Alek Novy mentioned, in the current Open Thread, that the actor Tobey Maguire is getting pummeled by the mainstream for dating a much younger woman. He is 49 years old. His girlfriend Lily Chee, is 20 years old. An age-gap of 29 years is beyond the pale for feminists. At best, they tolerate two years… Continue reading Feminists are Scared of Age-Gaps in Relationships
A friend of mine recently sent me a message in which he described a sexual encounter with a woman in her early 30s. It fizzled out because he did not want to commit. While he got what he wanted, she did not. One sentence stuck in my head and I have been reflecting on it… Continue reading When They Are Urgently Looking for a Man to Start a Family With
I wrote a lot about Toni Garrn recently, and her biography also inspired a few follow-up articles. Her mistakes and poor choices tell you a lot about modern women, after all. Recently, Lucretius Carus sent me a video of her. In it, you see her and her then-husband engage in a silly game for Vogue.… Continue reading Why Toni Garrn’s Marriage Had to Fail
I was asked to write about my views on assortative mating, and also expand on the following aspects: Furthermore, does genetics and/or upbringing influences the choices we make in assortative mating with regards to future and/or current mate suitors, and the type of mating strategy we choose to pursue (short-term or long-term)? Is there such… Continue reading Notes on Assortative Mating
Last year, my ex-wife died. I do not know the exact cause of death, but I have reason to believe that it was due to suicide. I knew her quite well, after all. One of her biggest personality flaws was that she struggled severely with aging. For this I should add that she used to… Continue reading Reflections On My Dead Ex-Wife
I started my end-of-year fundraiser post with the tongue-in-cheek remark that many of you “deliberately do not have an expensive girlfriend or wife”. Chris asked me to clarify what constitutes an expensive girlfriend or wife and mused if this is the case when the relationship-related expenses exceed your gross income. First of all, if your… Continue reading When is a Girlfriend Expensive?
Pickernanny just posted a detailed and highly accurate post on the correlation between porn-like sex and dealing with a cluster B-type woman, which I have decided to repost as an article to give it greater visibility. In light of Cheeky_James recent arrival and skimming through the conversations, and reflecting on some of my past encounters… Continue reading Guest Post: Reflecting on Cluster B-Type Women (By Pickernanny)
I have been mulling over what could jokingly be called the “division of spending” in relationships. Simply put, you can generally observe that men are held to a high standard when it comes to providing for their partner or even the entire family. In contrast, despite all this talk about supposed equality between the sexes,… Continue reading Female Personal Accountability
A topic that has come up occasionally, both on my blog and also in some of my consultations sessions is the connection between sexual experience and success in picking up women. Sexual experience as well as maturity do help you. However, we should not delude ourselves and think that we men will age like fine… Continue reading How I picked up Women in my late 20s versus my mid 30s (with a Summary of my Adult Life)
I received the following article request: In your Open Thread 278 there were two comments you made. 1. “…you need to be aligned on life goals and hope that neither your nor her goals change significantly in the long run.” 2. “…have a bunch of children. This will keep her busy until she is in… Continue reading Alignment in Relationships
The men that keep society running do so behind the scenes. By this I do not refer to shadowy creatures operating in the dark, but instead those men who work in factories, on construction sites, or on infrastructure maintenance. This also includes software engineers who sit in cubicle farms whose work ensures that Stacy can… Continue reading Divorce and the Invisible Work of Men
I moved a while ago, but I am not yet done furnishing my new place. This is intended only as relatively temporary solution, though. I like the area I am in well enough, but I am not fully happy with my housing situation. For instance, I would like to grow my own food and have… Continue reading Beware of Fiscally Irresponsible Women!
I paid some attention to the recent court battle between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard. The highlight reels I watched made for some pretty good entertainment. The most infamous revelation was that she took a dump on the maternal bed to send some kind of signal. If I recall correctly, this happened because, after an… Continue reading Amber Heard and the Female Drive for Self-Destruction
I received the following article request: I’ve come across a few articles on reddit on men who have struggle moving on after a relationship has ended. Some of these men are still yearning for their exes after seven-ten years (wanting to get back together again). I don’t quite understand what the underlying issue is, but I can… Continue reading Moving on From a Failed Relationship
A while ago I rewatched James Cameron’s True Lies. It is generally considered one of his weakest movies, if not the weakest one. The criticism is not unwarranted as the plot is pretty nonsensical, the narration long-winded, Schwarzenegger’s acting comical, and the humor and slapstick often fall flat. Nonetheless, it is not a bad movie.… Continue reading Sexual Attraction and the Drive to Reproduce
In a recent comment I mentioned an acquaintance of my parents and his untimely demise. He ended up killing himself but this is not the story his wife as well as other women in the community tell about him. As sordid as this story of female depravity may be, it serves as a good warning… Continue reading An Example of a Male Suicide, and the Female Retelling
Introduction I find it quite amazing how much society has changed in the last ten to fifteen years. Even five years ago a lot of guys were very keen on having a girlfriend, and being single was still seen as a sign that you were, at least to some extent, socially defective. Boomers may still… Continue reading Relationships: Early Warnings Signs in Women
Some time ago I came across the YouTube channel Thailand Bound. It is run by a British pensioner who glorifies Thai sex tourism. I do not even recall how I came across it. Probably the YouTube algorithm choked up one time and recommended videos of this channel as I was watching some Thinking Ape. Anyway,… Continue reading Being Nice is the Female Superpower
Several times in my consultation sessions as well as among friends and acquaintances have I encountered guys being stuck between two worlds. On the one hand, they would like to keep dating (or sleeping) around, or pursuing their hobbies, or make more money, but on the other they also realize that they have been, abstractly… Continue reading The Indecision about Settling Down
In response to my recent article on Mel Gibson, I received the following comment by Skepdick: More broader point is that if a Gigachad alpha like Mel couldn’t ‘hold frame’ and make LTR work, what is an average Joe, who is paying Redpill shysters for consultations, hoping for? This is, by and large, a valid… Continue reading Mel Gibson and the Giga-Chad Tax
The topic of women with a so-called Cluster B personality disorder has come up repeatedly. The term “Cluster B” is psychiatrist-speak for anti-social, borderline, histrionic, and narcissistic personality disorder, and oftentimes, a woman who suffers from one of them also shows symptoms of the others. Note that “suffering” is probably not the correct word here… Continue reading The Dangerous Female Sense of Entitlement to a Relationship
I received the following article request: Why women break up/end relationships and/or divorce men (I’m not sure if the reason(s) are the same in ending a relationship vs divorcing), and why relationships fail now a days compared to why our grandparent’s relationships worked out.” The mainstream media is quick to highlight why relationships fail. Often… Continue reading The Female Role in Breakup and Divorce
I received the following article request: The topic is “why women and men cheat,” and who’s more likely to be loyal overall. I’m familiar that women will cheat on their beta male providers, but are there other reasons as well. Are virtuous women prone to cheating? If its not to much to ask, what do… Continue reading Cheating from a Male and Female Perspective
When I was approached to write an analysis on domestic violence, I was asked to illuminate why women stay in long-term relationships with abusive men. However, domestic violence is not at all an exclusively male-to-female problem. Women physically (and verbally) abuse men. Furthermore, lesbians are infamous for very high incident rates of domestic violence, far… Continue reading The Stable Equilibirium of Domestic Violence
I find the concept of “closure” in the context of relationships bizarre. It must be an idea that has been promoted by movies and the cucked mainstream. In reality, however, there will never be any closure and it is quite easy to see why. Generally, there are only a few possible power dynamic when a… Continue reading There is No Closure in Relationships
Recently, we have been talking about experiences with difficult women on this blog. As it turned out, some of you have encountered or even had relationships with women suffering from cluster B personality disorders. It’s probably a bit of a stretch to say that those women “suffer” because they seem to quite enjoy living out… Continue reading Speaking Openly about Difficulties with Women
In a comment to my article Open Post: Why I Got Married the First Time, I was asked the following questions, related to selecting a woman for marriage and motherhood: You can have what you might think are good vetting techniques (I wouldn’t say I do personally at this point), but women and people in… Continue reading Open Post: Cohabitation is a Must for Assessing Women
In the commments following my article How Female Competitiveness Ruins Male Finances, two of you asked about my first marriage, and how I even ended up getting married in the first place. This is the context: Herkerderker asked: Have you ever considered writing a post regarding what led you to choosing this woman initially? No… Continue reading Open Post: Why I Got Married the First Time
Looking back a good decade or so, when the PUA community was still reasonably active, it is quite striking how much the attitude of the average guy towards women has changed. This is not something I base off the various toxic corners on the Internet, which I frequent with an intellectual Hazmat suit on and… Continue reading The Death of Relationships
As much as the mainstream pushes the claim that we have evolved beyond being mere animals, in reality we will never rise above our biology. I can no longer count on two hands how often I have heard variations of the claim that “X may have served us in the past, but it is no… Continue reading Contraception Leads to Lackluster Sex and Failing Relationships
Alek Novy made a succinct comment on the ideal mating strategy for women. It is a warning for every professionally successful man who suddenly finds himself chased by women who previously would not have given him the time of day. He writes: The ideal mating strategy for a woman isn’t to get an already successful… Continue reading Open Post: The Ideal Female Long-Term Mating Strategy
Martin left a great comment on the fate of a friend of his. Surely, many of you have heard variations of it or know of men in your wider social circle who went through something similar. However, as too many men have had their life ruined at the hand’s of scheming women, you can’t share… Continue reading Open Post: The Female Long Game
About a month ago I bought Animal Crossing for the Nintendo Switch. It’s marketed as a relaxing video game. It’s a pretty odd game as it does not have a proper goal. Instead, you live on an island and do a bunch of chores like catching bugs and fishing. In the end, it didn’t quite… Continue reading Random Acts of Kindness From Women
As you may have heard, there have been some dark clouds hanging over the British Royal Family. Prince Harry and the single mother he wifed-up, Meghan Markle, want to live their own life and no longer take part in the various gigs the Royal PR Troupe has to endure. In the comments section, we have… Continue reading Why Women Past Their Best-Before Date File for Divorce
In the United States, prostitution is illegal in most states. On top, there is a perceived negative stigma of paying for sex. Only losers do so, feminists and soy-boys wail. I have had a few clients from the US who were curious about the societal attitude towards prostitution in Europe. For some reason, they tend… Continue reading Fucking Prostitutes is for Winners, not Losers!
Arguably the key element of seduction is sexual escalation. If you don’t push the interaction from hello to sex, with various steps in between, you will hardly ever get your dick wet because women just won’t do the work for you. Exceptions to the rule exist, for instance if some gold-digger targets you for your… Continue reading How Women Try to Gradually Milk you For Money
After posting my article “Women don’t nag Chads who can provide for them”, I had another relevant insight on that very topic. In the previous article, I wrote that because women can’t nag a short but economically successful guy, in the hope of making him grow, they’d rather nag an economically less successful but tall… Continue reading Another Note on Women Who Nag their Partner
A common observation that has become a cliche is that wives and girlfriends do not like that their men play video games. This starts early in the dating process. Some women even state on their online dating profiles that they “don’t date gamers” or even that they “hate video games”. Quite frankly, women are pretty… Continue reading Women don’t nag Chads who can provide for them
I recently read the Korean high literature manga “H-Campus”, which is short for “Hentai Campus”. It’s reasonably entertaining but I can’t recommend it fully, so there won’t be a proper review. The story is irrelevant, but for context I’ll add that it’s about a new degree program at a fictional Korean university that teaches you… Continue reading How Your Fuck Buddy Deludes Herself
One of the dumbest pieces of supposed wisdom relating to the sexes that are floating around is that women are the gatekeepers of sex, but men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Women often say that crap. It has very little to do with reality, however. Here is what is going on: Your typical uncritical woman… Continue reading Men are not the Gatekeepers of Relationships
I received a long and very well written email by a reader recently, who shared his thoughts on an article published by the BBC, entitled “The Christmas present that could tear your family apart.” In short, it points out that doing a DNA test with the entire family could very well be that family’s end… Continue reading Are DNA Tests Tearing Families Apart?
I recently had a very interesting conversation with a client who sought some advice on his marriage. To quickly summarize his situation, he is very well off and owns a multi-story house within the boundaries of a global city. We are talking about real estate worth millions of dollars. They have three floors and six… Continue reading A Housewife Horror Story
If you want to be happily married, the odds are stacked against you. The divorce rate is around 50%. On top, you can safely assume that not all the remaining marriages are happy ones. Just read up on issues like dead bedrooms, marital infidelity, or, for a perhaps unexpected twist, the fate of guys who… Continue reading The happy couple you see may hate each other’s guts
