A (supposedly) female reader got very upset after reading my article “The Plummeting Price of Pussy“. She writes:
You guys are a bunch of sexless incels. By the ignorance of your sexist conversation none of you get regular consistent sex. It’s like the blind leading the blind with these comments. Sound like a bunch of bitter cocks. Try talking to guys who are desired and are great at sex. Who are not misogynistic and not more familiar with their palm than with Susie. Normal men do not think like this. Just the dejected and under sexed. You guys are dinner and a show.
Is it just me or does she sound like a meme? I can almost hear Terrence Popp aping her, in particular the “bunch of bitter cocks” part. Anyway, let’s pick her comment apart. Ignoring all the spewing of hatred towards men who do not want to fuck her, a few factually completely wrong statements remain.
First, the number of men who are desired and great at sex is small. Let’s revisit the “great at sex part” later and help this misguided woman’s argument by enlarging the set of men to those who are merely desired, regardless of whether they are great at sex or not. What those men have in common is that they invariably end up having a very dim view of women. If you are not a Chad yourself, just try picturing you are one: women proposition you and women have sex with you quickly. That’s all great, right? Well, if you don’t think past getting your rocks off, then maybe. Yet, what you will also learn is that a lot of those women openly cheat on their boyfriend or husband. You don’t need to bang a lot of women in some dingy bathroom stall while their “betabuxxing” boyfriend is trying to order drinks at the bar but getting ignored before you end up detesting them. What you hear out of the mouth of women has the potential of making you want to quit pickup altogether and just bang hookers.
Most men have both the power of introspection as well as the ability to look beyond their own, meagre existence. The same woman who tells you that you don’t have to care about her boyfriend or that she’d dump him if you wanted to commit to her does not just appear to be some kind of outlier to you, particularly after you have encountered more of them. The first time some slut takes off her engagement ring, saying that “it’s not cheating if I’m not wearing his ring” you may chuckle. The next time some other slut says something comparable, your view on women may have gotten a lot worse already. Then you may abstract from your current situation and realize that you are witnessing a basic female trait: wanting to fuck the most desirable guys. Unfortunately, this is not the end of it. Because your inner life does not completely resolve around yourself and the kind of solipsism that is often attributed to women is completely foreign to you, you also realize that if you indeed dated such a woman, she may cheat on you the exact same way she is now cheating on her boyfriend because once he has committed to her, he is seen as the safe option as opposed to a wild stallion.
You may be a great guy and she may be really into you. Yet, other tall and handsome guys have big dicks, too, so while you’re chilling with your bros, she may be on a night out with her girlfriends, getting railed by a guy who may objectively not even be as attractive as you. Yet, she is disloyal and horny, and you are not there while that other guy is, so she just sucks his dick because it does not count if she’s only acting on her horniness, and him fucking her didn’t count either because he did her from behind and she was not looking at him. Yes, women really tell that kind of bullshit: they love their boyfriend, but with you it’s just lust, so it’s not cheating. How can you end up not detesting such women?
Second, the “great at sex” part in that reader’s comment is a great example of female solipsism and the inability to see beyond their own very limited horizon. Sex feels great to a woman if you are good looking. Sure, there is a certain level of skill involved in fucking, but this is nothing compared to the physical reaction she has to you before you put your dick in her. Have you ever had a woman orgasm before you even touched her? This happened to me twice. They were so horny and the sexual tension so strong that they just couldn’t control themselves anymore and just came. They also seemed to have enjoyed sex with me a lot, despite the fact that, back then, I was only starting out and not particularly good at sex yet, in my opinion. That did not matter to them.
Third, even normal men have started to realize that the real nature of women is far from the women-are-wonderful bullshit mainstream media is feeding us. The Old Testament, the Koran, or any other ancient text somehow is a lot more insightful regarding the true nature of women than our feminized media. As it turns out, the brainwashing is no longer working reliably. It is all due to women collectively overplaying their hand. Effectively, the first generation of women was able to royally fuck over men, that was when no fault divorce with lavish alimony was first pushed through. That was in the 1970s and 1980s. In the 1990s and 2000s, female abuses of men got a lot worse and more widespread. More and more men got burnt. However, this also caused much more awareness of this problem. Men began viewing women a lot more critically and, indeed, increasingly as a liability. Now, in the 2010s, the tide has turned. You find countless young men who have no interest in dating because they have seen their fathers and older brothers getting destroyed in family court. Those are today’s “normal men”. Yet, those men are better off on their own than women are, simply because men are a lot more likely than women to have hobbies and personal interests. How many women do you know who can hold their own in a conversation or who have mastered some skill they pursued on their own? No, some boomer-parents pushing little Stacy to lean how to play the violin does not count.
Lastly, this reader gives us further ammunition for refusing to date the common Western whore and only use her for sex. She writes that we are “a dinner and a show”, i.e. she views men she does not sexually desire as a resource to be financially exploited. Men have been catching on to this as well, which is why, as many women complain online, dating is dead. You will find few men nowadays who are willing to pay for dinner in a nice restaurant. Today’s dates consist of a cup of coffee at Starbucks. Men are willing to invest a few dollars in a woman. I don’t know how you would interpret this, but I’d say that this is a clear indication that the price of pussy has dropped like a rock.
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