In the current Open Thread, Old Anon made a good observation about the nature of sex:
The more I think about the role of sex, the more I am convinced that there is little wrong with us as men. Sex is not meant to be a marathon pleasure experience like in porn. It’s meant for procreation — meaning efficient insemination. It’s why I no longer feel bad about premature ejaculation or losing an erection during prolonged foreplay or sex. Our ancestors needed to use energy efficiently to survive. If anything, the man who can keep an erection without ejaculating for marathon sex is the abnormal one.
Besides, my experience has been that, despite what normies tell you, the more you care about her sexual experience, the less she respects you.
I see nothing to disagree here. In fact, women desire to be ravaged. If you fuck a woman really hard and fast doggy-style, then you ejaculate and throw her aside so that you can collapse on the bed, you won’t get any complaints. Quite the contrary. In fact, I would argue that you that your women will walk away highly pleased after you have just taken her.
The issue of premature ejaculation is a bit more complex. Yet, you have to take into account that your women want to have sex with you. In turn, they also want to be sexually desired by you. Thus, they view it as validation if they can make you cum. If you cum quickly, it means that she turned you on so much that you couldn’t control yourself. Women tend to be flattered by it, in fact. The worst that will likely happen is that you cum quickly so you take some time to recover and for round two, she’ll hold back on the teasing. (Article continues below.)
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There is an opposite of premature ejaculation: delayed or missing ejaculation. I hope that you guys use condoms when fucking random women. During those encounters, most if not all women will ask you, after you’ve pulled out, “Did you cum?” Very often, they are not satisfied with just your answer. They want to see your cum in the condom and may even squeeze it. Some women even dump your cum on their tummy and rub it all over them. Also, if you don’t use condoms with your random hook-ups — this is easy to do because for Chads like us women don’t insist on using condoms — she’ll eagerly watch you ejaculate, or happily take it in her mouth.
But, but, what about her orgasm, some of you may now think. For some reason, that does not seem to be much of an issue. You can of course spend some time making her cum, but you can bet that a lot of women you’ve fucked hard and didn’t bother getting off will be happy to meet up with you again. There is also an aspect of sex that is only known to Chads, i.e. psychological orgasms. Sometimes women get off watching you blow a load, or pulling our your dick and feeling your cum dripping down their thighs.
As Old Anon writes, there is good reason to believe that our ancestors didn’t bother with hour-long love-making sessions. It was probably an evolutionary disadvantage to spend a lot of time on sex, and not just because of the energy is costs but also because it makes you vulnerable. Certainly some saber-tooth tiger couldn’t care less about you needing another fifteen minutes. It would just have killed you.
Further evidence that sex was a quick affair evolutionarily is that a horny woman does not need any foreplay at all. Again, this is only known to Chads. You do not need to warm up a chick for half an hour. Instead, if she sees you and you make her juices flow, you can pull her panties down and put your dick in, minutes after meeting her. I would argue that the only reason you can have fast hook-ups is that there is an evolutionary program on the mind of women (and men) for it. Young, horny women seem to have a particular difficulty suppressing it.
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