of my readers recently left a comment in which he mentioned that a friend of his filed for divorce after his wife put $25k on his credit card. While I have not had something as egregious happen, because I keep my guard up, I certainly have encountered my fair share of women who seemed to believe that they can control your entire life: housing, career choices, money, time. Had I been less careful, women would have completely fucked up my life by now.
Sharing a bank account is an idea that is colossally stupid, and so is giving her access to your credit card. In the best case, you have a woman who knows the value of a dollar and who therefore won’t even spend any of your money without consulting you first. Then there are women who assume that the money she earns is hers, but whatever you earn, is hers, too. My ex-wife is a perfect case in point. At a certain point, the mask came off completely and I saw myself confronted with demands for exotic vacations, cosmetic surgery, purebred dogs, and an apartment. She knew what I earned. Yet, she thought nothing of demanding I pay for what amounts to roughly my yearly income just for her whims at this very moment, ignoring the cost of a mortgage. At that point, I had already been plotting my exit, so I was more amused than anything else. Still, I was a bit taken aback when she just kept piling on demands. On a very serious note, I knew that there was absolutely no point continuing that relationship when she announced I should buy an apartment so that she could have two dogs. When I asked her about the contribution she intended to make, she claimed that two to three hundred Euros/month would be the most she was willing to pay. I had to chuckle. Of course, she needed her salary to indulge in recreational shopping, er, female empowerment. Presumably, she viewed the suggestion to save some of her income as akin to domestic violence.
I also noticed that some women completely disrespect your property. One girl deliberately ruined a T-shirt I had been using for 20 years. She thought nothing of it and considered it prudent to start an argument. In the end, I made that bitch pay — the original purchase price, adjusted for inflation. Thinking back, I should have added a small multiplier for retribution on top. Now imagine what would happen if you just wrecked one of your girlfriend’s pieces of clothing? Let’s say you need to fix your car and decided to just take one of her dresses to wipe off your oily, greasy hands.
A habit of mine is keeping original packaging of everything I might sell at one point. This is not nearly as crazy as it sounds as I purchase relatively few items. Yet, obviously, if you want to resell something later, you can fetch a much higher price if you keep the original cardboard box and everything that came with whatever you bought. The difference in price between just the item and an item in box, as good as new, is downright staggering. In extreme cases, we are talking about multiples. You can therefore probably imagine how incredibly pleased I was when I noticed that a girl I was living together with decided to just throw out a few boxes I had in storage, just because. Space wasn’t an issue. She threw a hissy fit when I reminded her that I explicitly told her to not touch any of my stuff. (Spoiler alert: that was also my ex-wife. I considered her throwing away my property a serious transgression. It was one of the reasons why I divorced her.)
This isn’t just a post in which I bitch about my ex-wife, though. When talking with other guys about their girlfriends or wives, I heard plenty of horror stories. The more ridiculous ones include the girl collecting a few things in the apartment she didn’t like — of course, this was all property of her boyfriend — and dropping them off at a charity shop. Imagine your game collection disappeared that way, just because some bitch doesn’t like that you like to wind down after a hard day at work by playing videogames for a bit. Another guy learnt that a book or game he could no longer find didn’t just disintegrate. Instead, his girlfriend just gave it to her brother as a “gift”. Apparently, she did not believe in the concept of private property when it came to her partner.
Time is likewise a very important resource. Yet, your average Western girl seems to think that you don’t need to have any time for yourself. How many of you have dated a girl who would just ring you at the most arbitrary times and expect that you listen to her inane drivel? Whenever she is bored, she calls you and, of course, in case you’re busy, she’ll get angry. From guys in the US, I have heard that it is quite common that their girlfriend would call them if she is stuck in traffic. In Europe, we have a different lifestyle. Your girlfriend doesn’t get stuck in traffic because she’s using public transport. However, she may not own a washing machine and therefore use a laundrette. That takes a bit of time, and since it’s too much to ask of her to read a book, she’ll whip out her phone and use her boyfriend as an emotional tampon. Clearly, your time is worth nothing to her.
The vast majority of women love to dictate where and how you are going to live, if you cohabitate. While you might be happy with a cheap, small place, she may have much different plans. Besides, what will her girlfriends think if she doesn’t live in the fancy part of town? Needless to say, this is a huge expense. The premium for a wasteful girlfriend or wive easily reaches five figures (in dollars) every single fucking year. You’re going to spend years working just so that she can brag to Steph and Suzy and all her other cum-guzzling friends about “her” apartment.
It gets worse, though. After all, your sweetheart may insist that you give up on career opportunities because she doesn’t like to move. This is a lot more common than you might think as most guys rather not talk about that issue. Some of the smartest guys I know, for instance, are hopeless beta cucks who are in relationships with women who are garbage tier. I have no idea how they manage to have sex with them. Yet, they have no idea of what they are worth and follow their girlfriends around. One of the more extreme cases is a guy whom I believe to easily be in the IQ 130+ range. His girlfriend has been doing one bullshit degree after another and because she can’t find a real job, he has to commute if he’s lucky, or even relocate, and work shitty startup jobs for six months to a year instead of building a career in a decent company. Thus, he allows her to wreck his career.
I have saved the absolute worst for last: women who saddle you with an unwanted child. I can’t even fathom how little a woman who forgets to take the pill (lol) must think of the male counterpart if she gets pregnant just so that she can trap him into the relationship, extract child support for 18 years or more, and probably alimony on top, too. Such women prove beyond doubt that they only view men as nothing more than exploitable resources. I don’t think they even acknowledge those men as human beings.
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