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Open Thread #388: Women/Dating

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  1. I recently just watched a new video Wheat Waffles put out:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzxgL8YBTvY

    I heard of him before but never watched any of his stuff and I’m shocked anyone bothers with him. He thinks looks=game and attraction for women is the same as it is for men lol. I scrolled over another one of his videos and he basically said it was over for men after 25 as they’ll start showing signs of aging and won’t be able to compete with young Chads anymore lol. His beliefs are so bizarre and I feel bad for younger men who find his content as he’ll only make them depressed and miserable.

    The thing I never understood about these guys is the facial rating/attractiveness thingy. I remember seeing a video before that rated Christian Bale in American Psycho as a 7.5. I couldn’t believe it! I feel confident in saying that 99% of the female population would consider him in the 9-10 range in that movie, yet, apparently he has tons of flaws facially lol.

    1. “I remember seeing a video before that rated Christian Bale in American Psycho as a 7.5. I couldn’t believe it!”

      There are women that rate Ryan Gosling a 5, why so surprised?

    2. This is an interesting one.
      I once showed a chick at work pictures of famous handsome dudes on my phone and asked her to rate them 1-10.
      Top model David Gandy was first. She rated him 9/10.
      Ryan Gosling next – yuk ! Rated him a 3/10 somesuch.

      A few others I showed and again large variations in ratings of the “worlds sexiest guys.” She has some preference for Pitt Vs Clooney can’t recall which.

      I asked her who her ultimate #1 10/10 was.
      She choose David Mamoa.
      But added the caveat the latest DM.
      Not the younger one without Tatts. “He was too clean then, and not ripped enough so not my type the younger DM.” (Lol)

      She was a short fat single mum and still had her “types.” Ie Tall Dark and Handsome or ultimate warrior type (or whatever DM is)
      A certain face with a certain square jaw and stubble and certain eyes or whatever.

      I did the same thing with another chick and it was the opposite as she preferred the Gosling blonde type. Etc etc

  2. I’ve got some JBW experiences to share. Lots of ethnic chicks have been super nice to me. Has anyone ever experienced chicks consistently holding doors for you and handing you stuff in anticipation? Some chicks have done this multiple times so it isn’t like a one off thing. I’ve been getting signals from white girls too but it’s always either the same kind of vague sort of signals I usually get, or they’re just the super slutty (not very cute) kind that hit on lots of guys anyway. I’m referring more to the timid and demur ethnic types that are almost exhibiting what I would have to call simping behavior.

    1. I can confirm this. Asian women have, on average, been far nicer to me than Western women. Many men, after they have met their first Asian woman, are often puzzled because of the absence of antagonistic behavior. Granted, Thai women are known to be potentially dangerous due to their dick-severing antics but your chances of a White woman trying to poison you are probably higher. Then again, you would probably prefer getting poisoned over having your dick cut off. Oh, of course the women are the real victims here, according to science.

    2. I wonder if dick severing in Thailand is why there are so many lady boys (jk). I haven’t really had the chance to mingle with any East or SE Asian chicks. It is worth noting that the ethnic chicks I’m referring to are indeed not originally from the USA. Also, the couple South Asian or so chicks (AKA poojeets) I’ve dealt with have not been pleasant. There is a phenomenon here also of poojeets migrating to this area en masse because of the tech sector and filling up these newly constructed cookie cutter housing developments. The white guy who lives there with his Hispanic wife both say they are difficult to endure, and not very pleasant or friendly. They tend to go on scheduled night walks around the development in packs as well, which just adds to the creep factor.

    3. People are telling me that having Indian restaurants in your neighborhood makes it all worth it. On a more serious note, I think that Indians are fundamentally incompatible with Western society. They not only make the life of that white guy you mentioned unbearable. They also collective work on undermining their host society. At this point, it is almost a meme that Indian tech CEOs who presumably get elevated to these positions because they are “minorities”, smarter than blacks, and expert ass-kissers fire US workers and increase headcount in Indian corporate offices.

  3. Whoring chronicles continued:

    I found some sketchy but cheap Asian whore provider. I’m reluctant to try it because the chicks are not independent and are advertised as giving bareback blowjobs etc. It’s also difficult to ascertain how accurate the photos are, so I’ll probably pass. I tried hitting up some porn stars. One, a 20 year old rising star, gave me some astronomical quotes via e-mail. $1,600 starting out all the way to $10k for an all nighter. I wonder if this includes filming? Filming this chick POV might actually be a good idea?

    I’m also definitely going to be filtering these chicks for language barriers from now on. I got curious about this one hot chick and she wanted to act like she didn’t only Russian, so I cut contact. Also, I messaged another pornstar just recently that quoted me $1k an hour to which I ignored, and she came back at me asking me what my budget is. So, there does seem to be some wiggle room as Aaron had previously suggested.

    I’m currently looking at a Vietnamese chick (language barrier flag but super hot), and a half Japanese/Euro chick. I just haven’t reached out yet.

    1. That chick who asked for $1k first and quickly changed her tune, basically wanting to know how much you are willing to spend probably deals with a lot of suckers. Some people surely pay her $1k but not nearly enough. Her strategy may be to get the top end of the range, for her, when someone willing to spend this much comes along and otherwise be fine with $300 or so. For her that may still be a lot of money. I would be quite curious to learn about the economics of the whoring trade. For instance, a whore who believes she is worth $1k per hour probably does not make all that much money because not a lot of men want to spent that much money. I would not be surprised if these are part-time whores who have at least a part-time job. This may be being a porn starlet but it could just mean that she is a barista who happily takes an extra $1k every other week or so, knowing that this source of income is too unreliable to do nothing else.

    2. I’ve fucked a fairly attractive whore in my neighborhood for 50 bucks. Women are so easy here though, I haven’t really bothered with whores in a minute.

    3. Aaron, you should be proud! I just haggled with this hot 20 year old from California. I asked her what her asking price was for hour/half hour. Then I got her to cut her half hour asking price by 20%, and then I convinced her to give me the whole hour for that price point. She agreed but wanted to do a FaceTime verification, presumably to make sure she wasn’t going to be giving a discount to a sub 5. Chick spoke fluent English and seemed able to come across as real down to earth. Will report back with the results.

    4. Okay, so that’s over with. This chick was borderline psycho for sure. Bad service. I guess it’s hit or miss with these things. I’m pretty sure I’ve gotten my fill at this point. This one, just like the first encounter, I had a hard time getting hard mostly because I just found this chick to be insufferable. But after like 20 mins I finally got into the mood and just got off as quick as I could while staring at her ass. I’m going to go back to trying to bang regular chicks for now. I will say that of the three escorts I banged, the first one at least tried, the second one was super pleasant, but the third was just like your typical spoiled entitled slut. I don’t think she was trying to be unpleasant, she just simply was. It was the absolute most mechanical and uninspiring sex I’ve ever had.

    5. On the positive side, you got this experience for a lot less than this woman originally asked for. Entitlement is, as you all know, not at all uncommon among regular women so perhaps this is the new normal, at least until the backlash against DEI/ESG fully picks up steam.

    6. If I had to give any advice from my limited experience it’d be to maybe just avoid the USA (pricing/legality issues) almost entirely, unless maybe you can get a foreign chick.

    7. “…at least until the backlash against DEI/ESG fully picks up steam.”

      I just assume entitlement isn’t going anywhere due to social media and sexual market imbalances between men and women becoming more pronounced. In this particular case, this chick makes more than a surgeon does per hour. She probably thinks the universe was spawned and led up to this moment to cater to her lol. I did end up browsing some Asian escorts who actually advertise being submissive and attentive etc. in their bios. It’s probably not all bad, but the scene is probably full of landmines.

    8. I am hearing that, in GTA, government has hired countless women who do virtually no work and the same seems to be true for the enormously large GTA tech industry. Once the tide turns, I would expect that women lose their job en masse. A prelude of this is already happening, with companies shutting down their DEI/ESG departments. With women unable to make six figures for taking corporate yoga classes, chilling out on rooftop terraces and “vibing” with their besties in the office their attitude towards men will change quickly.

    9. @PN
      Are there no Brothels where you are?
      An upmarket brothel is much more straightforward and fixed prices.

      Re the porn stars,
      I’d imagine they’ll bring their BF/ Handler with them to collect the money. They usually have a big dude or BF (or husband!) that acts as a money manager etc, so he’ll be coming to the meet also I’d imagine.

      How much are you willing to pay for a smoking hot hooker?
      Also what about sugar arrangements

    10. It’s definitely hit and miss with whores.
      same experience in Indonesia last year.
      Had one young goddess first then the next 3 were downhill from there. On my last day there I got #1 to bring her “sister” for a 3 way.
      Her whore -friend was hotter than the previous 3 . So it ended well.

      Try get a 3-way with the hottie and a hottie mate of hers. Hot chicks tend to hang with other hot or slightly less hot that them friends. They’ll be in the ballpark tho.

      My Online Game is going well now,
      I did 4 chicks this week,
      2 new ones. 1 second timer and 1 regular hot one,
      Another I met a few weeks ago socially I caught up with tonite also spur of the moment. she was too drunk and had to work tmrw, so just a hot pash when her friend left to go home 20 mins before she did.
      Both chicks were pretty smashed on White wine and annoying tonite tbh,

      For me it’s a ‘snowball effect’ or a force multiplier, if I can bang 1 I can bang 3.
      And if I can bang 3 I can bang 9.
      🤷🏻‍♂️
      My pet theory is that chicks can smell the pussy off me once I’ve got a rotation going and start getting laid goodo. It becomes so much easier to get new ones then.

    11. Oh hey Cheeky, I missed your replies somehow. Probably because you’re all over the place! Haha

      As of right now I’m not really willing to spend a ton no matter how hot the chick is. I’ve kinda already blown my wad so to speak. I’ve also found that the one time I haggled with a chick successfully she was just really annoyed and wanted to get straight to the point. Could have just been her personality or a number of other factors but her attitude also made it hard to do the deed. So, I’m kinda disenchanted with the whole idea, at least here in my home country. The grass may be much greener in SE Asia or Amsterdam, for example, for all I know.

      I would of course be down for a threesome, but it’d be too expensive here also. There are no brothels in this country except for Nevada, and they’re not cheap either. It seems like the elite and hottest chicks go independently anyway. Porn stars and IG models charge well over a thousand for an hour. Also, I get the sense that a lot of these so called independent chicks are being pimped out, namely the ones that speak no English in an English-speaking country.

    12. They are. As am I !

      I’m currently operating as a dick on wheels via Dating apps. Driving around my city servicing my rotation of slutty girls and cougars. 😃. So literally all ove r the place the last 4-5 weeks.
      Kinda exhausted now tbh. It’s like a part time job. And juggling the texting etc is a headache,
      the quality control needs a bit of tightening up also tbh. Haha.

      That’s no good re the brothels.
      Brothels in Aus are very good. I can get a 3-way $320-$350 for 45 mins. Which is plenty time.

      Last time I was in Vegas there were cheap hookers advertised. $200-$250 ish. But I did not avail back then,
      Probably fat old ones sent to the hotel no doubt. 👎

      Mexico maybe?
      Apparently Argentina also has smoking hot ladies of the night at the niteclubs. I wanna go there. A big Argentinian steak , a glass of red wine, a big cigar and boogie with a hot hooker,. That’d be a good night for me 😎 🤘

      I love the latina ladies.

    13. Even the Mexicans here are wary when they travel back and forth between the States and Mexico, but I do bet there are some cheap whores there.

      Cheeky, let me ask you, have you ever had any issues with skin to skin stds like hpv (the warts kind) and herpes? I’m not at all worried about HIV since it’s pretty rare with condoms especially, and the bacterial ones would suck at first but are totally treatable.

    14. Hey Cheeky, maybe you were on to something. According to this guide the hottest chicks in Mexico can be had for a mere fraction of the price you could land one in the US: https://girlsheavens.com/sex-prices-in-mexico/

      Probably the safest way to go would be to fly into a touristy city, but it’s possible that you pay a relative premium for whores in those districts.

    15. Oh, and I didn’t see this before posting the link but if you scroll down you can see that the rates for this chick are 200 (hr) and 300 (2hr) etc.

      If someone were to make a tier list for worst places in the world to going whoring the USA would probably be near the top. Not to mention, a couple of states have changed their laws so that first time offenders are convicted of a felony simply for soliciting a woman. That means that simply telling a chick you’ll pay her for a sex act is a felony in at least two states, much less even meeting up with her.

    16. @PN

      I had a look thru the links.
      Tbh I wouldn’t go to Mexico based on that info.
      Too expensive tbh. And Mexico City is super dodgy. Plus the chicks are photoshopped in that website. Wouldn’t trust any website tbh to get a hooker too much scamming.

      I’d go further down. Argentina definitely from stories from friends who went there. Safe and cheap , lots to eat and drink plus hot hookers.

      Columbia .. maybe.
      Not sure about the scene in Brazil. But from the Brazilian girls I met here Id love to check it out. Brazilian chicks are scorching hot. 🔥 🥵

      Holland and asia have been the best for me . And here in Aus of course.

      Dominican Republic is well known for it.
      Funny Some PUAs used to run ‘dating holidays’ down there which made me LOL hard when I read that. What a coincidence. Bobby Rio of TSB mag was one, probably Rob Judge also.

      But they are dark chicks..wouldn’t be ur type I’d imagine 😆

      I’d go to a Latin country known for it and go off the beaten track a bit. It’ll be much cheaper. Always is.

      For example in Indonesia& SE Asia. In the tourist spots they charge $100-$150 for an hour. But in the smaller low rent backpacker type spots is $60-$80 and can bang them all night long and probably all morning too. 👍

      Re the STDs – no , never got the nasty skin ones.
      The clap and chlamidia only, and scabies in Indonesia once . But that’s not an STD per se.

      ID imagine it’s be a real low rent $50 streetwalker type hooker that’d carry those nasties… I’d hope anyway.

    17. I just realised how far down in STh America Argentina actually is. (Lol)

      Columbia and Venezuela perhaps instead.
      Don’t know much about them tho. My friends went to Argentina on a holiday only

    18. @PN
      This is my 2 lovelies from Indonesia .
      $240 1 hour . The one on RHS with short bobbed hair was lethal. Super sexy bitch,
      Still in touch w her on WhatsApp will see again some day. While she is still young and hot.
      she worth flying over for 🤯 💗
      the RHS was her “sister”. Both originally from Java.. I’m going to Java!

      https://ibb.co/HgdjyvT

      And dis pic is old CJ the Uber-penis himself.
      The curvy and cougar service man 🧔🏻🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️

      https://ibb.co/s3fTgrb

      I wanna see dis hot blondie u mentioend PN ☝️
      Photos or it didn’t happen! 😛

      Just blur her face and details n stuff dude. Fuckit. wanna see da hotness.

    19. You seem to be an expert whoremonger! Thanks for the tips. How did you pick up the clap? Was it raw dog, massage house, blowjob, or from a civilian maybe?

    20. @PN
      It was from a very hot fake titted hooker in Saigon. No air con in the room and the condom broke ..😫

      Hmm expert .. maybe 🤷🏻‍♂️
      I read Iceberg slims book “Pimp” at one point and stole some ideas I’d say. He was an expert,

  4. Aaron,

    Since we spoke about high-IQ women in the other thread, what’s your general experience with them? (aside from your wife right now)

    Maybe you’ve had clients that have dated women smarter than themselves. (however rare such a case may be) Does it usually work out when the woman is smarter than the man?

    Anyone else here is welcome to chime in if they have relevant experience.

    1. This is more fiction than reality. I do not recall any such case. Of course, there are cases where the women are more intelligent but in that case, they are at most interested in a short-term relationship.

    2. I’ve had women that got better grades than me in school, but I feel that’s just a result of me being very unengaged (for reasons I already got into plenty of times here) with school, and possibly schools favoring female students more in general.

      Regarding that latter observation, that reminds me of a time when I was in elementary school, when we were made to do a speech in front of school staff. The memory is incredibly blurry right now, but I remember that I was the only one who was able to make the whole staff laugh. with nearly everybody else, it felt like they were just going through the motions, including the woman who they gave first place to.

      After all was said and done, one of the teachers clued me in to the fact that the reason the woman got first place is for publicity purposes. If not for that, they would have awarded me first place. I didn’t really care to be honest, because I didn’t care about school in general (I will admit the enthusiastic applause felt very validating though, haha), but it was quite the experience.

      Have I ever met a woman IRL who can truly engage me on a philosophical level? Honestly, no I have not. Part of me kinda hopes to meet a woman like that one day, but I might have to accept that may be unlikely. (or if I DO meet a woman like that, she may well not be attractive)

    3. School is geared towards women, rewarding rote-learning and obedience much more than creativity and raw intelligence. Also, there are plenty of studies showing that teachers hand out better grades to girls than boys for the same level of performance.

    4. Lee Kuan Yew’s spinster daughter passed away last week, aged 69. I briefly discussed her case with Aaron. She seems to have been highly intelligent with many achievements, but also looked extremely unfeminine and unattractive. Section 2 of this article features an old write-up of hers on why she chose (she says) to remain single:
      https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/on-life-loss-lessons-learnt-from-patients-and-a-sweaty-obsession-5-columns-by-lee-wei-ling

      I may be the smartest woman that Aaron has ever met (hey, he wived me up!), but:
      – I suck at maths and science. Struggled with these subjects ever since I was a girl. And I’ve tried hard before to understand say a physics concept, but used such warped reasoning that I don’t think I can be helped! It’s like my fundamental understanding of how laws of nature work is completely off.
      – I lack the tenacity to be argumentative. I find it tedious and I’m not interested in debating people to push a point.
      – Aaron made the harsh observation that I’ve “never studied anything properly” in my life. I was initially offended as I think I did pretty well for myself in school. At all stages of education my school work was used as a model example for my peers. But I slowly came round to see his POV, that I never really tackled a subject or topic systematically and rigorously. I also played the school system of course, by avoiding difficult subjects.

      In short, I’m in agreement with you men that women aren’t very smart 🙂

    5. “I lack the tenacity to be argumentative. I find it tedious and I’m not interested in debating people to push a point.”

      I’m not really sure I can hold that against you, really. I used to have that kind of fire in me in my youth. Too bad it was wasted on youtube arguments with absolute morons.

      I do still relish a good discussion now and then, but these days, its only when the other side is willing to engage in good faith. (and hopefully isn’t too stupid) At this point, I’m convinced public discussions are (mostly) worthless for genuinely changing anyone’s mind. Nobody (even with the anonymity granted by the internet) wants to be wrong and “lose face”, everybody wants to get that last word in just to feel like they “won” the debate.

      Still, we have a lot to thank of the people who *do* have the perseverance and tenacity to deal with those arguing in bad faith (usually for a hidden personal agenda) to get the truth out there.

    6. @ Sleazys Wife
      Hello

      Re 2 points u mentioned
      “– I suck at maths and science. Struggled with these subjects ever since I was a girl. And I’ve tried hard before to understand say a physics concept, but used such warped reasoning that I don’t think I can be helped! It’s like my fundamental understanding of how laws of nature work is completely off.
      &
      – I lack the tenacity to be argumentative. I find it tedious and I’m not interested in debating people to push a point.“

      I wouldn’t worry about it.
      Most women suck at math and science.
      It’s because women have a different brain to men starting in Utero.

      Re the being argumentative.
      This is related to sex differences also and the function of testosterone in men.( ie to compete with other men)
      This can clearly be observed in children.
      Young Girls generally communicate with a basis of “ we are the same”
      Boys communicate with “ I’m better than you”.

      It’s not that women are not smart,
      The avg Woman is very socially smart and much smarter connectors / have more ‘Machiavellian smarts ‘than the average man.

      Measuring women on “rationality and logic” vs men is unfair. (!kaboom) As that is the strength of the *Male* not the female. We have quite the evolutionary head start in that regard.

      Women just have a different brain to a man (whaaat?!) yes. Different brain, completely different hormone/biological system -> brain +hormones drives female behaviour. That’s why guys can’t figure out girls for the most part. 🙃And this is all *science* fellas.

      Soz but it’s true and facts.

      And it’s why the majority of ‘Tradies’ are men.
      And the majority of nurses are women.

      It’s Jing and Jang.
      Complementary Strengths and Weaknesses . Mother Nature. yada yada…

      ( …and the ban for CJ is imminent now 😂)

    7. In a nutshell it’s dominant hormones that fundamentally creates the differences between men and women. (As you would well know)
      This is moreso for the guys on the blog.

      In females, its estrogen and progesterone.

      In males it’s Testosterone.

      So for nurturing , caretaking humans and organising and connecting social and family situations women are best at it.
      At being socially ‘Machiavellian’ Women also trump men.

      To fix mechanical things , protect and provide men are the best (!) among many other things .

      Have u ever seen a female ‘greasemonkey’(mechanic) working at any car garage or mechanics workshop? No . And for good reason.

      Another everyday example of the differences.
      Men will be happy to cut ties w their siblings for decades.
      For women that is painful to lose family and social connections like that they will strive to maintain them.

      In an old adage it’s
      “ Why Men Don’t Listen and Women Can’t Read Maps” . It’s the brain and biological wirings.

      There will never be much of an increase of successful women in STEM fields of work. (Based on their skills not HR policy I mean)
      They are not wired for it simply.

    8. How does one go about finding a smart wife, then? I care a lot about it because my IQ is very high (let’s say two SDs above the median for the sake of argument), but the rest of my attributes (height, face etc) are solid but by no means exceptional. Thus I feel that IQ is the most important thing to pass down to my children.

      But my experience with women is very similar to yours, they are never that intelligent and they do suck at math. Even the women I studied with, and those were the very best ones just by the virtue of choosing and enrolling in that major, only passed exams because they were not held to quite the same standards. I remember studying together once and having to solve some combinatoric problem (a number of different bases a certain vector space over a finite field can have). After I derived the formula and found the answer one of the girls just said “Your answer feels wrong so I think it is wrong”. Later that same girl had to order a laptop from another country to save money and because of that it had no inscriptions on the keyboard in our language. So she printed some and glued them to it. I was in disbelief that someone could almost graduate and still not know how to touch type. And in spite of all that and many more observations she graduated successfully.

      Should I estimate my percentile rank in male population and go for a wife with a corresponding one in the female population? That would still leave the question of how to assess her IQ. Or should I go by her verbal intelligence/vocabulary instead? Women seem to not be as handicapped in that regard as they are in maths.

    9. You will not find a woman who is as intelligent as you are. IQ tests are rigged so that both sexes get roughly the same result. However, this is achieved by having a much lower ceiling for problems men excel at. Entire categories of intelligence testing questions have been removed from tests due to being “not culture-neutral”. Have you ever seen IQ tests that use mechanical questions, e.g. a bunch of cogs with an arrow indicating the direction of movement of one of them, and you had to deduce if or how or by how much some other cog moved? As it turns out, women totally suck at these questions which is why it has been over half a century since they were last used in intelligence tests.

      The best you can hope for is a woman with a comparable verbal IQ as yours, and one who is intelligent enough to at least question mainstream views at times. Thankfully, Covid solved that problem for you, so all you need to do is finding an educated woman who is unvaxxed and at least bilingual. Verbal intelligence you can assess quite easily just by hanging out with someone. Maybe she even wants to impress you by showing you some of the papers she wrote for university. Of course, this only really works if she is still studying.

    10. @Sleazy

      What’s your take on EQ tests ?
      Do you believe they have any validity?

      @ Cycle Path – perhaps try to find a female pilot for long term dating. They may have what you’re looking for re IQ.
      But I’d bet they would lack the other female traits that would be attractive to you as a man. And be quite masculine and definitely “A-type”.

    11. I do not think that “EQ” and any of the many other postulated intelligences really exist. These are all just attempts by academic activists to redefine intelligence.

    12. @ Cycle Path – perhaps try to find a female pilot for long term dating. They may have what you’re looking for re IQ.

      Just to clarify, I don’t need a wife in order to engage in philosophical debates or proving theorems with her or do any such nonsense, my objective is to get my sons to be at least as smart as I am. It clearly doesn’t require a woman of my intelligence; my mother wasn’t one and in general there are way fewer women at this level than men which proves a women can have sons smarter than them (just like they have sons who are taller and stronger than them). She just has to carry the genes which would make a male offspring very smart.

    13. @Cycle Path

      “my objective is to get my sons to be at least as smart as I am. It clearly doesn’t require a woman of my intelligence; my mother wasn’t one “

      That’s an interesting one.
      Can I ask , do you have siblings ,whats the mix of brothers and sisters and do they have varying IQs,
      The answer I think is in the statement about your mother. Can’t really ‘guarantee’ your sons will have your IQ. Or that you will have sons Vs daughters. It’s a bit of a genetic lottery and luck of the draw. If you had 2 boys for example -1 may take after the fathers side, the other the mothers.

      The most successful son of my parents in terms of finances and status takes after my mothers side. She was super social and craftier with making money than my father, who was more intellectual.

      For a mother I’d more be looking if a woman was tall , fit and healthy (free of health disorders) and comes from a good stable family so the kids would likely be raised well. Vs a broken home situation ,a family history of alcoholism or health issues.

    1. This woman pops up from time to time. It is not entirely clear to me if she expects praise or wants to simply provoke people. Her grin is unbelievably smug. In any case, once DEI/ESG has been rolled back, she will post exactly one more video of herself and her brood and the comments will be so vicious that she will not show her face online ever again.

    2. They’re Quiverfull people. It’s a Christian ideology that promotes having the greatest number of children possible. I’d love to see more people of no color adopting that kind of mindset, but not in families like this…

      In her case, I think she just wants attention from whoever’s willing to give it. They have an Instagram full of pictures and videos of their brood:
      https://www.instagram.com/thecollinskids/

      They seem to have a TikTok as well, but I can’t be bothered to check it out.

  5. I discovered a couple of new (to me) data analysis about dating, hypergamy, etc. I have only skimmed these, but just wanted to share in case anyone else wants to read through. Data heavy, lots of graphs with analysis and discussion.

    Do Looks Matter in Dating?
    https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/do-looks-matter-in-dating

    “Both genders are ‘looks-hypergamous’ to a similar extent, with at best weak tendencies to take their own desirability into account”

    Have Dating Apps Really Ruined The Dating Landscape?
    https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/are-dating-apps-facilitating-chadopolies

    ” dating apps are not facilitating ‘chadopolies’.”

    1. I have not read these pages yet, but one strong argument against the dating app hypothesis is that the majority of people still have never even used a dating app. Only among younger people have a small majority used them, and a tiny minority still use them.

      I think that dating apps have had an effect on society, for sure, but not nearly as strong as some people seem to think. In the “manosphere,” a lot of people can’t stop going on about how it’s shifted the female perspective, but they seem to be way overexaggerating it.

    2. Imo dating apps have always been this way.
      These stats etc.

      Because really, IRL hot chicks have no need to use dating apps. They only use occasionally to try catch the small % they don’t have access to IRL.
      They have plenty of offers daily IRL anyway.

      Dating apps are fully of cat-fishing mid chicks fatties and fuglies IME.

    3. But it is certainly a much easier and more efficient way for Chads to get laid wherever and whenever they want. Pussy straight to their door ready to bang like an in call hooker service,

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