The other day I stumbled upon a thread on Reddit, I think it was on their MGTOW board, where a bunch of dudes commented on an article in which a woman complained that men wanted three things from a woman: She should be a virgin, not have any tattoos, and be debt free. She was pretty upset about that. Presumably she couldn’t get any guy to commit and assumed that those of her own defects were the reason. If that is the case, then her capacity for personal insight is already way above average compared to your typical “woke” woman, and she should be complimented accordingly. I think the main criteria are that she is not a slut, slender, and cute, debt free, and has a pleasant personality. Cute means not having tattoos. Presumably that woman ignored the physique of women because to her being fat is simply the norm. I thought that the minimum standards I defined were quite low already, but apparently they are not.
Most guys who want to commit would be overly happy if their girlfriend had been with at most a handful of guys. Remember that there are women who compete against each other with regards to the number of dicks they can get inside them. Among women in their prime partying age, traveling and trying to get laid more than their best friend, who they secretly hate, is common. If you want to hear those stories in real life, go to a private party where people bring alcohol, find a slutty chick who is into you, make sure she gets buzzed, and then encourage her to tell you about her sex life. Of course, you are “sex positive” and admire women who spread their legs for female liberation. Later on, you are of course disgusted by it and leave with someone else. As a personal highlight, I once met a girl who was 24 and who told me that she has had sex with 227 guys. Not missing a beat, I asked her how she was able to know the precise number, to which she responded by showing me a list on her phone. Her entries showed name, time, location, and some notes. Quite a few names were missing. She did not let me scroll through the list, but I spotted some entries where the names were different but instead of time and location, she just had written “same”, i.e. she did threesomes, if not worse.
Given how rampant promiscuity is, you could consider yourself very lucky if your future sweetheart has had less than ten sexual partners. The older she is, the more unlikely it will be that the number of guys she spread her legs for is not big enough to make up two soccer teams, with a deep bench on top. Trying to marry a virgin is becoming about as realistic as women wanting to marry a billionaire. I would say it is even less realistic because the number of billionaires has been increasing, whereas virgins have become about as rare as unicorns.
Most guys would probably tolerate a modest amount of student debt as well, at least in the United States and other countries, where student debts are the norm. In Europe, where you can normally get a decent education for free, we tend to view debt, in general, as much more negative. In contrast, in the US debt is almost seen as an inevitable part of life. Yet, even if the system is such that you need to take out a loan to finance your degree, there are better and worse options. You could splurge on an education at a private school. On the other hand, the flagship campus of the public university in your state would offer a comparable experience for a lot less. Particularly in STEM fields, the “reputation” of your university is not all that important as long as you come from a decent school, and there are certainly plenty of schools that offer a good education, and which are not even that competitive to get in, but difficult to get through because they have high standards. You may have to take out loans, but they are probably manageable. If you are in an in-demand field, you will probably earn enough during internships to keep the institutions you lent from making too much money off you due to interest, and if you are in a field in which you can’t earn money during internships, you have probably picked the wrong field.
On the other hand, if you want to enter a field in which “reputation” is important, you are almost guaranteed to go broke. This is where we turn our attention to women: women shun quantitative fields, and if they go into STEM, they flock towards degrees like Biology which are about as useful as having no degree at all. There simply aren’t enough pussy passes and diversity roles available to hire every female with such a degree. The situation is worse in the social sciences — what an oxymoron that name is! —- the humanities, and the various pseudo-business degrees. If you think you have to date some young ditz with a degree in Human Resources or Social Media who works as a barista, then marriage, real or according to common law, will wipe you out financially. It’s a risk you take on with open eyes, and you would be stupid to do so. Spendthrift women are very keen on joining financial assets. If you think, a shitty blowjob is worth a hundred grand, then you probably deserve to get wiped out.
Tattoos are interesting from a symbolical perspective as they point towards a shared aspect of the elements that constitute the low bar of attributes women should have. No, it is not that tattoos are trashy, just like being fat and being a slut is. That is true, too, of course. However, the issue is that no baby girl is born with tattoos. Instead, you actively decide to permanently disfigure your body by getting tattooed. It is an active choice. Likewise, girls are born virgins. Losing your virginity means speaking your legs. They would only have to keep their legs together instead of opening them. If you lie down, you may notice that you do not lie down with your legs spread. Probably some women do so reflexively, after having taken 250 dicks, but for a normal human being that is not the case. Besides, it is not as if strangers enter our bedroom by chance. Being a slut with tattoos means that a woman has already made a string of poor choices, and every new pump-and-dump is another one.
Then there is the issue of debt. Are you born with debt? No, of course you are not. Instead, you go into debt actively. Jenny could take public transport, but she just has to have a car, and instead of a functional laptop with Microsoft Windows — yeah, I know it’s crap, but it’ll do until you can afford something better or have learnt how to use Linux — it has to be a decked out Apple MacBook Pro with all the upgrades she has no need for. Of course, she has to have the latest iPhone because it would be below her to send emojis and messages in shitty grammar to Chad and Tyrone on an Android phone for $180. Even those expenses, as significant as they are, are trivial compared to the cost of a bullshit degree. Indeed, the narrative feminists and leftists want to spin these days is that the student debt crisis is a crisis of female students. Occasionally, I hear the term “female student debt crisis” mentioned. It seems those sweethearts want a bailout, financed by the taxes of men —- as an aggregate, women consume more in tax spending than they pay in taxes. Yet, the aggregate is made up of poor decisions by Stacy, Katy, Mary, and all the other stupid chicks who thought they would earn six figures easily with their degree in Social Media Communications from Moron U.
For a woman to be attractive, she just has to not make any shocking dumb mistake. Keep your legs together, don’t overeat, don’t get tattoos, and don’t take out a loan you can never pay back. It is really simple. Now the fat positive dimwits will claim that people who are slim need to starve themselves. That is of course complete bullshit. Besides, a woman does not necessarily have to be slender or slim. Most guys would be perfectly happy with a woman who has a healthy normal weight. In today’s age of obesity, that is the new slim, it seems. This does not mean that genuinely slim women aren’t more attractive. They are. Instead, it shows that the bar for women is really stupidly low. Yet, for many women it is impossibly high due to all the poor life choices they have made.
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