We have been told the most absurd bullshit by the mainstream media. It began almost in a harmless manner. Do you remember when we were just called children who refuse to grow up? The implication, sometimes even the explicit explanation provided, was that guys like us would eventually grow up and settle down. We’d one day become “real men”, too. As it turned out, having an insight into the true nature of women — be it because you subscribe to MGTOW, have traditionalist values, or only pump and dump women — keeps us from making the mistakes your typical beta cuck makes.
Unlike them, we
– don’t marry single mothers.
– don’t enter relationships with women with a high partner count.
– don’t want to “man up” and rescue a woman who has royally fucked up her life.
– don’t think that we need to have a woman in our life to be happy.
In short, we do not depend on the approval of women, and neither do we need the approval of society. We know what a bad deal looks like.
What I find most amusing, though, is that the mainstream media just keep promoting their bullshit. Don’t worry, the mainstream is failing, so view them as a source of entertainment. As blog reader ‘ben’ recently pointed out, the mainstream hit a new low. Now they are not only telling us to “man up” and put a ring on some tatted-up thot with three kids from three different men. No, we are also supposed to also let women cuckold us. Yes, you read that right! According to prime purveyor of fake news, CNN, “Cuckolding can be positive for some couples.” You don’t even need to read the article to form your own opinion. In a nutshell, you’re a “paleo-conservative” if you don’t let your wife our girlfriend fuck other guys. You also get told that the “rewards can be amazing.” You really have to shake your head.
There is a very good reason why we use “cuck” as an expletive. If you wanted to be cucked by your wife or girlfriend, I’d say you should get your head checked. She’d rather fuck Tyrone, but of course she’ll let you keep providing for her. It really does not need an explanation why this is emasculating.
This also reminds me of those attempts of promoting polyamory. Polyamory means having multiple romantic relationships. One could make the assumption that in a truly open relationship, both the man and the woman could have multiple partners. In reality, though, men and women want different things in a relationship. She will easily find a string of guys who show up and pump her full of cum in the bed you bought, in the house you’re paying the mortgage on. However, women primarily want exclusivity and resources. If your wife knows that she’ll keep getting access to your resources and also that you’re so cucked that you don’t mind kissing her while Jamal’s cum is dripping off her cheeks, why would she be concerned? She’ll happily fuck other men.
On the other hand, what can the man do? It takes a lot of effort to get laid, while a woman only has to, essentially, say yes to whoever comes along. Presumably, Joe Cuck still has to listen to the inane drivel of his wife and waste an inordinate amount of time and money on her. How much time and money could he waste on some other thot? Not so much. Also, his wife probably would file false domestic violence charges if he brought some slut home to fuck, while he has to let her fuck other guys in his house.
I’d go as far as to claim that women will only suggest polyamory if they are very certain that their partner is unable to get laid. When it comes to cuckoldry fantasies, this isn’t even an issue because by their very definition, it means more sex for the woman, while the man can enjoy his feelings of emasculation because his sweetheart has other cocks to take care of. If you think that this is an “amazing reward”, you deserve what you’re getting.
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I had a couple making this proposition to me in real life one’s.
The most shocking wasn’t even the proposition it self. Or even the guy that asked me to do his wife wile he watched. I always thought he was a bit cuckish. It was the wife. She grew up in a small christian village. She had never had sex with a other man before. Her cuck husband was her first. She’s playing the role of the good christian housewife perfectly. They go to church every sunday. If this degenerate behaviour is practised by a couple like that. I wonder how far this corruption of values really go’s. And now it’s promoted openly in the mainstream media. This world seems to get stranger every day.
When i think of it i am not surprised at all. I mean, i see this happen all the time: girls with tradcon background (be it family or country), when they are exposed to
modern feministempowered views they changing their behavior. Exactly like with “cheating at another zipcode doesn’t count”. They release beast from within. They act as fem drones and do whatever their “sisters” do: webcam shit, porn, drugs, cheats, leftist politics, sjw, divorce, emptying bank accounts, rainbow and shit, and whatnot – you get the idea. Of course exposition is stronger (more successful) when they are closer to the source (cuckoonada, swedistan, united kingdom of muslim emirate, etc). But nonetheless the exposition exist and is powerful. I don’t know what it is: monkey see monkey do mentality, media brainwash or something else?(this degenerate behaviour is practised by a couple like that) this only updates said observations: that nowadays woman don’t have to get closer to the source (relocate), today she can passively absorb feminist bs anywhere anytime. As AlekNovy would say: every year feminists prove to outdo themselves.
This raises a (rhetorical) question: is one (strong) man enough to bring back order in the life of a woman, nowadays? Or it is impossible now (degeneracy is established so deep that there will be needed coordinated action of many strong men (ie whole society) to bring back law and order).
You (ben) answered last question many times by saying that western world is doomed beyond repair (“get out of western world now”).
That won’t work. I think your only bet is locking down a young conservative woman, early 20s.
ben gives counterexample:
I’ve tried to wrote only that: today average man have no options other that counting on luck if at all. Even with young conservative woman. Because she is exposed to propaganda all the time. As Ovid puts it: “Dripping water hollows out stone, not through force but through persistence.” All she has to do is to change her mind. And then you are doomed.
On second thought, other option could be: working with her on daily basis to reverse daily brainwash.
Let’s say you’re a music teacher. With whom would you rather work with: a young person who has extensive practice and has now only shown great potential but also partly achieved it — or with some inner-city kid whose only encounter with music consists of thrashing an old piano in a derelict building?
@Aaron:
“Let’s say you’re a music teacher. With whom would you rather work with: a young person who has extensive practice and has now only shown great potential but also partly achieved it — or with some inner-city kid whose only encounter with music consists of thrashing an old piano in a derelict building?”
I think the main take away in your comment is the notion of “work”. It’s always WORK. Now, you can work hard (inner-city kid i.e. strong empowered womyn) or you can work smart (young person who has extensive practice i.e. young conservative girl).
There’s always work involved, but there’s nothing bad about picking the low hanging fruit even if you have to walk a bit to get to the trees where they actually hang low. Long term, it’s worth the initial effort to have a tight screening.
@Aaron:
The former. Now i see your point. Thanks.
But good luck finding one. You find your Sleazy’s Gal – good for you. But for me (I gave up on women before i even started) or for some average guy, that is lottery if not impossibility.
@Neutralrandomthoughts:
Yes, that’s true. But one have only 24h a day, and work related to finding right woman is enormous, have many risks, and not guarantee the expected result.
Don’t forget that low hanging fruit turns out to be poisoned (divorce, #metoo, …)
I think he meant that the low-hanging fruit are conservative women as they need less training and guidance.
I fully sympathize with men who don’t want to bother with women at all. On a personal level, I would say that at least 80% of men would be infinitely better off by not entering a relationship of whatever kind.
“I think he meant that the low-hanging fruit are conservative women as they need less training and guidance.”
Correct.
“I would say that at least 80% of men would be infinitely better off by not entering a relationship of whatever kind.”
The older I get, the more I think I should be part of the 20%
chairman: (question: is one (strong) man enough to bring back order in the life of a woman, nowadays?) Only if you take her out of the toxic environment first. And it would be a lot of work. And small chance of success.
(is impossible now (degeneracy is established so deep that there will be needed coordinated action of many strong men (ie whole society) to bring back law and order). it’s possible in theory. But very unlikely.
(You (ben) answered last question many times by saying that western world is doomed beyond repair (“get out of western world now”). I stand with that statement. I don’t expect the west to recover. From personal experience in Western europe. I predict a slow but increasing decline. Followed by civil war between the migrants and the right. After that who knows? The last time it took 700 years to fight the muslims out. I dont expect the war to end in our lifetime. It’s going to be the most brutal war the world has ever seen.
@chairman
Even if you’re an above average guy, isn’t it still a matter of luck and chance as to whether you find your young and conservative girl? Being above average helps with getting the girl *when* you encounter her, but on its own doesn’t help you in meeting her. I think we underemphasise the role of chance when we talk about finding someone suitable.
Ben, youre wrong. Why would muslims and the west go to war. It makes no sense! Muslims come to the west to learn some western values. It is only a matter of time before LGBTQQICAPF2K+ will be added to the Quran. Who knows maybe Muhammed was gender-neutral? Maybe even female, like Jesus? After all it makes sense to me if the future was female so was history, before the patriarchy did their nasty thing. There are gay weddings in mosques in britain now too, these muslims when going back to middle-east will spread this utopia. The future looks bright.
I fear for your mental condition ben. You must be paranoid. How much right-wing propaganda have you absorbed? How deep is the indoctrination? Maybe you need some treatment with oxytocine. It can be injected to minimize xenophobia.
Islam will not change the west more than the west will change islam. Gendermeutral Islam is only a matter of time, you see.
I think your humor works a lot better if you turn it down a little bit.
@Neutralrandomthoughts
Apologies for misreading your comment.
@Sleazy’s Gal
Yes, chance is always involved. But consider that, that in deteriorated society chances for meeting anyone suitable is significantly lower.
Jon: (Ben, youre wrong.)
My people are angry Jon. They are tired of being silenced by their lefty rulers. This is what happens when the government shits on his own people for to long. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qj4dI7pKrNA
You were saying?
Ben, sorry to burst your bubble but the dutch love refugees and the refugees love everything dutch, like Brabant.
https://youtu.be/Yf7ZgmgckUM
https://youtu.be/1h57E3dr0hk
It was a Dutch who wrote this book after all.
https://www.amazon.com/Utopia-Realists-Build-Ideal-World/dp/0316471895
Believe, ben. In utopia!
Jon: Take a look at this Jon. Why should i have to pay for this shit Jon? It’s getting worse and worse. That’s why people are angry. Because our lefty rulers and media are trying to sell us a story that doesn’t reflect our reality. And we never see these numbers on the news. According to the evening news and our government. And not to forget our lefty teachers. It’s all great. And anyone who says otherwise is a hatefull extremist nazi. So please try to sell this to me. Why is this a good idea? Why shouldn’t people revolt? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypnC5-M7PhQ
Ben, your the same type of person that thought we would never have gay weddings in mosques. Stop being closeminded. Only a matter of time before all 1000s of genders are educated through Islam to Muslim children. Mosques will even have transgender bathrooms eventually, so will churches, just like in utopia Sweden. These right-wing predictions are way too exaggerated, Its similar to the China doomer predictions. Be better than that.
Furthermore, why do you post a youtube video of some random skinhead to try to convince me? You do know a highly gifted with intelligence person like me wont fall for that, right? Im just too smart for that.
Look at this.
https://www.dutchnews.nl/news/archives/2018/02/1refugee-centres-dont-lead-to-rising-crime-dutch-research-shows/
Not more crime, so your video falls short. I also spotted some cherrypicking.
Watch and learn how I deconstruct biased statistics. In the vid the skinhead talks about crime, and the example always have Dutch as least criminal and non-western immigrant as most. This is highly unlikely, as if the Dutch were least criminal in the world this would be known far and wide. More likely they collected data for every possible group, up to 200 groups then cherrypicked the 7 groups that supported their propaganda. Because since race is a social construct, there must be non-western immigrants with lower crime rate than native Dutch, yet these are not shown. WHY NOT? Think critical, like me.
Second, second generation explosivly increases in “crime”. Why? it must be because of the massive increase in racism due to populism. Because theres no reason for ppl born in Netherlands to be more criminal. This data is fishy. I suspect because the data is not actual crime, but crime SUSPECTED. So the racism hypothesis makes most sense. Suspicious!
Third, it lists costs of refugees and immigrant. a few billions here and there sounds impressive but its not compared to the trillions being robbed by free-market lazy rich capitalists. Why the cherrypicking. Also increase in gov debt is not correlated to refugees/immigrants, Its not like that was a straight line up in both cases. But showing debt going up is good to create fear, I guess. Once more, quite suspicious.
Skinheads cant fool me.
Ben, next time, I hope you wont fall for propaganda like this, hook, line, sinker. Be more nonbiased and objective, like me. Be more critical and an independent thinker. Lose the herd mentality and be contrarian.
Jon: (Who knows maybe Muhammed was gender-neutral? Maybe even female,) I dare you to walk around with a sign saying that in the area where i was born. I would be willing to pay you 1000 euro for just 15min. Only one problem. You wouldn’t make it out alive. Even if you somehow survive the first stab or shot. No ambulance would pick you up. And no police would come to protect you. Because it’s a no go zone. (In contrast. When i was born there 35y ago. People didn’t even locked their doors.)
jon: utopia? #120db!
I don’t know the youtuber that posted the video. But the english subs are reasonably correct (some minor mistakes). And all video came from dutch mainstream media. You think there will be utopia. I showed the clip to show that violence will be the future of europe.
And i was already aware about that so called research. We all had a great laugh in the Netherlands when they told us on the news. Most of all because everybody knows that they stopped reporting it. And there was even a deal made between the police and the mainstream media not to report it. And the study didn’t include the rapes and other crimes that were committed only a few hundred meters away from the centre. But that all doesn’t even matter. Because their children who will be born here are even worse. And the third generation will be even worse than them. They live only 4 months in these centres and than they are given a 200k+ house to live in. Free everything. And their families are flown in. And i get the bill.
Jesus, Ben!
Your lack of rationality and common sense is really starting to get to me. Dont you see im trying to help you?? But its like im talking to a brick wall. You are also extremely paranoid. Ben, why would Dutch gov cover up crime? Dutch gov has a huge SS system, so it obviously cares about it citizens. It makes no sense to cover up crimes. And police fight crime, not help it. feelings of safety is increasing too so it corroborates falling crime statistics. Less people are voting PVV too. The sky is blue!
And when one runs out of real arguments, one uses appeal to emotions, like in the 120db video.
You can do better than that, Ben.
Maybe you should just give up. Im out of your league because of my high intelligence. I never lose a debate here, because Im the smartest guy on this blog. Besides, im well informed on every trick in the book. Sorry, Ben. I hope you can handle the truth. Its like the red pill from the matrix.
Here is some objective science and facts to counter the emotions.
https://decorrespondent.nl/4212/stiekem-zijn-we-allemaal-communisten-al-eeuwen-de-hele-dag-door/161930340-c837c928
Yes, the future is a communist utopia! (like china)
Jon: This is german. But it’s the same in all Western European countries. Please go tell these women about utopia!
jon: (as if the Dutch were least criminal in the world this would be known far and wide. More likely they collected data for every possible group, up to 200 groups then cherrypicked the 7 groups that supported their propaganda.) This data is official government released data. (leftwing migrant loving government) And as i was saying. They dont even report most cases. And even silence victims of migrant crime. So this picture is even more positively in favour of your viewpoint than reality. And it’s not saying dutch people are the least criminal in the world. Just the least criminal in their own county. And until a relatively short time ago. The dutch were known to be one of the most tolerant peoples in the world. But that’s changing real fast now. To a point were people are now attacking their cityhall. When the lefty officials want to build another migrant centre. That’s what i’m trying to tell you. There will be no peace. This is going to end really badly for both the dutch and the migrants. And Europe.
Be, there are 200+ ethnic groups in Amsterdam alone. Why leave out this data of other groups? because it doesnt fit the narrative. We need to use our common sense here. Its obviously fake news.
Ben, I thought I saved you from fascism, but you are regressing. it makes me sad. You say stuff like that all women are manipulative. You want less feminism by limiting immigration.
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/gabby-aossey/muslims-are-the-true-feminists_b_9877692.html
I bet you even want to ban headscarves because, you dislike women having a choice what to wear…
In other words, Ben, are you a supporter of the patriarchy? You seem to be against feminism. That would make you a sexist.
Furthermore you ignore the scientific benefits of diversity, because you appear dislike other skin colors
https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/she-the-people/wp/2014/11/26/diversity-is-good-why-doesnt-everyone-agree/?utm_term=.42d6866591b3
Im beginning to suspect you have racist tendencies, which would make you a racist.
And the combination of both would make you a fascist.
NO BEN! We must never again let fascism into Europe or into our hearts. Never again!
Sexism, racism, fascism…. just say No, Ben. Please help create utopia together. for realists.
Jon: (Maybe you should just give up. Im out of your league because of my high intelligence. I never lose a debate here, because Im the smartest guy on this blog. Besides, im well informed on every trick in the book. Sorry, Ben. I hope you can handle the truth. Its like the red pill from the matrix.) And we are all in awe of your great intellect.
(is really starting to get to me.) Why do you think i debate a troll in the first place? I’m having a great time. Alway’s wondering what crazy stuff you come up with. But if the stress is becoming to much for you i’ll understand. You can always go back into your savespace and have a good cry. It’s oke Jon. No shame. We all understand that being such an enormous intellect must be a great burden for you.
Jon: (I bet you even want to ban headscarves) I don’t, I don’t care what people wear that much. But saying that it’s a sign of liberation? Most muslim women are forced to wear it.
(you appear dislike other skin colors) It’s not so much the color of the skin that i dislike. It’s the cultures, low IQ and criminal behaviour that comes with it.
(Ben, are you a supporter of the patriarchy?) The patriarchy doesn’t exist. But yes. I’m in favour of a patriarchal system were women are considered property of their father’s and later their husbands.
(That would make you a sexist.) Sexist and proud!
Question: Are you triggered yet?
Does it make sense to get married when you are older with a woman much younger?
If so, is the game different then? How do you stay relevant?
That’s the only way it makes sense, in my opinion.
It makes sense to me as well that way.
However, I will be too old for clubs by then, so I will have to have a good social circle by then. Which as it seems won’t be much of a problem.
I suppose I too can stay relevant by being someone of status and money even well into my fifties for that matter. Provided I stay relatively good looking by working out regularly, isn’t it?
It’ll get tough in your fifties, but forties shouldn’t be a problem.
Working out isn’t enough. Just combine with TRT. Will give you a younger look.
Does anybody have experience with TRT? Or have had contacts with guys who used it.
I’ve had contact with bodybuilders who juiced, but TRT is off course not the same.
There are channels on YouTube that cover trt. There’s even a q&a series with a doctor where he answers trt questions from readers. He specializes in male issues and try.
I haven’t looked into it too much since I still have 5-10 years before I do it.
It’s an attempt to re-frame an insult guys hurl at other men. Similar to ‘fat acceptance’ (or any other trope), now the lame stream media is trying to tell guys that you should be ‘loud and proud’ to be a cuck!
I hope you’re right that the mainstream media is on its last legs. The scary thing is how stupid the common person is that they’ll ingest any piece by CNN, Daily Mail…the Economist…
In a similar vein to “wtf” about what media outlets are trying to shove down men’s throats…
Playboy has gone down the lefty path….
…by having transgender “women” as their COVER models. Like, your guy is supposed to get off on a former man who is now a woman. (I admit, I’m confused about the whole transgender vs transsexual vs. tran-whatever dichotomies!).
German story: https://www.rtl.de/cms/dschungelcamp-2018-transgender-model-giuliana-farfalla-laesst-fuer-den-playboy-die-huellen-fallen-4138712.html
English post about it: https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/5316146/giuliana-farfalla-transgender-model-german-playboy/
WTF! Straight guys are supposed to jerk off to a former guy?!!!
Playboy has been a woman’s brand for some time now. It’s not really aiming at men anymore. And just like CNN it has become mostly inrelevant because of the internet. Fuck Playboy. It’s a woman’s magazine now. They should change the name to gold digging whores united or something.
I’d rather fuck Farfalla than most women I see out and about these days 😆
Pickernanny: I wouldn’t do either. But if you like i can hook you up with a Thai ladyboy. No problem. No judgement. Each his own. I can deliver everything you can possibly wish for. Women, men, trans, something in between. One at a time, 2, 4, 10. Submissive or dominant. No problem at all. Just be careful what you wish for. I dont do refunds. And no mail delivery.
Pickernanny: Cash only, dollars, euro’s or THB.
Anyone remember the 1990 movie “revenge” with Kevin Costner and Madeleine Stowe?
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0100485/
Spoiler alert!
In that movie Stowe is married to some wealthy man but she gets bored (suprised?).
She choose to cheat with Costner, trying to make her husband a cuck.
After husband finds out, he order to beat to death bull, divorces his “wife” and placed her in cheap brothel.
Ending spoiler!
The cheating whore dies.
Nowadays probably no one in hollywood would dare to make movie like this again.
Heck even on TV it is not rerunned.
How the world changed for worse since 1990. today her choices would be appraised.
This is an another example of why West is not a civilisation anymore.
Sounds like a great movie to watch. Thanks for the recommendation!
It’s an oke movie. Movies were still about the storyline. But it’s still painted like the guy fucking his friend’s wife was right to do so. And the woman cucking her husband as the victim. You could say it excuses the behaviour. It’s basically saying that it’s oke if you fall in love with your husband’s friend to cuck him. It’s romantic even.
Similar to the original post about the media pushing ‘cuckoldry’, check out how there is the attempt to boost the idea of being a ‘beta male’:
https://www.mrctv.org/blog/magazine-hails-triumph-beta-male-and-gets-relentlessly-mocked
Jon: I’m sorry, but the narrative your pushing IS the propaganda. Flooding countries with refugees absolutely destabilizes countries, and also dilutes the native voting base, the entire purpose of flooding western countries with millions of refugees is to replace populations with a dedicated slave class of voters that will always vote for leftists in order to maintain their welfare and what not, and also to destabilize the regions in order to bring in more and more tyranny and control as a “solution” to the very problem that they created, on purpose. The destabilization of western society has been the long game of globalist crony capitalists in joint effort with the communist Chinese. This is not propaganda, because it’s not a narrative that’s pushed. You actually have to dig to get this information. It’s all part of New World Order which they claim is gonna be a “utopia” but it’s busy feudalism, in which only the elite are allowed to participate in the “free” market, it’s called “stake holder capitalism” while the general population will be a slave class that’s bound by authoritarian communism and must rely on the state for all their needs, and in turn, they give up all their civil liberty or they don’t get their basic needs fulfilled by the state. In other words, if the slave steps out of line, he ain’t gonna eat that week. Yes I used the word “ain’t” and you’ll claim I’m an uneducated racist that’s alt right and brainwashed. But he reality is, anyone that feels the need to say things like “I’m just too intelligent to buy into what you’re selling” or “I won’t lose a debate because I’m the smartest person on this blog”, I mean come on, anyone that has to boast their intelligence, does nothing but demonstrate the lack there of. I’m a classical liberal, I believe in individual liberty and freedom of personal choice, and the right to prosper without big government intervention. You’re THE example of how communists have taken the liberal idiolgy and hijacked it with communist rhetoric and propaganda… As such I’m sure you go around spouting words like ” social equity” and “preferred pronouns” and all the transgender degeneracy that comes with that agenda. Am I “transphobe”?, to be honest, I’m worried about the agenda behind it… Were you start trying to legislate speech, and laws removing the rights of parents to make health decisions for their children like getting your kids taken because you don’t wanna allow your 8 year old to stay hormone therapy and transition their gender, because they say it’s “neglect” again… This is a destabilization campaign against the western culture. They advocate taking your kids and brain washing them with trans rhetoric and that’s straight up psychological abuse. I don’t hate transgender people, in fact, I care about them enough to call it out for what it is, even if it hurts feelings, it’s a psychological disorder, and psychological treatment should be given every chance to work before somebody makes that choice to transition. The statistics are clear that 40%+ of transgender people commit suicide post trans surgery. So yeah, I’d advocate trying everything you can to fix the problem at the root, but because I’M A REAL LIBERAL if therapy has not worked and they are dead set on transition, then by all means, it’s your life, and you live it to your pursuit of liberty and happiness, and I would not judge you for that and I would hope the best for you.
And the very communist regimes that push this destabilizing propaganda, will Round up the LGBTs among their own population and cart them off to a death camp sad but true. But the reality is, that transgender and gay movements, are considered mental disorders in these places and they don’t want the idiolgy spreading amongst their culture. They are tyrants and God help us all once they finally start to round up conservative, liberty loving, traditionalists in the west. And it’s now 2021, and if you have been paying any attention at all, it’s very easy to see, they are here, we are occupied, and they will be coming. Sooner rather than later.
@Rationalist:
Please format your text, man. Most people aren’t going to read a block of text like that. 🙁