In a comment to my recent post in which I covered thug game, I joked that if you look like a thug, you may very well go hardcore and pull out a loaded gun during sex. I wrote:
Dude, you don’t even know what kind of game you could run. You could do hardcore thug game, like pulling out a loaded gun and putting it on her head as you’re banging her — and she’ll get so wet that you need to throw out the mattress afterwards. Just make sure you don’t accidentally pull the trigger. I’m only half-joking (not about the gun, but about thug game in general).
The fact that some women get incredibly turned on by dominant behavior is arguably one of the darkest aspects of female psychology. It is also one of the least politically correct topics you could bring up. Indeed, society is quick to judge men for violent behavior while women who engage in domestic violence have an army of supporters materialize out of thin air, including legal support.
What we should not ignore, however, is that women choose their partners. We do not live in a society in which men just hit women on the head, drag them into the nearest forest, and rape them — except if you live in fucking Sweden, a country that is so progressive that academics now write papers on which places in Stockholm rapists prefer (mirror). Normally, women willingly spread their legs for the man they have chosen. Thus, considering that violent male behavior is relatively uncommon in modern society, a woman needs to reject a lot of soyboys to find a thug who really gets her juices flowing.
Some women respond incredibly well to getting dominated. She may get so wet that your enjoyment of sex with her gets negatively affected. Domination can play out in many ways and it can be as blunt or as subtle as you’d like. If you have never encountered a woman who wanted to be dominated hard, I’d say you are missing out on a crucial part of your education as a seducer.
Pickernanny tried his hand at thug game and reported back:
I don’t own a firearm, but I did try flicking a switchblade out and putting it to her throat tonight. She acted like it was too much for her at first but I just told her she had better shut and please my cock with her mouth if she knew what was best for her. When I fucked her she got off in like 30 seconds. I counted 4 orgasms total. She admitted how hot it was afterwards that I initiated sex with the knife.
Most guys can incorporate a bit of thug game into the bedroom because even relatively feminine men will normally be stronger and bigger than the woman they fuck. There are exceptions, of course, like skinny chubby chasers. If you do so, you will most likely find, just like Pickernanny, that the woman responds incredibly well to it. It makes sense evolutionarily speaking as it hints at a time in which the strongest and most desirable men simply took the women they wanted. With thug game, you activate this part of her lizard brain, and her subsequent orgasms echo those of a female ancestor of hers hundreds of thousands of years ago who was held down by Stone-Age Chad who lifted a rock and indicated that if she wanted to live, she better suck his dick, and if she didn’t make him cum, he’d kill her. Clearly, evolution favored women who were into that kind of behavior. (Feminists, listen up: this is also the most compelling evidence that humans indeed once lived in a brutal patriarchy because otherwise you wouldn’t have some of the women today respond so incredibly well to thug game.)
I’d encourage you to not venture down this really dark path too far, with the main reason being that you can easily end up in a really difficult spot. Imagine you pull a chick home who wants you to rough her up, you lose control and hit her a few times, and she gets super into it. Then, the next day, you think that this was a crazy bitch that shouldn’t be part of your life. Upon telling her that you don’t want to see her again, though, she gets very upset — and heads down to the police station. Now, I’d like to see you argue that the bruises on that chick’s back were the result of consensual sex.
Spotting red flags is a very important skill to have. Some flags are so bright red that you would be insane to proceed. Let me briefly tell you about three of the craziest women I have ever encountered.
One I pulled home from the club. She told me that she really likes getting beaten up and then fucked. She physically assaulted me and I had to restrain her. At that point, she was happy and told me that if I’m “man enough” I could now see if I can overpower and fuck her. At that point, her loose top slipped and exposed bruises on her back that looked fresh. I froze up and she told me that those were from her “ex boyfriend.”
Another chick got really horny in the club. I was already fingering her in some dark corner. When I felt some scars on her arms and back, I asked her if she was into self-harming as a teenager. She didn’t answer that question but instead told me that she likes it when her boyfriend cuts her or — wait for it! — puts out cigarettes on her back during sex.
The third one seemed like a bubbly and playful chick. I picked her up in a club and were fooling around in her bed. I playfully pinned her down and wanted to enter her. Then she seemed to want to free herself, so I let go of her. Her response was that I should hold her down more strongly. Sure enough, I do that, and the next thing I know is that she’s shouting that she’s getting raped. She whispered that I wanted her to stop, I’d need to find a way to make her shut up. After she had bitten me and scratched me, I got up. She apologized and said that she was only playing, but was quick to let me know that she has doubts regarding my manhood and that it was probably for the better that I left, with my tail between my legs. This conversation happened in German, which is relevant because the word for a dog’s tail and the man’s penis, colloquially, is the same: Schwanz. Thus, so she managed to add a sexual connotation to this insult.
I’d say that if you encounter a clearly crazy woman, you should not bother with thug game, but you may want to add some elements to your style. A bit of thug game during foreplay or sex can turbocharge your sex life as well as her arousal. Just make sure you never put yourself in a situation that may compromise you. Using words or props is generally safe. Fulfilling a woman’s wish to get beaten up is not.
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