It is not uncommon that men put off plans. They may dream of writing their novel, traveling to some far-off destination or trying some crazy hobby. Not now, but someday. Yet, the time is never right. I have even met people in their late 20s or early 30s who told me about what they intended to do once they retire. Those were not dot-com or bitcoin millionaires but regular guys with a regular job who don’t have an early exit opportunity. They were talking about regular retirement. Yes, they were making vague plans about what they wanted to do in their 60s! Seeing how things have been going in the West, retirement may be even further off.
There are many issues with that approach. While it is great to be able to not give in to instant gratification and plan into the future, the extreme is most certainly not the way forward. On that note, one of my friends has been having a spectacular career. He’s working his ass off and when others sit in front of their PlayStation, he’s networking or entertaining guests — it’s part of his job description as he has to represent his organization abroad. If you looked him up online, you’d probably be very impressed. I don’t want to knock him. He’s a great guy and he deserves his success. Yet, the last time we met, he quickly emptied a bottle of red wine and told me how much he hates the office politics at his place and the silly power games he has to engage in. He also told me that he has set up a countdown until retirement and gave me the precise number of days it was until then, something around 12,000 days. Well, that is part of his dark humor, but there is more to it.
Your life will pass a lot quicker than you think. I’m not going to go all-philosophical on you, but keep in mind that you have only a few good decades during which you can do whatever you want. Some guys have at best a few years because they get tied down in their early 20s. Some of those guys end up getting divorced in their 40s or 50s, after decades of painful marriage. At that point, it’ll be to late to start over. What kind of life will they look back on?
I don’t necessarily only want to talk about women. I ambiguously wrote ‘It’ in the title of this article. With women, the issue is that while you have essentially two ways of getting them — looks or resources —, the latter is limiting because they just won’t suck your dick as fervently as some young horny slut who is dying to have your dick in her, and couldn’t care less about your financial situation. Now, don’t make chasing women the main priority in your life. However, if you really do want to get laid a lot and you’re still in a position in life where you can do that, I’d say you certainly should have a go at it. Take precautions, but get it out of your system. Even a gap year just traveling and fucking is a great idea if you can afford it.
You much rather bang young sluts while you can because once you’ve settled down, the opportunity will be gone. It’s not entirely gone, it’ll just be a lot harder to get later in life. This does not just apply to girls. On that note, a friend of mine recently finished his Master’s in Computer Science and had a few job offers. His dream was to go work for a year or two in an exotic city. Places he mentioned were Hong Kong, Shanghai, but also some Western ones like Barcelona. In the end, he took a job at a company in his small hometown. The last time we had lunch, which was probably the last time we’ve ever had lunch together, I said to him, “That kind of job you’ll always be able to get. It’s a fallback option.” He then dismissed his original ideas of temporarily moving abroad as naive and childish. I guess he’s mentally preparing for retirement in a few decades’ time.
Back to banging chicks: just like there are jobs you can always get there are women you can always get. Think of the aging woman, the single mother, the kind of woman who may have been cute ten years ago if you were drunk enough. There is absolutely no shortage of average women. If that is what you want to settle for, go ahead! However, that’s the kind of garbage-tier woman that will always be there. Just make it to 30 or 35, have a job, any job, and have a social media profile. Those used up women will reach out to you. Heck, even in your 50s you should have no problems getting the bottom 80% of women. On the other hand, the young and attractive ones you won’t get so easily. Sure, you can always pay a hooker, but it won’t quite be the same.
When it was clear to me that my marriage wasn’t salvageable, I was perfectly ready to live out my life as a monk. I was fine without women in my teens and early twenties, and now that I met quite a few of them, my conclusion back then was that contemporary women don’t seem to offer anything of value to me. I wasn’t going to actively look for a new woman in my life. (When I met my girlfriend, though, she totally blew me away, but that’s another story.) I had peace of mind because I had banged so many women. I’ve also been in all kinds of relationships, so I knew what that was like, too. Whatever happens, I won’t ever have to sit back and think what could have been. I remember my wild and slightly delayed adolescence, with all its exuberant debauchery, with fondness. If you don’t act and instead of going for what you want instead put it off and think that you’ll eventually get around to do it, chances are that you will one day look back and wonder what could have been. So, whatever it is you are striving for, get it out of your system while you can, or face regret and bitterness later in life.
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