The topic of women with a so-called Cluster B personality disorder has come up repeatedly. The term “Cluster B” is psychiatrist-speak for anti-social, borderline, histrionic, and narcissistic personality disorder, and oftentimes, a woman who suffers from one of them also shows symptoms of the others. Note that “suffering” is probably not the correct word here as those women, as long as they are young and attractive, do appear to be of rather high spirits. Oh, I am not aware of why this group of disorders is referred to as “cluster B”. Maybe the ‘B’ stands for “bitch”. It would certainly be fitting.
If you ever had random hookups, in particular if they were relatively fast, you have most likely encountered a Cluster B woman. They are risk seeking and they want to experience thrills. Long-term planning is not their strong suit. As you can tell, such women are much more likely than, for instance, homely Betty down the road, to bend over from some dude she does not even know the name of. As much fun as such women can be, in particular for random hookups, they turn your life upside down as they become completely unhinged. The first time you encounter such a woman, you may not even think that anything is wrong with her. Instead, you will think that everything is going splendidly. She wants to have sex all the time, is entertaining, and your bros envy that it is your turn to bang her. Erroneously, you think that she is everything you ever wanted from a chick. Yet, her mask will eventually come of. The borderline types will engage in “splitting”, i.e. the longer you know her, the more she will be absolutely insufferable for you, but whenever she senses that she is going to lose you she will act nice and sweet again.
The quickest way to enrage, and I mean this without any sense of exaggeration, is to turn them down. In the club, this can mean that a chick grabs your crotch, you take her hand away and walk off, only to have her aggressively walk up to you and tell you that no man has ever refused her. If this sudden outburst of affection does not make you change your mind, she is likely to cause trouble for you, for instance by telling the bouncer that you inappropriately touched her (oh, the irony!). I have met a small number of such women, and I am sure that most men never even encountered that kind of reaction as they simply think that it is their happy day if some whore at the club grabs their junk and wants to get fucked right now.
In casual relationships, you may easily be misled to think that you have the perfect fuck buddy. She is hassle-free, does not need a lot of foreplay, and does not make many demands. Yet, at some point it dawns on you that she would not make a good girlfriend, so you break up with her. Here, the problem is that the relationship progressed so well because you were playing along so well. She can only get guys to commit if she puts out, so this is what she does. Your supposed fuck buddy relationship did not look like that from her perspective as she thought that she was gradually reeling you in — and now you want to slip away. With a cluster B woman, in particular one with a strong narcissist bent, anything can happen now. She may key your car, file a false rape accusation, throw kitchenware and glasses at you, terrorize you by sending you a hundred messages, show up at your door uninvited, and so on. Plenty of guys have met such crazies, and the more women you have sex with, the more such women you will encounter, almost by necessity. I hear that in Thailand, the local women have a tendency to cut your dick off if they get mad at you, so compared to that you are probably relatively safe in the West. Still, it probably will not be pleasant.
A positive aspect is that after you have been burnt this way once, you will probably notice the warning signs, and if not, you will break up in a way with her that limits the amount of damage she can do. It is important to keep in mind that you should not blame yourself for her reaction. She cannot help it. In fact, if needed, you have to talk yourself out of trying to fix her as you will only turn yourself into a Captain-Save-A-Hoe. Those women are genuinely defective. Pills will not fix her, and neither will your walking on eggshells around her, which is indeed what men end up doing if they think that they can “help her work through her issues”. At the very least, you will get out of a longer relationship with such a woman with PTSD, and this is probably not worth it, no matter how much may you enjoy banging her.