I used to not pursue women until I was in my late 20s, which was by choice. I simply viewed them as an unpleasant distraction as well as a time and money sink. Instead, I was much happier going my own way and pursuing other interests. In the long run, this all worked out splendidly for me. When I finally decided to go after women, I did not have the impression that I had been missing out on much. Besides, had I pursued women in my late teens or early 20s, I would most likely not have done nearly as well with them, the main reason being that I didn’t have my own place. Also, I grew up in an exceedingly conservative area, so in the worst case, I would have gotten tied down to some average woman early in life. Thankfully, I did not step through those gates of hell.
Living in London and Berlin later, I suddenly had access to an enormous pool of women, and one that was far superior to any I had seen before, not just quantitatively. That I was a few years older did not seem to matter to the many women in their teens and early 20s I hooked up with. My experience is in no way unique. It boils down to there always being a new batch of 18-year-olds. Thus, you get older, but your attractiveness to the opposite sex does not dwindle all that quickly, meaning that you will have a fairly long time window to pursue them.
This reality hit me again when I went to an open-air music event with a friend of mine in Berlin last week. There were a few women there who reminded me a lot of women I’ve been with, due to physical features, mannerisms, or sense of fashion. I got older, yet there were younger version of women I knew all around me. Two had an almost uncanny resemblance. Funnily enough, I also bumped into a woman I knew back in the days. Now she’s in her mid-30s and a mere shadow of her former self. I could not even bring myself to say hi to her.
If you are fretting about all the women you missed out hooking up with, don’t despair! There are still out there. You’ll just get the latest version, then. You’ll get women of a similar caliber, i.e. your ‘league’, for a very long time. That is beautifully illustrated by a friend of mine who is nearing 40, but in very good shape, physically and professionally. He does not want to settle down yet, and he has high standards. Without any
All of this may sound a bit abstract to you, so let me conclude with a comparison. Let’s say you like mainstream video games, i.e. sports games, first-person shooters, and open-world
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