I recently overheard a blue-pilled cuck say that a chick he is pining for is in a relationship with a guy who treats her rather poorly because she has “low self-esteem”. That is complete bullshit. Of course, your garden-variety simp is quick to make excuses for the questionable behavior of a woman, even more so when he believes that the “poor girl” in question will eventually pick him if he’s as nice as possible to her. There is one big problem with that kind of reasoning: Women choose their partners. It is not the case that suddenly some harmless schmuck turns into a wifebeater. No, instead women who end up in a relationship with an abusive partner deliberately chose them. Clearly, women can just walk away. They can also say no to all the schmucks that approach them. Yet, once some thug shows up who makes their gina tingle, they jump on that opportunity, quite literally, as soon as they can.
On that note, I remember a piece of David DeAngelo’s bullshit from years ago. I recall him saying that women don’t like “nice guys” because they can’t trust them. According to his reasoning, a nice guy is only nice until he blows a gasket. Consequently, every nice guy is a shithead in disguise. Man, that kind of psychology is dumb beyond belief. Instead, (some) women don’t like nice guys because they don’t make their ginas tingle. Yet, once those women hit the wall, they will want a safe choice they feel they can control. At that point a nice guy is a prime choice. It seems that David DeAngelo, in his endless cluelessness, was not aware of this, just like he was not aware of a whole lot when it comes to real-life dating and mating.
Do “good girls” end up with assholes, or is it instead the case that those women are only interested in assholes? It’s the latter. Consequently, you should never ever interfere if you see a woman getting berated by her abusive boyfriend in public. She picked that guy, and she likes being treated like shit. View it this way: Let’s say your boss is a complete dick. He pays below market rate. The work isn’t interesting, and you don’t get to knock off before 8 p.m. Furthermore, you have job offers from at least five other companies who you know would treat you better on all fronts. You can start right now. There’s even a fat signing bonus you can claim. Yet, you don’t take any of the offers. Why don’t you? Well, clearly it’s because you like being abused. Otherwise, you’d have left long ago. With women who don’t leave their abusive partners, it’s the same. They could easily leave. There is an army of simps willing to take them, and if that’s not an option, for whatever reason, there is a whole support industry with women’s shelters. Heck, she could even murder her abuser and only get a slap on the wrist for it. The options are there. However, because she does not take any of them, she must enjoy her misery deep down.
On a somewhat more light-hearted note, at least in comparison, think of women who complain about only getting pumped and dumped. Again, the issue is that those women pick such guys willingly. Don’t tell me that Stacy wasn’t aware that Chad, who fucked her in the bathroom stall two minutes after saying “hi” to her, may not make for a stable boyfriend. Such women are aware of what they are getting into. However, they choose to ignore future consequences of their actions in the present, which is largely due to almost non-existent impulse control. Some women are more than willing to engage in risky sexual behavior, and they do it because that is what they want to do. Don’t pity them. If you are pining for a woman who tells you about all the “assholes” who are gone the next day, she is only using you for the attention you provide.
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