My girlfriend is an avid reader of my blog. Thus, it probably should not have come as a surprise when she asked me, during lunch, about high libido in women and how I would quantify it. This was in response to the unfolding discussion related to my article, Determination and pickup. For men, I think this is easy to answer once you’ve had more than a handful of sex partners or so. But that may not even be necessary. I’d say one very obvious sign of high libido in women is when they are sexually aggressive. The woman grabbing your crotch out of the blue in a club most certainly has a very high libido. You may want to dismiss this by saying that such women are just drunk and horny, but I would not be convinced. After all, it’s not as if every girl who is buzzed grabs the junk of guys around her.
Behavior is of course a clear indication that a woman has a high libido, but there are other signs. One of the most obvious ones I have found is an enlarged clitoris. Undress a few women, and you’ll surely come across some with a clitoris that looks like a little dick. Heck, the guy with the smallest flaccid dick I’ve ever seen — yup, males shower naked after doing sports — was not much bigger than the biggest clit I’ve seen. Funnily enough, that woman complained to me that hardly any guy goes down on her. I didn’t want to point out to her that this is because I can’t imagine any guy finding it arousing to suck on a clit that resembles a small dick.
Another signal is her owning sex toys. Those are normally stashed away, but high-libido women think there is no issue with it, so just ask them if they have any sex toys and they might tell you. During sex you can just ask her whether she wants to get a dildo up her ass while you rail her. Chances are she’ll happily hand you one. Enjoy your time with her, but get the fuck out afterwards. Women with low libido are a lot less likely to own sex toys, and when they do, they most certainly won’t talk about it openly.
For practical purposes, the takeaway is twofold: First, if a high-libido woman propositions you, go ahead and fuck her, as long as you find her attractive. Just make sure you wrap your dick and also take basic safety precautions because you don’t want to get poked with a shotgun in the back while mounting her. Second, and much more importantly, if you end up fucking a woman and you notice that she has a big clitoris, then just pump and dump her. You can be sure that her sex drive is abnormally high, which will cause all kinds of problems for you later on. You can probably bet that she will cheat on you, too. All it takes is you being away for a few days, for instance on a business trip, and her getting horny. After a while, her vibrators won’t cut it anymore and she’ll just go out, looking for a real dick to ride on.
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