I get the impression that the attempt to rebrand sluttiness as being “sex positive” has mostly failed. Some soyboy cucks may have purported to be fine with a woman having banged fifty guys before them, but this is due to the desperation of those guys and not an actual choice. Ceteris paribus, no guy wants to bang a slut. Even for a one-night stand you would likely prefer women who are a bit less loose. I have turned down a few well-known sluts in the past because I did not want to be associated with them, and among Chads this is not that uncommon. If given the choice, you want a “crypto slut”, i.e. a woman who keeps her sluttiness under the radar. Of course, this does not work if you are desperate and think that banging any woman is better than none.
There is the somewhat defeatist sentiment that, since a lot of women are sluts, the goal should not be to look for a virgin or near-virgin but one with a supposedly modest headcount. Suddenly, the goalpost shifts and people (women) tell you that if she has been with a dozen guys or so she is still as good as new. Let us ignore that if a woman tells you that she has been with “only ten guys” her real number is likely far higher as she has a long list of interactions that did not count, for one reason or another. This is a strange phenomenon in modern society, not quite unlike Schrödinger’s Cat, where sex has only happened depending on the perspective. The guy will tell you that he has banged her out but for the girl it “did not count” because she was on a vacation or feeling a big down or bored or had a boyfriend whom she does not cheat on. If she gets caught, she will likely falsely accuse the guy of rape, though.
I think that a woman being with five or ten guys is already a lot. Five guys is about the size of a typical team in an office. If you have ever been put in a team role, then you may have experienced that it can be quite tiring to deal with a team of five. Replace those five duded with cardboard cutouts and put them next to a chick you consider dating. Do you really think that five guys are nothing? I think quite the opposite. It becomes even more ridiculous if her count was twenty or thirty. This is about the size of a typical high school class in a state school. Imagine a room with 30 guys who have all banged the some slut! If it is now your turn, would you really think highly of either yourself or her?
Only the most deranged women boast about their lay count. They are out there, though. The misguided strong-women reading is that if you walk away from a chick who has been with 50 or 100 guys it is because you are intimidated by her. Any guy with at least a shred of self-respect, however, will walk away from such a woman as this would be genuinely disgusting, and this does not change if she initially manages to keep her past under wraps. As soon as the guy learns about what a slut he has been with, he will likely walk.
I wonder if part of the reason why some women insist that banging a dozen guys was not a big deal is also that they are numerically challenged. Just as they do not consider, for instance, total cost-of-ownership when buying one of those Nespresso coffee makers, they may not really have a grasp of how much ten or twenty guys really are. I am dead serious. For them, it is only one guy after another and those experiences kind of blur into each other. This is similar to how they buy one dress, and another one, or another pair of shoes, or a new handbag. Without consciously being aware of it, they accumulate so many fashion items that it boggles the mind. Yet, even as they are running out of wardrobe space, they keep buying, and if need be, they just throw out some old clothes, which they may never have worn.
Innumeracy may also explain why some women go all out when it comes to meeting new dicks to suck and fuck. Let me use an example that may be a lot closer to the modern man: Imagine you only have two or three games in your Steam account and these games are all you play: you know those games quite well and you could probably talk at length about their gameplay mechanics, story, and so on. Yet, as you buy more games, you will care less and less about any particular one of them. The number of games you own grows but your spare time does not, and at some point you can probably not even tell how many games you have in your collection. Women banging a lot of dudes are subject to the same limitations: the first few guys she may remember but at a certain point, it just does not matter to her if she bangs yet another dude. She may just not care about it at all anymore. There is of course a point where the past catches up with you. Suddenly, you are looking at 150+ games on Steam and you realize that your life will be too short to ever play them all. In contrast, women look back at dozens upon dozens of guys and, in a lucid moment, realize that they have genuinely fucked up their life. At this point, it seems that the only options are to seek refuge in denial (“sex positivity”) and, eventually, man-hatred.