As you know, I didn’t care much about women until my mid-to-late 20s. In that regard, I was starting late, but I really quickly figured out how to make them spread their legs for me. Once I moved on from just fucking them to keeping them around for a bit as fuckbuddies, I quickly learned that women live in a much different reality. For one, they all seem to be incredibly insecure. Yet, they normally want to put up a front that they are oh-so superior and don’t need men, who are losers anyway.
A few of those women, when they realized that I really didn’t give two shits about them and that they are very welcome to disappear from my life, tried to play mind games in an attempt to gain the upper hand. The by far most common accusation was that I’ll “soon be 30”, as if this meant that I wouldn’t be able to pull any more women. It turned out that they were not too happy if you told them that turning 30 is not a big deal for you because you’re not a woman. Some chick I was banging claimed that once I’m 30, I’ll look old. Amusingly, when I had first met her, which happened a few weeks earlier, she believed I was 22 or 23. I pointed out to her that even though she’s ten years younger than me, she has more wrinkles below her eyes than me and asked her how she thinks she’s going to age. She was not happy to hear that. Some other girl who thought she had to give lip I told that her tits are saggy already, and that it’s only going to get worse once she’s 30. The former wasn’t true, but she panicked anyway.
The reason 30 is a big deal for women is partly that it’s a nice round number. It’s more than that. A lot of women study some bullshit subject at university and then spend a few years in menial jobs, working as shop assistants, secretaries, or baristas. That’s not a big deal in their mind, because they believe that their buff billionaire will surely show up any second now. By the time they are nearing 30, the aging process will have started to have taken a real toll on them and, despite all their feminist bravado, they know full-well that they are nowhere near as attractive as they were ten years ago. In other words, they get a glimpse of the reality that they could very well be royally fucked.
In contrast, after my marriage fell apart, the first chick that tasted my dick was a cute Thai half my age (Yes, in the west). She even said she wanted to become my girlfriend after I told her what I do for a living. (No, I’m not loaded in any way, but I’m financially stable, probably a bit more than the average guy.) That certainly didn’t quite happen like that when I was younger and picking up chicks based on largely my height alone. I had aged a few years between my marriage and divorce, but my chicks, like the saying goes, stayed the same age. In fact, they even got a bit younger as their average age was lower than before because I just didn’t bother at all with women in their late 20s anymore and didn’t pursue some women who were more than willing to fuck me. In contrast, I’m willing to bet a lot of money that my ex-wife will never ever get a guy to commit to her who is even remotely of my caliber.
Turning 30 is a complete non-event for a guy. Heck, even if you haven’t really established yourself, you can still turn your life around. Plenty of guys do so. Once they fix their life, they will find it a lot easier to meet women, but having seen the true nature of women that is largely based on how much a guy can provide for them, they may be turned off by the idea of settling down. On the other hand, how is a single woman in her 30s supposed to fix her life? She’s not going to get any younger, and cosmetic surgery has limitations. Women in their 30s love getting fake tits as some kind of last-ditch effort to stay relevant on the sexual marketplace, but that normally only qualifies them as some kind of novelty lay for younger guys. Once you’ve banged a few chicks with fake tits, young or a bit older, it turns into a “been-there-done-that” event. In my opinion, they just don’t compare well to a pair of nice, firm, natural, young breasts.
My ex-wife thought she had a winning hand when I was getting closer to 40, but again I thought that it’s really not a big deal. I think once you’re 50 or 55, your age will start to show, but at that point, if you haven’t found your unicorn, you’ve probably seen so much of women that you’ve had enough for the rest of your life. I think women who tell you that once you’re 40, you’re in trouble are simply projecting. In that age range, you can still get young women. Heck, I’m getting close to 40, and my girlfriend is 16 years younger than me, and of all the women I’ve met, it’s not even the biggest age difference for me. I even know plenty of guys in their 50s who date women in their early to mid-20s. Some are clients, others friends or acquaintances. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves yet.
If you’re a single woman and hitting 40, you’re done. At 30, she starts to panic if there is no guy to marry in sight. A few years later, her baby rabies really kick in, and if she ends up being alone and 40, her transformation to roadkill is almost complete. In her 30s, she can still tell herself that she can still have kids. In her 40s, that is more of a theoretical possibility. Even worse, at that age not even bolting on fake tits has any appeal to guys anymore. Those women can’t be saved. Meanwhile, you’re the well-put-together 40 year-old who gets his dick sucked by a college co-ed in exchange for a fancy meal, and if that isn’t in the cards for you, you fly to Thailand or Eastern Europe and get to bang some lithe chick for little money. Women in that age group, on the other hand, have basically a zero chance for male attention. Their only realistic option is sex tourism to Africa, but that is a far cry from banging a buff billionaire. For a guy, though, banging a hot whore is not too different from banging a hot slut who does it for free.
Finally, if you think turning 30 or 40 is tough for a single woman, turning 50 is really fucking tough. You can safely say that a single woman in her 50s is never going to taste dick ever again. That’s largely true for 40 year-olds as well, but there is the occasional drunk and horny guy who’s willing to take her home when the stars align particularly poorly. Also, she has to admit to herself that she is never ever going to have children. And what’s worse? That she still has around 40 years left to live! I really wonder why suicide rates among older women aren’t higher. They probably don’t know how to properly off themselves.
As a 50 year-old guy, on the other hand, if you’ve been living your life well, you’ll be in great shape. If you don’t believe me, then go to a bigger gym in the evening. There will be a few older guys around. If they’ve been working out for decades, they’ll look way better than the average guy half their age. If you’ve stayed single all your life, struggled for decades financially or professionally, but finally hit your stride in your 50s, there will be plenty of women who drop down on their knees and eagerly suck your dick. If you want kids and a family, that’s still an option for you. If you want to instead live with cats, you can. A woman in that age range, though, can only do the latter.
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