One of the most important insights about women is that their basic behavior will not change if her environment changes. To put it simply, a woman who is supportive when you are poor and striving will not become less supportive if you achieve some success in your career. This also works in the negative: a… Continue reading Fighting Over Money in Relationships is Futile
In addition to my sexual exploits with women in real life I also have a parallel track of sexual pay-to-play, i.e. “pay sex”, i.e. prostitution, going on. This parallel psychosexual arrangement (with some overlaps of occasional “A/B testing” between real life and the pay sex world) has been going on for some twenty years now.… Continue reading Pay Sex vs. Standard Marriage – a Ten-Year Empirical Evaluation (Guest Post by Lucretius Carus)
The programmer stereotype changed a lot over the years. Before tech was a mainstream career, programmers were perceived as recluses, possibly with a hygiene problem and a complete disregard for fashion. This image persisted even throughout the dot-com boom of the late 1990s. However, with the next boom in the late 2000s, due to the… Continue reading Tales from the Cuck Shed: Tech Bro Can’t Stand the Guy Who Bangs his Wife
There is an interesting discussion going on in Open Thread #404, which is a most fitting number for the title of this post. The starting point was a trailer of a movie by the highly subversive production company A24. In an upcoming movie, they push the idea of geriatric women being sexual objects for young,… Continue reading Mooching off Women is an Unsustainable Strategy for Men
In a comment on my recent article Destructive Relationships, Chris asked the following question, which I want to explore in detail: “Some women are so adept at pushing the guy’s buttons that he will hit them at some point.” So, how do you handle a situation like this? First, let us talk about the observed… Continue reading Dealing With Women Who Provoke You Relentlessly
As an addendum to my article Destructive Relationship I am going to discuss the problem of young men and their susceptibility for outside influence, with a particular focus on women. In the aforementioned article I describe how women can ruin a guy’s life. Now, let us look at why this happens. The problems of young… Continue reading Young Men are Easy Targets for Destructive Women
There are very few content creators on YouTube I follow closely but plenty I check up on every once in a while. Just now I finished watching the latest video by Thinking Ape, in which he discusses fear of missing out (FOMO) in the context of sex and relationships. There is one comment he makes… Continue reading Destructive Relationships
Lucretius Carus left a great comment on my article, How to Use Money to Get Girls, in which he details the understanding of the Ancient Greeks on “love”. In contrast, modern languages do not have the same level of differentiation, leading to a lot of misunderstanding if not downright confusion. I warmly recommend reading his… Continue reading The Many Facets of Love (Guest Article By Lucretius Carus)
There are a lot of dumb feminist claims out there. One I have come across a few times, but rarely, is that it is no problem for a woman to raise children on her own because even if she thinks she cannot handle it anymore, she can always get a man to marry and support… Continue reading Men do not Want an “Instant Family”
Feminism tells women that they are just like men, but better. Even when it comes to sexual relationships, they should behave like caricatures of the men they idolize, i.e. shun commitment but instead have have lots and lots of casual sex. According to feminist doctrine, it is empowering for women to get railed by a… Continue reading There Are No Fuckbois: Power Asymmetries in Fuck-Buddy Relationships
A friend of mine recently told me about a woman he used to date a while ago. Years ago, he was on the brink of entering a serious relationship with her, but he eventually bailed. Nowadays, as he is active on social media, he occasionally comes across woke posts from her, and he quipped that… Continue reading The Adaptability of Women
On my article, The Dangers of Marrying Older Women: Early 30s vs. Early 40s, Jessica left a really interesting comment about why it may be a good idea to go for women who rapidly approach the end of their fertility window. Her comment is really interesting, and it provides a perspective I had not considered… Continue reading Attractive-Woman Genes at a Discount
One of the more interesting films I watched recently is After Hours (1985) by Martin Scorsese. This is not a bad film at all, albeit it is quite underappreciated. It has a very similar structure to Stanley Kubrick’s subversive Eyes Wide Shut (1999) and for that reason alone it is probably worth watching for aficionados.… Continue reading The Appeal of Crazy Women
Recently, I watched all movies in the entire Fast and Furious franchise, a staggering eleven movies. The latter movies were about as braindead as I had imagined but the first three were pretty good, and I liked where this franchise seemed to be going, i.e. stories centered around the street racing theme, with changing main… Continue reading The Fast and The Furious Franchise and Differential Aging of Men and Women
Alek Novy mentioned, in the current Open Thread, that the actor Tobey Maguire is getting pummeled by the mainstream for dating a much younger woman. He is 49 years old. His girlfriend Lily Chee, is 20 years old. An age-gap of 29 years is beyond the pale for feminists. At best, they tolerate two years… Continue reading Feminists are Scared of Age-Gaps in Relationships
A friend of mine recently sent me a message in which he described a sexual encounter with a woman in her early 30s. It fizzled out because he did not want to commit. While he got what he wanted, she did not. One sentence stuck in my head and I have been reflecting on it… Continue reading When They Are Urgently Looking for a Man to Start a Family With
I wrote a lot about Toni Garrn recently, and her biography also inspired a few follow-up articles. Her mistakes and poor choices tell you a lot about modern women, after all. Recently, Lucretius Carus sent me a video of her. In it, you see her and her then-husband engage in a silly game for Vogue.… Continue reading Why Toni Garrn’s Marriage Had to Fail
I was asked to write about my views on assortative mating, and also expand on the following aspects: Furthermore, does genetics and/or upbringing influences the choices we make in assortative mating with regards to future and/or current mate suitors, and the type of mating strategy we choose to pursue (short-term or long-term)? Is there such… Continue reading Notes on Assortative Mating
Last year, my ex-wife died. I do not know the exact cause of death, but I have reason to believe that it was due to suicide. I knew her quite well, after all. One of her biggest personality flaws was that she struggled severely with aging. For this I should add that she used to… Continue reading Reflections On My Dead Ex-Wife
I started my end-of-year fundraiser post with the tongue-in-cheek remark that many of you “deliberately do not have an expensive girlfriend or wife”. Chris asked me to clarify what constitutes an expensive girlfriend or wife and mused if this is the case when the relationship-related expenses exceed your gross income. First of all, if your… Continue reading When is a Girlfriend Expensive?
Pickernanny just posted a detailed and highly accurate post on the correlation between porn-like sex and dealing with a cluster B-type woman, which I have decided to repost as an article to give it greater visibility. In light of Cheeky_James recent arrival and skimming through the conversations, and reflecting on some of my past encounters… Continue reading Guest Post: Reflecting on Cluster B-Type Women (By Pickernanny)
I have been mulling over what could jokingly be called the “division of spending” in relationships. Simply put, you can generally observe that men are held to a high standard when it comes to providing for their partner or even the entire family. In contrast, despite all this talk about supposed equality between the sexes,… Continue reading Female Personal Accountability
A topic that has come up occasionally, both on my blog and also in some of my consultations sessions is the connection between sexual experience and success in picking up women. Sexual experience as well as maturity do help you. However, we should not delude ourselves and think that we men will age like fine… Continue reading How I picked up Women in my late 20s versus my mid 30s (with a Summary of my Adult Life)
I received the following article request: In your Open Thread 278 there were two comments you made. 1. “…you need to be aligned on life goals and hope that neither your nor her goals change significantly in the long run.” 2. “…have a bunch of children. This will keep her busy until she is in… Continue reading Alignment in Relationships
The men that keep society running do so behind the scenes. By this I do not refer to shadowy creatures operating in the dark, but instead those men who work in factories, on construction sites, or on infrastructure maintenance. This also includes software engineers who sit in cubicle farms whose work ensures that Stacy can… Continue reading Divorce and the Invisible Work of Men
I moved a while ago, but I am not yet done furnishing my new place. This is intended only as relatively temporary solution, though. I like the area I am in well enough, but I am not fully happy with my housing situation. For instance, I would like to grow my own food and have… Continue reading Beware of Fiscally Irresponsible Women!
I paid some attention to the recent court battle between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard. The highlight reels I watched made for some pretty good entertainment. The most infamous revelation was that she took a dump on the maternal bed to send some kind of signal. If I recall correctly, this happened because, after an… Continue reading Amber Heard and the Female Drive for Self-Destruction
I received the following article request: I’ve come across a few articles on reddit on men who have struggle moving on after a relationship has ended. Some of these men are still yearning for their exes after seven-ten years (wanting to get back together again). I don’t quite understand what the underlying issue is, but I can… Continue reading Moving on From a Failed Relationship
A while ago I rewatched James Cameron’s True Lies. It is generally considered one of his weakest movies, if not the weakest one. The criticism is not unwarranted as the plot is pretty nonsensical, the narration long-winded, Schwarzenegger’s acting comical, and the humor and slapstick often fall flat. Nonetheless, it is not a bad movie.… Continue reading Sexual Attraction and the Drive to Reproduce
In a recent comment I mentioned an acquaintance of my parents and his untimely demise. He ended up killing himself but this is not the story his wife as well as other women in the community tell about him. As sordid as this story of female depravity may be, it serves as a good warning… Continue reading An Example of a Male Suicide, and the Female Retelling
Introduction I find it quite amazing how much society has changed in the last ten to fifteen years. Even five years ago a lot of guys were very keen on having a girlfriend, and being single was still seen as a sign that you were, at least to some extent, socially defective. Boomers may still… Continue reading Relationships: Early Warnings Signs in Women
Some time ago I came across the YouTube channel Thailand Bound. It is run by a British pensioner who glorifies Thai sex tourism. I do not even recall how I came across it. Probably the YouTube algorithm choked up one time and recommended videos of this channel as I was watching some Thinking Ape. Anyway,… Continue reading Being Nice is the Female Superpower
Several times in my consultation sessions as well as among friends and acquaintances have I encountered guys being stuck between two worlds. On the one hand, they would like to keep dating (or sleeping) around, or pursuing their hobbies, or make more money, but on the other they also realize that they have been, abstractly… Continue reading The Indecision about Settling Down
In response to my recent article on Mel Gibson, I received the following comment by Skepdick: More broader point is that if a Gigachad alpha like Mel couldn’t ‘hold frame’ and make LTR work, what is an average Joe, who is paying Redpill shysters for consultations, hoping for? This is, by and large, a valid… Continue reading Mel Gibson and the Giga-Chad Tax
The topic of women with a so-called Cluster B personality disorder has come up repeatedly. The term “Cluster B” is psychiatrist-speak for anti-social, borderline, histrionic, and narcissistic personality disorder, and oftentimes, a woman who suffers from one of them also shows symptoms of the others. Note that “suffering” is probably not the correct word here… Continue reading The Dangerous Female Sense of Entitlement to a Relationship
I received the following article request: Why women break up/end relationships and/or divorce men (I’m not sure if the reason(s) are the same in ending a relationship vs divorcing), and why relationships fail now a days compared to why our grandparent’s relationships worked out.” The mainstream media is quick to highlight why relationships fail. Often… Continue reading The Female Role in Breakup and Divorce
I received the following article request: The topic is “why women and men cheat,” and who’s more likely to be loyal overall. I’m familiar that women will cheat on their beta male providers, but are there other reasons as well. Are virtuous women prone to cheating? If its not to much to ask, what do… Continue reading Cheating from a Male and Female Perspective
When I was approached to write an analysis on domestic violence, I was asked to illuminate why women stay in long-term relationships with abusive men. However, domestic violence is not at all an exclusively male-to-female problem. Women physically (and verbally) abuse men. Furthermore, lesbians are infamous for very high incident rates of domestic violence, far… Continue reading The Stable Equilibirium of Domestic Violence
I find the concept of “closure” in the context of relationships bizarre. It must be an idea that has been promoted by movies and the cucked mainstream. In reality, however, there will never be any closure and it is quite easy to see why. Generally, there are only a few possible power dynamic when a… Continue reading There is No Closure in Relationships
Recently, we have been talking about experiences with difficult women on this blog. As it turned out, some of you have encountered or even had relationships with women suffering from cluster B personality disorders. It’s probably a bit of a stretch to say that those women “suffer” because they seem to quite enjoy living out… Continue reading Speaking Openly about Difficulties with Women
In a comment to my article Open Post: Why I Got Married the First Time, I was asked the following questions, related to selecting a woman for marriage and motherhood: You can have what you might think are good vetting techniques (I wouldn’t say I do personally at this point), but women and people in… Continue reading Open Post: Cohabitation is a Must for Assessing Women
In the commments following my article How Female Competitiveness Ruins Male Finances, two of you asked about my first marriage, and how I even ended up getting married in the first place. This is the context: Herkerderker asked: Have you ever considered writing a post regarding what led you to choosing this woman initially? No… Continue reading Open Post: Why I Got Married the First Time
Looking back a good decade or so, when the PUA community was still reasonably active, it is quite striking how much the attitude of the average guy towards women has changed. This is not something I base off the various toxic corners on the Internet, which I frequent with an intellectual Hazmat suit on and… Continue reading The Death of Relationships
As much as the mainstream pushes the claim that we have evolved beyond being mere animals, in reality we will never rise above our biology. I can no longer count on two hands how often I have heard variations of the claim that “X may have served us in the past, but it is no… Continue reading Contraception Leads to Lackluster Sex and Failing Relationships
Alek Novy made a succinct comment on the ideal mating strategy for women. It is a warning for every professionally successful man who suddenly finds himself chased by women who previously would not have given him the time of day. He writes: The ideal mating strategy for a woman isn’t to get an already successful… Continue reading Open Post: The Ideal Female Long-Term Mating Strategy
Martin left a great comment on the fate of a friend of his. Surely, many of you have heard variations of it or know of men in your wider social circle who went through something similar. However, as too many men have had their life ruined at the hand’s of scheming women, you can’t share… Continue reading Open Post: The Female Long Game
About a month ago I bought Animal Crossing for the Nintendo Switch. It’s marketed as a relaxing video game. It’s a pretty odd game as it does not have a proper goal. Instead, you live on an island and do a bunch of chores like catching bugs and fishing. In the end, it didn’t quite… Continue reading Random Acts of Kindness From Women
As you may have heard, there have been some dark clouds hanging over the British Royal Family. Prince Harry and the single mother he wifed-up, Meghan Markle, want to live their own life and no longer take part in the various gigs the Royal PR Troupe has to endure. In the comments section, we have… Continue reading Why Women Past Their Best-Before Date File for Divorce
In the United States, prostitution is illegal in most states. On top, there is a perceived negative stigma of paying for sex. Only losers do so, feminists and soy-boys wail. I have had a few clients from the US who were curious about the societal attitude towards prostitution in Europe. For some reason, they tend… Continue reading Fucking Prostitutes is for Winners, not Losers!
Arguably the key element of seduction is sexual escalation. If you don’t push the interaction from hello to sex, with various steps in between, you will hardly ever get your dick wet because women just won’t do the work for you. Exceptions to the rule exist, for instance if some gold-digger targets you for your… Continue reading How Women Try to Gradually Milk you For Money
