According to the mainstream, and to women who do not want to offend anyone, penis size does not matter. Supposedly it matters a lot more what you do with it. Of course, technique is not unimportant. If you don’t dare to ram your monster cock deep into the dripping pussy in front of you because you are afraid that she may feel uncomfortable, you probably won’t be a memorable lover (at least not for the right reasons). Of course women love big cocks. Your cock basically can’t be too big, albeit you may encounter some problems with petite Asian women. Also, as the proud owner of a big cock, your women may ask you to take it easy in the beginning of a fuck session as she may need to get used to having such a premium-caliber schlong in her. Yet, while a big dick is a big benefit, I find the sense of inferiority many men have about their pecker a bit off-putting. It is downright non-masculine. Yet, this kind of thinking is an adaptation to a rapidly feminizing society.
Dating in the human realm used to be organized in a rather simple manner: women tried to be as sexually appealing as possible. They grew their hair long, stayed in shape, stuffed their bras, and practiced smiling. Of course, with the advances of cosmetic procedures, today’s women turbocharge their appearance with a pair of fake tits, botox shots, and a nose job. All of this is done in order to attract male attention. In contrast, men did not conform to any kind of pretty-boy image. In fact, not too long ago, people would have questioned your sexually and believed that you were gay if you took pictures of your naked upper body with the aim of showing off your abs.
If you ever created a fake female account for a dating app and browsed male profiles in order to see what you are up against, you would be forgiven to think that you ended up on a gay dating platform as a lot of men nowadays show excessive skin online. Similarly, there is an obsession with their penises. Strangely enough, dick pics are seen as some kind of “secret technique” in some circles. You will even find “gurus” online who recommend sending pictures of some well-hung dudes wiener if you are not well-endowed. It is a complete clown show. A decade ago or so, women would send you nudes online, often unsolicited. Today, guys send dick pics to chicks. You can’t make this up. (Article continues below.)
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In general, we witness a confusion of dating strategies. Men more and more act like women. They spend a lot of time preening in their full-length mirrors as they worry about fine-tuning their appearance. I can’t really blame the men here either because other men are doing it, too. I nonetheless think that it is not masculine that today’s men are following beauty routines.
I bet that if you had asked a random dude in a regular bar ten years ago if he has pictures of his naked torso on his phone, you could very well have gotten punched in the mouth as a response. Today, though, you have guys enthusiastically comparing effeminate pictures of themselves with their competition. Thus, they obsess about whether their hair looks right or their clothes fit them well. Likewise, they worry about their dick size because they (rightly so) believe to be primarily judged by women on their looks.
Today, looks are so paramount in dating that you really have to ask yourself what the endgame is. Women nowadays assess men more or less the same way men used to assess women. It is probably all a consequence of women no longer needing men because they get money regardless. Women can make money very easily nowadays. There are countless bullshit jobs that seemingly only exist to hand women a paycheck, like large parts of government or your typical HR job. Then there are avenues like cam-whoring which can be quite lucrative. Lastly, women can resort to government handouts. Thus, by removing a man’s earning potential as a serious factor for dating, at least among women in their 20s, men only have looks left and thus they turn themselves into a bunch of pretty boys, not necessarily because they want to but because they need to if they want to get laid.
We are headed for dark times. A rise of the number of incels is a symptom of it. Give it a few more years, and society will be completely dysfunctional, with genetically gifted men spending their resources on maximizing their looks and the rest dropping out. That kind of clown show can work for a decade or two but at one point we will get the receipts. On the plus side, if society indeed collapses, rugged men will be in demand again. It has been observed that in times of economic crisis, women fall back into traditional roles. The same will be true for men who need to focus again on what is really important.
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