I recall that we once joked about, on my old blog, that the difference between sexual harassment and flirting is simply due to how attractive you are. If you’re good looking, you’re flirting with her, but if you’re not, you’re sexually harassing her. The sad thing is that this isn’t a joke. When feminists campaign against sexual harassment, they only want ugly men to talk to them. That men in general consequently avoid them is an unintended consequence. Of course, what those stunning and brave and bright feminists don’t get is that if you, as a guy, approach a woman in such an environment, you hand her a loaded gun and hope that she doesn’t pull the trigger. This is why men nowadays keep their guard up in professional environments and avoid women whenever they can, even if we’re talking about once innocuous occurrences like a brief chat at the water cooler.
How bad things have gone is perfectly illustrated by the case of an awkward 19-year-old male teenager from the United Kingdom who wanted to “make a friend”. He then approached a 17-year-old girl who attended the same school as him. Unfortunately, she did not find him attractive at all.
This is what he did:
She was walking towards me and I recognised her and I knew that she was a student at the school, I didn’t say anything but I really wanted to – the words just didn’t come out. I touched her but I believed that it was the arm I was touching.
This is how the girl reported it:
It was quite a while – three to five seconds. He smirked at me, he didn’t stop he just touched me and walked off and I broke down crying – it was quite traumatic. I struggled for a couple of months afterwards, I was applying for Oxford at the time and I found going to Oxford a stressful thing.
Yup, there you have it! Incels are so powerful that they can wreck the chances of an undoubtedly highly intelligent girl to go to Oxford. I have absolutely no reason that this girl would have gotten in without any problem had she not been assaulted by this brute of a man.
You may think that touching a random girls arm in a non-sexual way is no big deal. Yet, you’d be wrong:
[He] was convicted at Manchester Magistrates’ Court and will be sentenced later this month. The offence carries a maximum sentence of ten years jail if dealt with at a crown court and he faces being ordered to sign the Sex Offender Register.
Imagine that! He is at risk of getting sent to jail for ten years and having to register as a sex offender because some girl thought that he’s ugly. As a reminder, police and law enforcement chose to collectively twiddle their thumbs for more than a fucking quarter of a century in the Rotherham Muslim “Asian” rape scandal and only a small number of the perpetrators got convicted, often on very lenient terms. Is it just me or is something seriously wrong with the Western world if something like this can happen?
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Crazy times. Maybe muslimization of Europe is the better alternative?
Islamization will happen anyways. Soon the birthrate is going to drop to zero, because no sane man will interact with females anymore. You literally risk your life today by interacting with women.
Feminism will destroy itself in less then 100 years.
You can see it already happening in Sweden. In the next 40 years it will become an islamic country. Problem for the Swedish cucks & women, those imported engineers and doctors won’t give a shit about womens rights.
Islamisation is not some act of nature. Instead, the West has oscillated between tolerating and accelerating it. Sure, looking at our political elite nowadays, you could come to the conclusion that they are some poorly casted bit actors that just administer our countries until their inevitable decline. Yet, politicians can and do actively shape society. It’s just that in our case, they chose goals that actively harm their populations and countries. Whether it’s malice or stupidity is a different issue. I think some politicians could well have been blackmailed. In particular, Merkel throwing the doors open and letting over 1.5 million “doctors and engineers” in, breaking existing laws, is highly suspicious.
I used to believe that Weimar Germany was worse off, but I no longer believe this because back then Germany was still almost completely populated by Germans. You had two warring factions: communists and Nazis. Today, there are so many groups with opposing views that it seems unlikely that any will gain the upper hand anytime soon. Just think about it: we have the native population that largely consists of people either on the Left or on the Right (the Centrist position has been declining precipitously), then there are Turks, Kurds, Lebanese, Syrians, Africans, Afghans, which are all quite large minorities with their own goals. The future will be a rather chaotic one. What could happen is that a strong leader would rise up in Bavaria (this is the most well-run state in Germany), secede from the Federal Republic of Germany, reunite with Austria, clean up the mess, form an alliance with Russia and/or China, and take it from there.
@Martin
>>>Islamization will happen anyways.<<>>Soon the birthrate is going to drop to zero, because no sane man will interact with females anymore.<<>Problem for the Swedish cucks & women, those imported engineers and doctors won’t give a shit about womens rights.<<
Whaaaat? You racist, you! They will of course assimilate :=D
@Martin
You are from Germany? Where in Germany do you live?
@Sleazy
>>I think some politicians could well have been blackmailed. In particular, Merkel throwing the doors open and letting over 1.5 million “doctors and engineers” in, breaking existing laws, is highly suspicious.<<
"Rosenholz" comes to mind: https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rosenholz-Dateien
That’s very interesting. I dimly recall having heard that term before, but that was years ago. Well, from the looks of it, Merkel has been actively working towards turning the Federal Republic of Germany into the German Democratic Republic, so much so that it not all that controversial to make the claim that the GDR annexed West Germany as opposed to the opposite.
@Sleazy
>>What could happen is that a strong leader would rise up in Bavaria (this is the most well-run state in Germany), secede from the Federal Republic of Germany, reunite with Austria, clean up the mess, form an alliance with Russia and/or China, and take it from there.<<
How about Eastern Germany seceding from FRG and joining Poland, creating new Great Prussia :=)) You would or course need to clean up Berlin.
This wouldn’t work because there is no common linguistic bond. I focused on Austria and Bavaria as the native population is quite similar in culture, on top of speaking the same language. The gap between Bavaria and Berlin, in contrast, in infinitely larger.
An issue with Poland — no offense to Poles — is that its people, as far as I am aware of, have never figured out how to govern themselves. For centuries they were ruled over by others. Various superpowers slices and diced up their country, and today they depend on subsidies by the European Union to the tune of billions of euros per year. I think they have received many dozens of billions so far. Don’t get me wrong, I think that Poland is a great country to visit, but I don’t think they could fend for themselves, economically or otherwise.
@Sleazy
>>An issue with Poland — no offense to Poles — is that its people, as far as I am aware of, have never figured out how to govern themselves. Don’t get me wrong, I think that Poland is a great country to visit, but I don’t think they could fend for themselves, economically or otherwise.<<
That is indeed a problem, but the Poles are diligent & intelligent people. They didn't catch up yet with Western Europe, but they are on a good way. Their finance and economic policies are robust, their education policies made huge progress in the last few years and the biggest advantage: They don't have any Muslims to feed. It will take probably + 30 years for the Poles to stabilize, but as long as they don't take Muslim refugees in… I don't see a problem ^^
This kind of undeserved punishment is only going to create either more avoidant MGTOW types of men at best or more deranged incel violence. The former might dabble in hookers or go monk while investing in some hobby or their career, the latter will fall into a loop of insanity and be unable to cope with the harsh realities laid before them, effectively manufacturing violence artificially by essenially outcasting large proportions of men.
The news outlets and media will report on such occurences, informing other such men who might fall into this population of disgruntled and misplaced souls to ‘not be so creepy, bro.’ Meanwhile, Chad Pitt will walk straight up to some little thing, looming over her with his massive height and chiseled jawline, and without so much as an introduction, he shall very non-creepily reach his hand down the back of her tight yoga pantaloons, and with the middle finger of his dominant hand he shall very sensually begin fondling her anus while she smiles and nods with encouragement.
pickernanny you are on a roll lately.
even ugly thots give me a hard time ,dont want to come to my city ,you have some advice?
have this thot saying she feels like a slut if she comes over to my town and then i needs to come to her.
“everytime i came to the guy it ended in sex i feel such a whore i wont come to you”, i guess i am not chad enough.
Yea lol. Idk, man. At least she was honest about it. You didn’t mention how far away her town is either. If she is an ugly thot then she isn’t worth much effort (if any). At the most, I’d just try to convince her to come to your town again periodically. If she is willing to actually invest that amount of effort for you, then she might think that she may as well go ahead a put out once she meets you there.
i was thinking the same thing it seems she needs to rationalize some excuse why she isnt a whore.
once she passes that point she might actually come,
also she seems to have some sort of a timer “how much she knows the dude” if it is less then a 1-2 days she is full of shit now she suddenly open to come but still needs convincing.
i am sort of a mind blown how much shit girls run around in their head it is ridiculous also it is a lot of time investment jesus christ.
Yes, female rationalization attempts can indeed be quite ridiculous. There is a reason it is referred to as the “female rationalization hamster”, spinning in his wheel, in some corners of the Internet.
Great comment! I think I’ll use it for a future blog post. Recall how the media tried to roast Trump for this “just grab them by the pussy” comment? This may sound like empty bragging or misogyny to some, but it is the reality. If you’re a high-status male you can just grab chicks by the pussy. Heck, you can finger them out in the open before saying hi. Courtesy and waiting six months to get a peck on the lips are measured that are reserved for providers, not for guys they really want to fuck.
I think that’s the actual motivation behind their upset with the Donald’s comment.
The real reason they were so angry, is because a big part of the pussy-cartel is keeping this knowledge away from betas. If the betas knew how easy women are with rich/famous guys and chads… betas would never provision and provide as much as they do.
There would be e beta revolution if average guys learned this… wait, she made me wait 6 months for a peck on the cheek, but for this other guy she was giving him a handjob 2 minutes after introduction?
So the reason all these women were upset is because this is supposed to be hidden. Betas must not know the truth. If you’re rich/famous enough, women are happy that you escalate at 10,000 times the speed of a beta.
ROFL at that rationalization hamster. I’ve had a good laugh :=D
Muslims are alpha, I suppose (joking)
At least more alpha than german cucks.
They jailed ‘Pick-up artist’ Adnan Ahmed like two weeks or so ago, 2 years hahaha
Thanks for this comment. I just looked it up. It’s pretty crazy that you can get jailed for being a weirdo.
Is this the crime?
I tried to find out, but I can’t find out what he was sentenced for. What specific acts/actions?
According to an article by the BBC, his crime was exhibiting “threatening and abusive behaviour towards five women.” What may that kind of behavior, which got him locked up for two years, have consisted of? Being unattractive and hitting on women. From what I’ve read, it’s really as simple as that.
The official “offense” might be “breach of peace”, if the Roosh forum guys are right. I’m just googling it now and reading through threads about it
From roosh forum:
The guy himself apparently put up a really long page explaining the whole situation, and defending himself. Apparently Police saw nothing in the case until women’s groups got involved (if his side is true).
http://addyagame.com/
I read one of the reasons was for filming it and putting it up on youtube