I listened to Turd Flinging Monkey’s latest video earlier today. In it, he jokes that a model who is used to getting clothes, flights, and meals paid for might think that this is how people treat each other. He is certainly right that a young, attractive woman may easily form a warped view of the world, which will make the wall hit with enormous force, compared to a regular woman.
While most of the women you hook up with will probably not be models, you can nonetheless encounter many who have a completely twisted view on reality. For instance, old school gurus recommended to never pay for anything. “Make her pay for her own coffee, brah!”, they shouted. I think this is a bit silly.
What you will encounter when you turn down a woman’s request to pay for her meal can range from quiet acceptance to disbelief. Some even lose their shit and throw expletives at you. Note that this does not mean that those women would not have wanted to fuck you anyway. There are women out there who are very entitled but who are happy to put out as long as you keep your wallet open.
The number of women who have no concept of money is staggering. College-aged women who live off their daddy’s money may be so pampered that they think that paying for a lavish meal at a quality restaurant is easily affordable to you. In fact, only rarely have I met (Western) women who showed any consideration for the cost of their grand plans. I have heard the most ludicrous suggestions, such as fine dining, weekend trips, or even shopping sprees on my dime (lol). Those women never had to work for money and somehow assumed everybody has plenty of it; she only has to ask for it. Furthermore, those were not some spoiled one-percenters but simply middle-class women with parents who lacked good judgment. A woman who is used to spending well above her means, without realizing that she is spending above her means, would, of course, make for a rather poor girlfriend or wife. If you’re not willing to open your wallet for her, she’ll not want to be your girlfriend, but she’ll probably hop on your dick anyway. Either way, sooner or later her gravy train will end, so teaching her the lesson that not all men are walking wallets will only lead to good results. If she’s a gold digger, she’ll move on (good riddance!) and if she is fine with you not showering her with money, then you’ll end up not wasting any on her.
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