I still find it baffling when men, despite copious amounts of evidence to the contrary, hold on to beliefs they had hammered in by our decrepit feminized society. One such belief is that sex is akin to a favor women hand out. Unsuccessful men are often convinced that this is the case, which is why we call them pussy beggars. In reality, things are a lot different. Guys who obsess about picking up women are often prime pussy beggars. They tend to approach women arbitrarily, hoping that their scattershot approach will lead to the occasional hookup. As we have discussed earlier, this is a disastrous strategy. I recall reading about guys who chronicled well above 1,000 approaches, with very little to show for. Sexually attractive men don’t do that, though.
Donald “The Wall Just Got Ten Feet Higher” Trump got a little bit more infamous when a tape got leaked to the press in which he essentially said that because he is rich and famous, he can just grab women by the pussy. This was taken completely out of context. He did not mean that he can grab random women by the pussy. No, instead it meant that some women are so eager to fuck him that he can just grab them by the pussy. I am by no means famous, but I have had a glimpse of that level of game when I got invited by a bunch of multimillionaires to party with at some beach town that is heavily frequented by the rich and famous. The men were all loaded. There were also plenty of women around. Only the best-looking women got into those venues. If you think regular women are shallow and vapid, then I have to tell you that you have no idea what else is going on in the real world. (I’ve seen one woman who was so obsessed with herself that she danced in front of a mirror all by herself.)
Now imagine the following scenario: you’re in the VIP lounge of a very exclusive club with a bunch of high rollers who have spent a few thousand Euros already, and there are girls around who want to party. In fact, the hottest girls get into the VIP area based on their looks. Among those, gold digging is quite rampant. The smarter ones of course try to figure out how much money you have. One girl asked me what I did for a living and how many cars I owned. The answers apparently weren’t to her liking so she walked off mid-sentence. Two hours later, she left with some Arab sheik. Yet, not all girls were such ambitious gold diggers. Plenty just assume you’re the total package if you hang out in such an environment. Those women were incredibly touchy-feely and, yes, they had absolutely no problem if you retaliated. In fact, they were more than happy if you did as it meant that she could now legitimately party in the VIP area. Girls who got ignored were eventually removed by the staff of the venue, so it was a relatively high-pressure situation for them.
So, what could you do? Well, let’s say you sit on a sofa with two or three multimillionaires and all of you drink out of a 500 Euro bottle of champagne each because why the hell not. Then a bunch of girls show up and they ask if they could join in. Sometimes, they immediately put one leg on top of your thigh or just sit down in your lap and wrap their arms around you. You can’t behave like in a seedy techno club in Berlin, but if you feel like rubbing their pussy discreetly, they are absolutely fine with it. You can even have women almost fighting over you. While you rub one girl’s pussy, another girl could as well try to throw herself at you. I also had encounters where girls were very forward and I just grabbed their pussy while they asked me what my name was. Always remember, frothing feminists and beta guys, it’s not sexual assault if they love it. Oh, yes, I can relate to Trump’s statement.
I did most of my pickup in rather more plebeian places, though. There, you can just go all out. Well, I should say that you could because with the influx of rapefugees to Europe this has changed dramatically in recent years. I regularly fucked chicks in bathroom stalls, but this has gotten a lot more difficult if not impossible in the cities I visit due to a few cases of gimmegrants raping girls. I even know of one case where a girl got raped and afterwards stabbed to death in a bathroom stall. Good luck trying to fuck a chick in that venue nowadays! I had to deal with the occasional bathroom attendant. Nowadays, you have security guys patroling clubs. (One of my weirder encounters include a security guy stopping me as I was about to leave the venue with a girl and check with the girl whether she is inebriated. She afterwards had to confirm that she indeed wants to leave with me.)
That was just a side note. The point is that in clubs for the commoners there are plenty of pussy beggars while women willingly throw themselves at a small number of men. These women use sex to get your attention. This is a prime explanation for slutty behavior because, for some reason, those women have learnt that if they hand out access to their pussy to men they find attractive, then those guys may stick around for at least a little while — and even if not, they still get validation from being used as sex objects.
I think most men completely underestimate how much validation slutty women get from engaging in spontaneous sex. Swallowing a load of cum of a prime specimen of the male sex validates their entire existence. More conservative women can’t even relate to that kind of behavior, and this is not surprising because they are wired so differently. For a slut, on the other hand, instant gratification is high up on their list of priorities. If the choice is between one of:
1) not having sex at all
2) getting a placeholder boyfriend for lack of options
3) having sex with a guy they really fancy, even if he may disappear right afterwards,
then 3) is irresistibly attractive.
Let me illustrate this with some anecdotes. The first one really hammered this point home for me. I had chatted up a girl at a club in Berlin. She told me her boyfriend was away to get beers. Since she was very touchy-feely — Yup, I had grabbed her pussy already — I suggested that she should just suck me off in the bathroom. This was partly intended to be a joke, but with my deadpan expression it certainly sounded as if I was completely serious about it. She did not verbally respond to that but instead smiled. I took her hand, made my way through the crowd with her and ushered her into the first available stall I found. I pulled my pants down and she got to work right away. She was indeed very eager to suck me off. Afterwards, she said that she’s happy I allowed her to please me and asked me how I liked it and whether I think she’s good at sucking dick. Let that sink in for a while.
Another case was a girl I banged within minutes in a bathroom stall, incidentally at the same club, Berghain in Berlin. I don’t think we had exchanged even one complete sentence. She somehow thought that me putting my dick in her meant that I would hang out with her afterwards, but I just disappeared. You may now think that this is shitty behavior and that she surely must have hated me for it. Yet, I bumped into her again a few weeks later — and she asked me right off the bat whether I would like to fuck her again.
The moral of all of this is that the average guy walks around begging for pussy, seemingly oblivious to the fact that the women he lusts after willingly bend over for guys who could not care less about them. Don’t be too envious if you don’t belong to the category of guys who have made such experiences because those women aren’t worth it in the long run anyway. Still, those women very willingly have sex. If anything, they are the ones who are begging — for dick. Thus, reality is the exact opposite of how low-status men perceived it.