Most of you probably know of Dan Bilzerian, the real-world billionaire roider playboy who is infamous for his excessive lifestyle. On his Instagram page you’ll find countless pictures of himself in a sea of women. Here’s a good example (Fair Use assumed):
The average Joe now sees this and might be envious of this guy and his lifestyle. Just imagine having so many women around! Wouldn’t it be awesome? If you think that then you can’t have been with many women. Dan Bilzerian is merely showing off in order to impress the easily impressionable. If you’re envious of him then you probably lack experience with women, sexual or otherwise.
With the possible exception of menopausal women, you’ll not have female friends at any point in your adult life. You hang out with women because you want to get laid. More importantly, the reverse is true as well: if you’re poor but hot, then women hang around you only because they want your dick. She may be dating some other guy, but you’re some side-dick she’s happy to jump on every now and again. If you’re not hot, then you better have resources. If you lack both resources and looks, you won’t have female friends.
If you’re perfectly honest, you are not hanging out with women because you enjoy talking to them so much. The average woman is not likely to have any intellectual interests at all. Thus, going on dates can be a real chore. The first time you met up with some chick who seemed a bit thick you may have thought that she was maybe an exception. Then this happens again and again and you realize that women aren’t a lot of fun to talk to. This is reflected everywhere in life. Men and women hang out separately because they are interested in different things.
Having to endure the inane conversation of one chick is bad enough, but imagine having five or six chicks around with shit for brains! With one chick, you tolerate her low-IQ opinions, bang her, and kick her out. You’ll probably feel disgusted with yourself afterwards, but that’s the life of men. You meet a chick, she’s horny, you’re horny, you fuck, and then you realize that you have absolutely no interest in her. Post-coital clarity can be a curse as it makes you realize that you’re a much less rational person than you may have thought.
Normally, guys grow out of chasing after chicks for quick hookups, no matter how successful they are. I’ve seen guys switching to prostitutes for the convenience. Some even avoid women altogether. Thus, I have a hard time believing that Dan Bilzerian has much use for all the women in his pictures. He probably bangs a few of them but most are likely just extras. It could well be that he gets a bunch of chicks together, possibly a few pros too. He then has them pose for pictures in order to maximize Instagram ad revenue. After the photoshoot, he probably sends them home, minus one or two if he feels like smashing. Meanwhile, Joe Average is fantasizing about all the fun Dan Bilzerian has, hanging out with all those women, whereas the Instagram fantasies Dan Bilzerian creates, which I don’t think correspond much to reality, are closer to a vision of hell.
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