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Open Thread #402: Women/Dating

Aaron "Sleazy" Elias

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  1. Here you can watch a modern woman telling her boyfriend that she has been with 650 guys:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JyEzeeZBaI4
    This might sound impossible, but with a bit of discipline this is easily doable. Most whores do not brag about their body count but I recall once chick telling me that she had banged over 200 guys in her first year at college. She had just started her second year. Needless to say, I did not even want use her for a quick pump-and-dump.

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    2. Ah, I watched Eurotrip just a couple of months ago! 🙂

      Nothing much to write home about, and pretty degenerate at times, but good, easily digestible, light-hearted fun 1990s-style. 🙂

    1. I wonder if the first figure is a legal production or not (as in licensed by the rights holder) ?

      The second one definitely is not. It appears to be a trash-tier quality pirate copy made in Malaysia. Check out their disclaimer:
      “Resin statue is fragile in nature so we couldn’t 100% guarantee it will be arrived intact although all products are well packed before shipment. Small fixing job is sometimes required from your side (fix with gorrila glue) and we can only try our best to get replacement from studio if needed. All products are handmade so it might be some paints flaw on certain product that we couldn’t guarantee. NO COMPENSATION will be given for these faults but you can always consult us for after sales service. DO NOT purchase if you do not accept this.”
      https://www.miraicollectibles.com/xing-dong-studio-tifa-lockhart

      Same studio, Xing Dong Studio. I’d advise against buying any product from them, regardless of purpose, unless you want to risk getting some low-quality trash. 🙁

      If anyone ever does produce a high-quality, uh, “companionship” doll of Tifa Lockhart, I imagine sales will be astronomical. I know she’s a dream girl for millions of gamer guys. I doubt Square Enix would license such a doll though, heh.

    2. I highly doubt that any of these dolls are officially licensed. Malaysia is not synonymous with quality, but some Chinese-produced dolls have a reputation for being excellent products. My angle was more about the many options people have when it comes to love dolls.

      Regarding licensing, I can only imagine one director agreeing to such a deal, Yoko Taro, the creator of the Nier franchise. He would probably be fine with people enjoying the character 2B in an entirely different way. Too bad that Tomonobu Itagaki is no longer involved with Team Ninja. The Dead or Alive girls would also have been great as officially licensed dolls.

  5. Random thought: I just thought of something regarding the woke stuff we’ve been discussing. Why the hell is it offensive to say black people like fried chicken and watermelon?

    I give a thumbs up to both! Tasty stuff. If someone said white people like burgers, fries and milk shakes, I’d say FUCK yeah we do (on occasion). I’m only offended if they say we like something that we actually don’t (like tuna casserole).

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    2. It’s just been associated with racism, because racists used the caricature to make fun of blacks over time. There’s obviously nothing inherently racist about liking fried chicken and watermelon – as you point out, you yourself do.

      Full disclosure: I like fried chicken, but not watermelon. 🙂

      PS. The stereotype has actually been used for marketing purposes in the past: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coon_Chicken_Inn

    3. @GoodLookingAndSleazy
      I’m not sure if you heard of the comedian Gabriel Iglesias, but he makes a joke about a racist gift basket to blacks.

    4. Thanks Chris, those guys are great! I needed a good laugh. Can’t believe I haven’t heard of them. My eyes are literally watering 😂

    5. The only thing I didn’t get was the Chamber of Commerce angle. The CoC hates 99 percent of working Americans, not just black people 😉

    6. My interpretation is that this alluded to blacks’ sense of vanity. It is not very realistic that the local CoC would send a comedian a gift basket, but they would not question it. On a related note, blacks have their own universities and colleges. I am not sure how strong they are academically, but that is probably besides the point.

    8. Oh, and it wouldn’t be a gift basket. It would be front row tickets to the Super Bowl. And they would “get them back” with 1 million more jobs moved to China and continuing open borders.

    9. Thank prank was hilarious. 😀

      Fresno is a small city (by American standards). In smaller American towns and cities, the Chamber of Commerce is often very pro-business, and happy to see out-of-towners coming into the town and bringing money to local businesses.

      That being said, I agree that the odds of the Fresno Chamber of Commerce sending a gift basket like that are close to zero. But G Reilly didn’t know that. 🙂

  6. Funny observation of female cat calling. Dude’s in a car, female pedestrians cat call ( sometimes, rarely)

    Dude’s walking, girls in a car: Cat call (again, rarely).

    Face to face? NOTHING of the sort.

    I guess dude’s are kinda the same way. I mean both genders need to get better at flirting face to face.

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  7. GLAS, since we’ve had a similar history of having had massive anti-game in the past, do you sometimes feel its a blessing in disguise? Almost every female schoolmate I used to know has fattened up. I just looked up that 29 year old chick that threw herself at me when I was 18 and…holy cow. She was never impressive to begin with (I didn’t need anti-game to dodge that one), but boy did she balloon up. What’s even funnier is…her husband didn’t get fat. He’s no looker either, mind you. But he didn’t fatten up.

    Man, if this is what we’re supposed to eventually get signed up for (marriage), count me out.

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    1. Lol, I have to admit to being a pretty petty guy. Sometimes I look up girls on social media who turned me down in high school or college. I get a good laugh at what they look like now ………

      And an even bigger laugh at their husband 😂

      🤜🤛

    2. I definetely do. If I had even moderate success in my teens I’d have probably shacked up with some ugly feminist. As opposed to where I am now, messing around with hotties much younger than me.

  8. Ok, so this is a fun one. Reddit feminists are discussing the idea that the manosphere is “hiring paid actresses”. Why?

    Well, apparently there’s an increasingly large number of videos coming out from post-wall women crying how they gambled their 20s on chads, which manospherians love to share. So, the manospherians must be hiring professional actresses to pretend for money.

    https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/1h5wwax/whats_up_with_all_these_videos_about_women_crying/

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    1. Anything that disagrees with our worldview is fake, and those who espouse such views are deluded enemies or paid shills. It is known.

      Joking aside, even if theoretically there were paid shills among them, certainly not all of them are. There are far too many of them for this to be a manosphere psyop.

    2. The big problem with this claim is that it does not make any economic sense. Who is supposed to be paying for this and why? Is the claim that Elon Musk wants to own leftist women, so he runs a psyop with a bunch of actresses? Of course, some YouTube creators exploit such content for economic gain but I have a hard time believing that the economics work out, considering how little YouTube pays for ads.

    3. A mathematically challenged slut wants to have sex with 1,000 guys in 24 hours:
      https://archive.ph/J84HG
      A day has 24 hours. How is she going to service 41 2/3 guys in one hour or one guy in 1.44 minutes (~1m27s). Even if she gets hung from a ceiling so that three men can use her three holes simultaneously, I do not see how this is supposed to work. Perhaps it works if every guy gets to dip his dick in for a few seconds.

    4. Aaron:

      Yeah, it says further down in that article:
      “Ideally, we’ll do it in a big warehouse with two doors. I’m hoping a couple of seconds each at most – and on their way!”

      Problem is, if she expects men to cum that quickly, it’s just not gonna happen. If she wants that to be part of the terms, then I doubt many men will sign up.

      Of course, she could just not tell them in advance, and then tell them to get out as soon as they’ve entered her. But then they’ll tell that to the guys in line as they leave, and the line will quickly evaporate.

      I can’t say that I’m surprised that a woman like this hasn’t spent time thinking through her decision, though!

      —

      Regarding paid shills, I’m assuming the feminist conspiracy theorists believe men are paying women to say that it makes them unhappy to be old and lonely sluts, so they’ll realize that they’ll be happier if they become normal and settle down and have families instead.

      Meanwhile, some feminists are working hard to prevent women from coming to that realization, only to end up getting themselves publicly owned instead:
      https://x.com/JonahDispatch/status/1862634254284259577

    1. Yeah, I saw it back in the 90s. I remember the main thrust of the story (incredibly wealthy man pays one million dollars to use another guy’s wife for a night, relationship troubles ensue), but not many more details than that.

    2. I have a very vague recollection of this movie. Watching this trailer, I am wondering how Demi Moore could have such a strong career in Hollywood. I do not think that she is particularly attractive. Obviously, she is no unattractive, but she is nowhere near the level of facial and physical attractiveness as Sharon Stone, Talia Shire, or Denise Richards in their prime.

    4. Now that you mention it, Aaron, it came to my mind that Demi Moore’s first famous film role (Blame it on Rio) was with a girl who was hotter and whose career went nowhere in comparison to hers: Michelle Johnson. I mean, if we go by Lucretius Carus’ line of argument, this woman kind of paid her pound of flesh to be successful in Hollywood by going nude underage in a sexploitation movie (despite the “prestige” of being the remake of a mainstream French movie and having Michael Caine), which Demi also did but she was a little older at least. I try not to go too much outside the box with this stuff, but this is a noteworthy parallel: what did Demi do to be so successful that Michelle did not? Talent alone doesn’t cover it.

    5. Talia Shire

      Talia Shire is not “hot” or “attractive” in my view. But the scene where she pleads Micheal Corleone to spare the life of Fredo Corleone shows her talent for acting. Her tonality shows that.

  10. C’mon cowards! Say if you would agree to the proposal or not 😜

    I have to add that they were losing their house, but they definitely loved each other. So, choose………

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    1. It is hard to answer this question because nobody knows what they would do in a genuine life-or-death situation. For instance, would you kill, cook, and eat another human? Probably you would deny this outright, but even in not-so-recent history we have seen instances of cannibalism.

    2. “nobody knows what they would do in a genuine life-or-death situation. ”

      I think the last fight that I ever got into (for years I had refused to admit it, even to myself, but I was scared like I never had been before or ever since then. It was the most powerful adrenaline dump I had ever experienced in my life) gave me the peek that I seem to teeter towards “fight” over “flight” when put under imminent extreme stress.

      http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/adrenal.htm

      https://imgur.com/a/medical-breakdown-of-fight-5Hgz32n

      From my perception of time going in slow motion, to not hearing my teachers screaming for me to stop (Auditory Exclusion) while I was cranking my bully’s neck with his uniform as my schoolmates were trying to pull me off of him, to having flashbacks/intrusive thoughts while the “fight” was going on, etc.

      Yet I also fought the most effective I have ever fought in my life, by far. (I was not a skilled/trained fighter at the time. I suppose that’s a good thing though because I never hospitalized anyone. This fight was admittedly the closest I came to that.) Marc Macyoung talks about how the pinnacle of physical effectiveness in an altercation is being able to end a threat in 3 moves or less. I believe him…because that’s exactly what I did in this fight.

      http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/enditNOW.htm

      I believe I mentioned the word “Mushin” before on this blog. I believe it because I experienced it. Two times. This here, and my fight before this, which was the only time I had ever “lost” a fight. I’ll link to it in my next comment.

      All this being said, I think this is all just a “peek”. If I’m cornered and I had a gun pointed at me by an experienced and intimidating criminal, would I be able to pull something unexpected like this again and win unscathed? As much as I would love to think of myself as a billy-badass, I honestly do not know as that is a completely different situation than anything I’ve experienced thus far, and I do not wish to ever find out.

      My immediate response to physical pain in general is to get angry. The last time I hurt myself is when I twisted my foot and fell down the stairs. I was screaming and swearing while punching the floor and nearby wall. Anger and striking back hard were also my immediate response against unruly sparring partners who were hitting me too hard.

      I won’t say its a dignified response, and I don’t know if I should be particularly glad about it (it can definitely get me in trouble if I find myself in the wrong situation one day), but I think this is a better instinctive response than crying and cowering in fear. I imagine it would be easier to remedy than the latter.

    3. https://www.reddit.com/r/martialarts/comments/8kwqln/martial_lessons_extracted_from_a_fight_i_had_in/ (Apparently, some people got offended by how “edgy” my writing/description of this fight was. whatever. I’m not rewriting it. ;P)

      So here is my 2nd to the last fight. The only fight I ever “lost”, but I have to admit, it was perhaps one of the most…erm, “educational” moments of my life. And definitely started the road to me heavily researching and gaining a long-term interest in the study of violence and the martial arts.

      While I was majorly embarrassed at the time, I have to admit this is a “blessing in disguise” in hindsight. I got into a period of obsessive research and soul-searching. Rather than choosing to surrender and cower against the bullies as a result of this fight, I found the strength in finding a way to continue rebelling and fighting for my rights, which paid off handsomely in the fight that came after this which ended all my problems.

      I would say when I clinched the bully who was pounding my face while I was rocked, was a show of how I respond to damage. Other people start cowering and “turtling” when put in the same situation. I just knew that if I did that, I would open myself up to being literally stomped on the ground (this is a common way people get crippled or even killed in street fights), and so I acted to prevent that from happening which was grabbing unto and “hugging” (this is called “clinching” in fighting terminology) him, and I got lucky that I managed to do so in a way that trapped both of his arms and stopped him completely from continuing to punch me till our fight got broken up.

      I think calling this a “Mushin” moment for me would be accurate. I have never done a lick of research or reading on the martial arts and violence at the time. What I did here was just something my unconscious just improvised on the spot in an attempt to protect myself.

      So yeah. This, my final fight that came after, and the general way of how I instinctively respond to being hurt (anger), I think gives me enough data to conclude I generally lean on the side of “fight” over “flight”. While I’m not going to say this isn’t without flaws, I’m honestly glad I have this tendency over certain other people who default to cowering when hurt/put into danger.

    4. What, $1M for a night with my wife (if I were married) ? Heck no. Just let the darn house go if you have to.

    1. You reckon the lies of feminism is part of the reason she ended up in those life circumstances? It was a real eye opener to me when Alek pointed out that modern feminism might just be a mating strategy secretly designed to sabotage other women.

      https://blog.aaronsleazy.com/index.php/2023/10/08/from-fulfilling-community-life-to-social-isolation-and-dying-alone-the-old-vs-new-life-trajectory-of-women/

      I think Alek even pointed out a former feminist blogger, who got married before closing her blog down, despite for years discouraging other women from doing the same thing. (This would mean she was actively sabotaging women who were not even in her area to compete with her! what the hell…)

      Sometimes it feels like women are more to cruel to each other than men are to each other as enemies. At least in adulthood.

    2. Maou:

      Yeah, I think modern feminism is absolutely part of the reason. Probably the major reason, to be honest.

      200 years ago you didn’t have 53 year old women thinking like this. Heck, even 100 years ago or less, it didn’t happen. Women who were unmarried in their late 30s were called “spinsters,” and expected to remain single for life, as they had missed the boat.

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