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“Personal Truth” as an Evolutionarily Adaptive Female Survival Strategy

In the comments, Chris asked,

I can’t remember which article or the year I posted the question. It had to do with women constantly lying all the time. What is the reason(s) for women constantly lying? Are they trying to create some kind of fantasy to lure you in?

Of course, Chris does not mean that all women lie literally all the time about absolutely everything. However, I think it is not much of a stretch that women are much more adept at picking up moods and cues, and adapting to them. The same is true for low-T men. Most people are simply sheep who are deeply afraid of offending anyone. If the media tells them that they have to get vaxxed, support the Ukraine — wait, it is only “Ukraine” now and always has been, bigot — support Palestine, support Israel, support wide-open borders, and welcome refugees, they will change their mind on a whim. You see this change happen right now again, with wokism no longer being actively promoted by the US regime. More and more people are picking up on this, and to the uninitiated it may be surprising how rarely people bring up “social justice” topics these days.

With women in social contexts the same happens, but on a much more rapid pace. Some women obviously lie outright but much more commonly, they want to present a version of themselves that maximizes their chances of getting Chad dick. They simply create their “personal truth”, and it is a quite flexible one: If Chad is a Nazi sympathizer and loves eating red meat she will quickly forget about being a vegetarian. In fact, the kind of women online who claim they would go on a “sex strike” and not date right-wing men are generally the kind of women you do not even notice. You may not even identify them as women.

The aspect of women wanting to “create a fantasy to lure you in” is true. She likes whatever you like and she wants to be your dream girl. This is the main reason why I find it laughable when guys talk about wanting a woman who has the same interests as them. In reality, whatever you are interested in, she will be interested in as well, or claim to be. Of course, she only aims to stay at the surface level but this is normally enough to reel guys in. Amusingly, low-T men believe that they have to spend time on “understanding women”, read up on feminism, or whatever other nonsense they is out there. This is the female dating strategy, applied to men on women and I do not need to spell out what a bad idea it is. It is about as successful as hovering around women, as a guy, hoping they will chat you up.

Without wanting to sound grandiose, the fundamental difference between weak and strong men is that the latter are able to shape their own reality. Weak men are deeply afraid to offend anyone. They consume reality as it is presented to them. In contrast, strong men think for themselves. Women are drawn towards strong men, however, and they, like chameleons, change themselves to match perceived expectations. Her incessantly posting “Slava Ukraini” in 2022 on social media is a response to a strong reality which she cannot change herself. She responds the same way when she is drawn to a man she wants to sexually submit to.

You can also practice imposing your reality onto women. A woman who is into you wants to please you. She will never tell you that anything you like “sucks”. Instead, she will not only pretend to be interested in the same subjects you are interested in, but effectively change her personality to accommodate you. When there were still clear subcultures, you saw some women transform themselves almost completely, just because of one particular guy whose dick they could not get enough of. If you are a bit older and have experience with hanging out in subcultures you may have experienced yourself that women you have dated changed their clothes and makeup, based on what they thought you liked.

It seems there are few limits towards imposing your will on women. Of course, there is the extreme of guys telling women they fuck to prostitute themselves. While I do not have any experience with pimping, I have no doubt that the same principles apply, i.e. a very dominant man just tells a woman who has submitted to him what to do. This is an evolutionarily adaptive trait. In the past, some local chieftain may simply have killed any woman who did not do what he wanted. This played out at all levels of the tribal hierarchy, and because women cannot physically dominate men, they had to adapt. To her, she is just going with the flow.

You likely are not going to tell any woman to whore herself out for you, and neither are you going to banish any woman that crossed you from society. However, even in our castrated society, you can experiment with imposing your will on women who want to fuck you. A simple exercise is claiming that you like a particular actor or movie, or music genre. Even if you are just spouting bullshit, her first response will be to project the most pleasant version of herself. I even went as far as telling women that I did not like their name and would use a different one instead. Amazingly, any time I did this the women went along. Some looked puzzled at first, others giggles, but they all fell in line. More amusingly, you can even call a chick the wrong name during sex, and then you just stay in character. Some chicks think it is some kind of roleplay and they go along with it, others may be give you some crap so you tell them that they told you that this was their name. You can even accuse them of bullshitting you. I would not feel too bad about this because a lot of women gaslight a lot of men, so in the grand scheme of things, a few experiments in applied psychology of this kind will not meaningfully extend your time in purgatory.

In the end, most people go through life wanting to be as inoffensive as possible. In the case of women, this often means that they follow your lead. This is also relevant for relationships because women will normally adapt to you. At first they may have only pretended to like whatever they like, but over time this will become part of their personality. For instance, I have exposed my wife to so much classical music that she now even listens to it in the car. When we met, however, she told me that classical music “made her nervous”. Her political views are also very similar to mine. Sometimes, she makes statements that are even more radical than mine. I have no reason to complain. It is easy to see the evolutionary benefits of women adapting to the reality they are presented with. Plenty of women seem to actively fight their nature, which is arguably a major reason of conflict in relationships. Traditionally-minded women clearly end up in a better place.

8 thoughts on ““Personal Truth” as an Evolutionarily Adaptive Female Survival Strategy

  1. Aaron,
    Where do you draw the line between a woman lying because she’s trying to lure you vs her lying? The type of lying where it becomes unacceptable, problematic, and it leads to an erosion of trust.

    1. This depends a lot on your tolerance level for female b.s. and your goals. Behavior that you would consider unacceptable in a girlfriend you may at best be mildly annoyed with if a woman you only want to pump and dump exhibited it.

  2. I once fucked a latina chick who had been with a white guy who was a “bit” right-leaning. She joked about us being together and said something along the lines that if I was a neo-nazi she wouldn’t mind. She actually had no reason to think that I was sympathetic toward any cause, but she was basically theoretically okay with being openly racist despite being non-white, so long as I was faithful to her. It was quite amusing.

    1. Women seem to wear personal beliefs like fashions. They spout the slogans and may even be able to explain the basic concept behind certain political ideologies, but ultimately it means little to them. If there is an external reason to change their beliefs, they will quickly do it. Chad dick is as compelling a reason, if not more so, than societal trends, no natter if they are real or manufactured.

    2. Yeah, women seem to mirror the political beliefs of their boyfriend/husband. Same goes for favorite sports teams.

      @Arron

      What do you think about women who support their EX boyfriend’s sports teams? Do you think they are hung up on their ex?

    3. Oh yeah, and they will cheer for teams simply because their star player is handsome. They’ll even cheer against their own country. Almost like cheating haha.

    4. Well, they also cheer on migrants flooding into our countries by the millions. Both are probably related.

  3. “It seems there are few limits towards imposing your will on women. Of course, there is the extreme of guys telling women they fuck to prostitute themselves.”

    A few years after the #MeToo wave first appeared, there was a case, very famous in the local internet. There were a lot of “anonymous influencers” who were anonymous because they came about amidst the 2018 political turmoil; some still survive to this day, while others returned completely to their offline lives, were arrested, exiled or… doxxed, like the case I want to mention.

    This was a very special doxxing job. This guy was an anonymous political dissident, and spoke and behaved himself on the interwebz like a goody-two-shoes, but then he got me-tooed and exposed like a sick cuckold by his ex-girlfriend, who willingly engaged in the guy’s fantasies and recorded herself having sex with random taxi drivers. The guy’s Twitter account was never to be seen active again. And of course, she claimed to be “psycologically coerced” to prostitute herself (for free).

    I mean, you can see women sharing #MeToo stories of all sorts, tolerating all kinds of abusive and sick behaviors from some (semi)Chad or for the beta-bucks, but this one took the cake. I mean, for a small country. I’m sure in the US or the UK there must’ve been a lot of similar stories (whether they got exposed is another question).

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