This is a collection of feedback that was posted on forums or blog comments, or sent via email.
Aaron Sleazy is just about the only person in the PUA world that I think speaks from a real basic knowledge of how the sexes really operate, instead of from wanting to prove some cockamamie psychological or political theory.
His advice is realistic and reflective of the experiences of guys I know personally that have laycounts in the 10-40 range and that are only a year or two older than me. Guys that have never read PUA guru bullshit.
Looking back when I started “game” you were really the main triggering event that escalated my success.
Ironically, I followed a lot of misguided and harmful PUA advice throughout my teens and it did nothing but destroy my confidence with women and make getting laid and acquiring a girlfriend seems like this vastly complicated task. It wasn’t until I opted out of the PUA world, began having confidence in myself and putting myself out there through trial and error, and growing some balls, that I began to have success with women, and now I have the most supportive, loving and caring girlfriend I could ask for. (She’s half Asian btw, go figure.) Aaron Sleazy helped me significantly to rewire my thought process when it came to the nature of women and dating throughout my teens. I’m now 22.
There is a huge problem in the online stratosphere when it comes to ‘dating advice,’ and that is that the majority of the information is spouted by clueless PUA’s or gender-neutral dating blogs that pussify men by telling them to reject their ‘toxic masculinity.’ The state of dating advice online is abysmal. I have repetitively found over time that Aaron Sleazy preaches the basics because they work. Looks, money, status, confidence. Eg. getting in shape and developing self-confidence will do far more for a young man than studying the bullshit known as ‘game.’ Let me tell you, losing weight from 113kg at 6’1 to 86kg did more for my dating success, as well as developing my self-confidence and becoming more social, than following conventional PUA bullshit. I’m happy to say that I never had such a lack of critical thinking skills that I reached the point of aimlessly approaching random women on the street during the day in the hopes of getting laid. From experience, I can’t say PUA advice really offers anything of value to men and if anything, does more harm than good.
I give Sleazy’s advice more credit than other PUAs because the second time I ever went to a club I was doing the “rockstar” moves of picking up a girl, slamming her against a wall and making out. It wasn’t difficult at all. You know what? That girl gave me an approach invitation too, it couldn’t have been more obvious. Right as I was getting ready to leave she reached through the crowded dance floor and grabbed my hand.
Girls know damn well why you walked up to them at the bar, you are pursuing some form of romantic interaction. So why pretend like you aren’t? Like Aaron Sleazy says, give a good example of why you should hide your intentions. I can’t think of one. I also agree that looks are pretty important, especially at younger ages. It’s not everything but women size you up pretty quick.
I do think that Aaron is doing a public service. He is helping people by warning them against the ills of PUA. So I do hope his site does stay on and provides more contradictions to PUA bullshit.
It’s amazing how much my intuition has developed with recognizing which women like me. Thank you so much man for all your advice. I don’t know how much people seriously follow your advice, but it seriously works.
Yours is the ONLY pua website at all I will ever go on or ever touch again. I know you might be friends with some PUA’s but really you are the only valid one. I have become a lot more confident now. Dress how I want. Do what I want. I don’t go out much. I mostly read and listen to music ect and smoke a lot of weed LOL. Thinking about trying meditation too. Nowadays I don’t give a fuck. I only bother with a girl if she seems into me. When I do this everything works perfectly. I can do whatever I want with this girl and not have to deal with any fights or anything like that and I haven’t had such thing as “last-minute resistance”.
Dude, preach on. And thanks, your advice helped me realize that I don’t have to change who I am to get laid. I just need to be more courageous and direct. It’s worked. A little philosophical bullshit real quick… on some level, when I went indirect, I felt like a pussy inside. It actually affected my state. Direct, on the other hand, I feel like a goddamn champ. Even if I get rejected!
Thanks Aaron, for preventing guys wasting time, money, energy and spirit in the conventional seduction industry and showing them a more down to earth and realistic version.
Your work, Aaron, is the very corner stone of my mental liberation!
You have done a superb job at advising men with your reality-based approach about dating both on your website and forum. Kudos to you for that! I am not a member of your forum but I read your website and forum regularly when I have time. I have never been in PUA training but some of my friends wasted their time, money and energy on taking classes and practicing those strategies that they learned in real world. Seeing their result I would often ask them what they are getting after all that training (nothing!).
Christopher Hitchens inspired me to be more eloquent, less cowardly, and first & foremost totally skeptical of what everyone else is thinking. If I may say so, it is somewhat in that same spirit that I do enjoy your endeavours (either printed on paper, as forum posts or even your occasional elaborations in comments) as well.
I read all of your books. They have been great. Thank you for your fantastic work! The way you write just cuts to the chase, differentiating between myth and reality.
Sleazy makes two approaches a night and somehow ends up making out with four girls. He gets handjobs from girls on the dance floor like I get them from girls in my bedroom. He fingers girls JUST BECAUSE HE CAN.
You’re an inspiration to the horny good men in this world, Sleazy. Be at peace that not only are you giving women heavenly pleasure, you’re also inspiring and showing young men around the world what’s possible.
I was telling one of my friends to read your reports — and the guy was fucking girls in bathrooms and fingering them in sporting events within weeks!
Arguing about girls with Sleazy is like arguing about guitars with Clapton. Not a wise thing to do.
Without your influence a lot of guys (including me) would still stand around doing “cocky-funny” shit until the sun comes out.
I got laid using your advice. Again, I have to thank you. 🙂
I can now without a doubt tell you Sleazy you have been a very inspirational read for me throughout all your posts/views. You seem to never lean to the side that you can’t do something in the field, you don’t worry too much about the consequences & man do you go far out there sometimes in a good way, lol…you just do it and sometimes it works wonders, sometimes it doesn’t but you seem to improve from it. And that’s what I like about your style. You got that Rockstar mentality.
What about escalating? Normally the problem with escalating is that people don’t do it enough or soon enough. But you obviously can’t walk up to a girl and say hi, then kiss her, grab her tit and shove your cock in her hand unless you’re Sleazy.
You are one of the very few who have figured out how to be a leader.
Thanks for opening my eyes!
Reading your posts has taught me how to “allow” women to be into me… meaning, to recognize when I have really high value in their eyes and just to kinda hang back and let them work themselves up over me on their own.
You are a living fantasy for women.
I been looking at the improvements in your game with awe, and, I must be honest, a little envy – which is an emotion I rarely ever feel. (…) I think you’ve got maybe the best game on [mASF], and the attitude to go with it that I’d like to have or think I have when i go out.
Listen to everything Sleazy says. He’s awesome and gives great advice (if you don’t believe me, read some of his previous posts).
IMO, you’re so used to speed lays etc that you’ve lost touch with how bad the average joe actually is.
Sleazy has repeatedly taught me many many lessons. To name a few: developing makeout intuition, pushing myself to escalate aggressively, physical push-pulls, caress and comfort, and perhaps most importantly how to be the tacky bar makeout guy and still get laid.
I’m a huge fan of yours. When I ﬁnally get up off my ass and going to clubs your archive is the ﬁrst resource I’ll turn to. You’re like BradP on steroids.
You have reminded me of those elusive little things that makes one good — desire, not being ashamed to take what you want, or getting caught doing it. My game hasn’t been progressing as quickly as it should because of this — until now. It’s animalistic and I thank you for that.
I found your blog yesterday and read a lot. I really enjoy every page. Brilliant. There is no comparison to the whole bunch of bullshitters on the well known forums.
I just wanted you too know that your posts are really helping me a lot, and that you really changed my view on pick-up!
Sleazy, I applaud your game, and: you and I learned in similar ways.
From a learning perspective for a direct, German-esque eﬁcency style game, there’s no one better to learn from than Sleazy’s posts in my opinion, from my personal experience.
I just wanted to say I enjoy your posts quite a bit. I get very frustrated reading the stream of consciousness, poor punctuation, poor grammar posts that seem to ﬁll up fastseduction.com and yours are a very enjoyable alternative. (…) One thing that drew me to your posts is your perspective on routines. I think your perspective of A Conﬁdent Man Does What A Conﬁdent Man Wants is in line with what I would like to be.
I have no desire to get laid. I feel it while posting on mASF; maybe it’s just the spirit of this forum. But really I don’t. I just don’t care. It’s so hard to describe this. Is this happiness? I feel more similar to Cosy and Sleazy every day. They are my spiritual gurus! You can’t escape spirituality. And they’re just guys who showed me a way of thinking.
I think you have the sickest game I’ve ever heard of and I believe it would be a life changing experience for me if I could get to meet you and learn from you.
The difference between Sleazy, TVA and other enlightened crowd and the old community types is that old community guys were in it because of fear. Fear was their primary motivator. They did it all because of low self esteem, need for validation, fear of “being beta” etc. These days there are more guys who do it from a standpoint of pleasure, because they genuinely enjoy having sex and relationships with women, not because they need to prove something.
Your reports have inspired me to do things I didn’t think were possible before! 🙂
This old community stuff about learning routines and what not will just leave you frustrated and with little results. I thought Sleazy was arrogant when he said that the top level PU can’t be taught, but it makes sense to me now. You can become a good seducer only by getting insight from your own field experience. It comes from the inside, so to speak, not from routines or patterns that someone else wrote.
When I first heard about game, from the well known ebook Double your Dating by David DeAngeloD, and applied it, my success was very mild. I don’t know how I landed on Sleazy’s posts on mASF but from that point, I progressed tremendously: from multiple kissing & sexual contacts in nightclubs, to blow jobs in taxis and regular one night stands.
Sleazy has influenced me positively more than anyone else in spite of quite a different style and preference of venues.
Sleazy is a legend. I didn’t read much of his report on mASF, but I bought his Sleazy Stories. It helped my game a great deal. Now I have more confidence than ever!
I used to be in RSD, I was an idiot hah. It gave me way more problems than I needed and it actually hurt my “game”. Cause I get complimented on my good looks all the time and Tyler from RSD is like “looks don’t matter” so im like FUCK. Nowadays I check out your blog sleezy, it’s been real helpful. I hope to pull fast azz like u one day LOL Keep it comin Sleazy 😉
I’ve read “A week with Sleazy” by Illuminatus. Then I stumbled upon your blog. Spent quite some time reading it. And I have to say this: Thank you for all the useful, applicable information. I’ve yet to come across someone so smart & sensible in relationship & sex matters, willing to share (some of) his wisdom with the world. And for free. One seriously remarkable personality, you 🙂 Wow.
Yo, Aaron, like your style man, I got Minimal Game and read through it today and I got to say it’s down to earth, plain and simple. Also read Sleazy Stories, that stuff was very interesting, funny, and a great structure of your direct game. And I felt you really pointed out the flaws of the PUA industry. All top notch stuff man. You got a lot of good stuff. Have a good one man.
I tested Sleazy’s approach (screening for receptive girl) and ended up in a luxury suite with a gorgeous Ukraine girl. I made only four approaches that night.
Sleazy does the impossible — consistently. You’d actually have to see it with your own eyes to believe it. Some have seen it, and still not believed it. Truly inspirational!