Recently, a concern-trolling reader posted some rather insulting comment on here, which can be found in The Open Thread #48. Said reader, whom I suspect to be female, posted the following video. As you can see, it exploits people with disabilities. The viewer is supposed to feel sympathy for their plight. Despite their deformities and mental handicaps, they go on dates and try to fit into normie society. It’s so heart-warming, according to the cold-hearted producers of this show.
The reader continued,
These people are genuine, and more honest than what happens on your average date. It’s very touching. It’s not based on looks – but on human connection.
Advice for men: look in the mirror, then choose a woman who is on your level as far as looks are concerned. (…) How about, if you are an average guy, you go for an average girl with a “nice personality”. Then she will also appreciate you for your “nice personality”. Win-win.
What a crock of shit.
First of all, yes, guys want to fuck attractive women and women want to fuck attractive men. Of course, women also have a secondary motivation, which is securing resources. For the latter, a guy does not necessarily have to be attractive.
Second, men view women much differently than women view men. As we now know, thanks to various dating sites, men rate women on a normal distribution, i.e. most women they view as average, a few are seen as unattractive and a few as very attractive. On the other hand, women consider 80% of men to be unattractive. Their perception of men is completely skewed. There is a mismatch in the dating landscape due to the ever-accelerating hypergamy of women. They all want to fuck the hottest guys and wait for them until their eggs are dried up. Once they have smashed into the wall, a regular guy is suddenly good enough. It’s too predictable. Yet, more and more women end up single, or as single mothers. They clearly lose. The demands on a guy in the dating market are sky-high. Meanwhile, many women believe that all they need to do is exist.
Third, very few couples are “looks-matched”. Almost always the guy is better-looking. This gets worse the older they get. Just look at your average 40-year-old guy who is together with the average 38-year-old woman. (I believe that a two-year age difference is quite common in the West.) He looks still pretty okay but she is fucking done. Now fast forward twenty years and put a 60-year-old guy next to a 58-year-old woman. Her looks have been in the shitter for decades while he, if he were in reasonable shape and financially successful, could still get younger women. On the other hand, only guys with a disorder called gerontophilia are into older women.
Fourth, an average girl does not have a “nice personality”. Nature is not democratic. Average people have worse personalities, look worse, are less healthy, and less intelligent than people who are above average. The term ‘average’ gives it away. Your average woman is bitter because her only chance to fuck a hot guy is if she agrees to a demeaning pump-and-dump. Those guys would never in a thousand years date her.
Fifth, your personality does not exist in absolute terms. Instead, it’s due to how she perceives you. In other words, she interprets your behavior based on your sexual desirability. If a woman is physically attracted to you, you can act like a total asshole and it won’t hurt your chances. Picture this: a chick is really into you and asks you some inane questions. You respond, “I don’t give a shit. I’m only interested in fucking you.” Same guy, different chick: she introduces herself. You tell her, “I don’t like your name. I’ll call you Becky instead.” Still the same guy, different girl. She says, “This is a really great club. Do you come here often?” The guy responds, “I only come here for the women; I give a crap about the music.” Same guy, different chick. She says some bullcrap. The guy can’t stand it and responds, while grabbing her crotch, “Let’s fuck first. Maybe we’ll talk later.” In all cases, the guy is, objectively, an insufferable asshole. Yet, instead of getting slapped or insulted, the girls thought I was “funny”, “so hot”, or “not like all the other guys”, and got laid. If she’s into you (and lacks self-respect) you can treat them like shit and they’ll love it.
On the last note, imagine some doughy-looking loser said to a girl, “Um, ah, I don’t like your name. I’ll call you Whore instead, okay?” He’d be in big trouble. Heck, we are already at a point where awkward white guys may be put into jail for ten years for touching a girl’s elbow. Somehow, I have the impression that if he belonged to a different ethnicity and would have raped that chick instead, our cucked police would not even want to go after him. Just think of how long the open-air rape camp in Rotherham was in operation before anything happened.
In summary, if a woman likes you, everything you’ll say will be funny. You won’t be a creep. Instead, she’ll say that it’s hot that you go for what you want. No, no, no, you’re not arrogant and full of yourself. Instead, you are confident. You’re not a misogynist either but merely “traditionally masculine.” Forget about being perceived as a colossal asshole by insulting women — they’ll giggle and happily suck your dick because you are “special”. In less extreme scenarios, imagine you have an eccentric hobby and it somehow comes up. As you are a hot guy, she’ll view it as “fascinating” or “charismatic”. A run-of-the-mill geek, on the other hand, would be seen as “eccentric”, “weirdo”, or worse. Do you want to know how to develop a really great personality? That’s easy: be good looking and rich. Girls will love whatever you say.
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