One of the obsessions of the former pickup community was to develop a “game plan” that would work for any woman, regardless of age, personality, social class, or personal circumstances. Partly, this was motivated due to marketing as it is a lot simpler to attempt to sell yet another DVD course that promises to hold the secret to getting any woman you want, but partly this was also due to people genuinely being pretty clueless about women. The latter is not a surprise. In fact, if a guy, self-proclaimed PUA or otherwise, gets nowhere with women, it is understandable why he would think that women are all quite similar. After all, they all reject him, no matter what.
In the real world, however, there are quite significant differences between women. Naturally, you therefore need to be able to alter your approach if you want to get anywhere with them. Note that this step comes after you have figured out which kind of woman you would like to target. Basically, figure out if the woman you are talking to is pursuing a fast or a slow life-history strategy. Women in the former camp are impulsive and thus do not always make the best decisions. On the plus side, there is a chance that she happily takes your dick despite knowing virtually nothing about you. Conversely, women pursuing a slow life-history strategy take their time before making key decisions. For such women, with whom to sleep with is a key decision whereas women pursuing a fast life-history strategy may be somewhat indifferent to this question and sometimes fuck a guy based on convenience. As long as she thinks you are good enough for one night she happily follows you home.
The practical implication is that you should not stall when a woman is pursuing a fast life-history. She will simply lose interest in you if you do. Besides, she is probably talking to three other guys anyway. With these women you need to move fast. If you do not, you will be “boring”, and the moment she has some other guy’s dick in her, she will have forgotten about you already. If you wonder why some women who seem to be really into you suddenly ghost you, this is a very likely reason. She was really into you when you were hanging out with her but you, wanting to be a “gentleman”, did not push towards sex. For such women, this feels like a bitter rejection.
Women pursuing a slow life-history strategy require a much different approach. They want to first get to know the guy, but sexual attraction is nonetheless a prerequisite. They do not string you along, at least not in this scenario, but instead need to feel assured that you are trustworthy and not just some random guy who only wants to pump-and-dump one chick after the other. Thus, she is taking her time also in order to weed out guys who are too impatient. In such situations, escalating too fast will make her feel uncomfortable and if you are too persistent, she will find a face-saving excuse to leave, and you will not see her again.
There is the claim that if the guy is attractive enough, even a woman who otherwise would need to get to know a suitor over the course of a few weeks or perhaps even months before having sex with him would readily spread her legs. I do not think that this is necessarily true. Sure, you may think that a guy like Leonardo DiCaprio could walk into the VIP lounge of any club and get whoever woman he wants, but instead only a particular kind of woman would go for him, as he has quite a reputation. Thus, a woman who has her head screwed on firmly would ask herself what reason this guy would have to go for her, regardless of whether we are talking about a young actress or model, or a regular woman. Here, the assumption is that not all women are completely deluded and think that they are a 10 or that regardless of how low her socioeconomic status is, no guy, no matter how rich and famous, is above her.
Obviously, there are women out there who want to bang famous men so that they can brag about it, but not everybody cares about this. To use a different example: you are probably all familiar with the groupie phenomenon. Even bands who are only moderately successful will have a whole string of women line up. Then, the guys in the band only have to pick a few and gesture them to join them backstage or in the bus. However, it is not the case that every hot woman, let alone every woman in the audience lines up for a quick bang. Only a very small minority does that. When I was more interested in hipster music, and even went to a few concerts, I got some pretty good anecdotes about that. In one case, the band had the tour bus parked outside the venue, which held perhaps 800 people. In front of the tour bus perhaps 25 women were lining up. Admittedly, a few of them were very good-looking but most were just tarted up relatively average-looking women. There were many more attractive or very attractive women who did not care about getting railed by some dudes in a band.