On a recent train ride I made a rather curious observation. Across the aisle there was an average looking woman in her mid-20s. She was using both seats, presumably because of Covid. On the seat next to the aisle she rested her feet and had taken off her shoes. In the aisle itself a young mother was pushing a stroller back and forth, presumably in an attempt to entertain her young child. Given that the kid was wearing pink, I assume it was a girl.
The girl in the stroller was really good-looking. She was also rather curious about her surroundings. At one point, she noticed the toes of that woman. That’s when I started paying attention. The mother was still absent-mindedly but rhythmically pushing the stroller back and forth a few inches. The girl got more and more fascinated by those big toes bulging in dirty, white socks. At one point, she just tried grabbing one of the big toes of that woman. The woman then laughed in a very amused way, which in turn made the little girl laugh as well, and she kept laughing for quite a while. I could tell that the adult woman was quite pleased by that reaction, too.
Small children seem to mirror their world. That little girl only started laughing after the adult woman was laughing already. Obviously, the kid did not know what the appropriate behavior in this situation was. She just explored the world, wondering what might happens. Yet, assuming that beautiful children grow up to be beautiful adults, which certainly holds up until adolescence, you can see how this life trajectory will play out: when interacting with a good-looking girl, regardless of whether she is six or sixteen, people fall over themselves to be nice and accommodating. They’ll even make excuses for them if needed. Suddenly it doesn’t even matter if she’s cheating on an exam or doesn’t do her work. If you’ve studied engineering, you may have seen ad-hoc study groups forming just to help one of the at best average looking girls in class help with her assignments. Now imagine how people fall over themselves when they get the chance to do a genuinely good-looking girl a favor. That’s why they get free upgrades to nicer rooms in hotels, free entry in clubs, or free drinks in bars, offered by staff. At work, they get away with doing less, even if they blatantly leave at 4 or 5 p.m. after asking Joe to help them with some task. They stroke his ego for a bit (that’s they only thing he’ll ever get stroked by them) and he’s happy to oblige.
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In contrast, girls who are not very good-looking don’t fare quite so well. While attractive women tend to get bitter if they enter their late 20s being single and used up, unattractive girls can be extremely unpleasant even before they hit their teens. They hate the world because they know that they cannot complete with their much better looking peers and there is nothing they can do about it.
How do you think frustrated, pissed-off girls are made? Well, let’s replay the scenario at the start of the article but imagine there to be some fugly baby-girl sitting in there. Let’s say she has small eyes, an unflattering nose, asymmetrical facial features and unpleasant-looking hair. She may also want to touch some strangers toes but the stranger may not react quite so positively. This is no exaggeration. Certainly you have seen parents in public who scold their children in public. Interestingly, there is even academic research showing that parents treat better-looking children better. This may just be yet another academic misinterpretation as looks are genetic, i.e. better-looking parents have more pleasant personalities, which correlates with looks and is also hereditary. They also have better-looking kids than the genetically average, so those kids are better-looking, happier, and have parents who treat them better because their parents get treated better by the world, too, and so on.
People can easily distinguish real and fake smiles. Surely, a kid who only ever, if at all, sees fake smiles and does not get any kind of preferential treatment at all will not nearly be as carefree as a cute kid who thinks that everybody is nice because everybody is nice to them. This applies to men as well. Many incels complain that women treat them like garbage. Yet, those incels normally realize that women only treat them like garage, while Chad gets the first-class treatment with deep-throating, condom-free sex, and swallowing with little to no effort.
The sobering conclusion is that, at least for women, their life outcome is probably predetermined the moment they have gotten pushed out of their mother’s womb. I would not be surprised if nurses checked up on cute newborn babies more often and with greater attention than on ugly newborns. We only say that there are no ugly children but there obviously are. It’s the equivalent of claiming that every woman is beautiful in her own way, or some such nonsense.
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