I voiced my disapproval of YouTuber “Blonde in the Belly of the Beast” in my last post already, but in more general terms. As I dug around some more, I noticed that she has a video on YouTube for men, telling them how to “overcome unattractive beta qualities”. It’s a crock of shit, to be blunt. Here it is:
Her advice is downright ludicrous. First and foremost, “adopting masculine traits”, which she recommends, is not impossible, but she makes it sound as if it’s as simple as replacing your bedclothes. If you are a down-beaten man, let’s say because you grew up under the rule of a tyrannical single mother and had no positive father figures in your life — according to your whore of a mom any of the ten dudes who could have fathered you was a piece of shit, and all throughout education female teachers jammed feminist propaganda down your throat. I’m obviously exaggerating, but if you are the kind of guy that let’s others walk all over them, you’ll need to do some serious work on yourself. In addition to psychotherapy you may even need to leave your current negative social environment and start all over somewhere else. We’re talking about a multi-year effort here. If you’ve never set a goal for yourself and worked hard at reaching it, there is essentially a zero chance that you’ll be able to fix your psychological issues.
However, maybe “Blonde” doesn’t even get what it means to be “alpha”. I don’t necessarily have images of a loudmouth in my mind who fucks a lot of easy women and bullied guys in high school who looked like Zuckerberg. No, I consider it “alpha” to have clear boundaries, setting goals for yourself and working towards them, and not wasting your time with bullshit. In Blonde’s mind, though, being alpha means “shooting guns, working on cars, and not taking any of [Blonde’s] shit”. She’s a dolt. Let me make it very clear: I don’t believe that she has ever had a shot at getting in a relationship with a genuine “alpha”, because guys in that category who want to settle down have higher standards than she could meet. No, some guy who is doing very well for himself but fucked her twice because it was convenient does not count. A woman giving you shit over nothing, maybe just because she likes drama or attention, is firmly in the bullshit category of an alpha and will get kicked to the curb.
I cracked up when “Blonde” dished out dating advice, telling guys that trying to be friends with a girl first just doesn’t cut it. That is correct. However, her alternative is not any better. In fact, it is the exact same advice she questioned, but doesn’t even realize it: she tells guys to not “show too much of your hand”, i.e. don’t indicate romantic or sexual interest. This is ludicrous as she is recommending “friend zoning” without being aware of it.
In particular, I had to laugh when she used the term “alpha women”. With regular women, in her mind, friend-zone dating might work, but not with those female alphas. What kind of woman is she talking about, Western whores? Women who, like her, “date a lot”, i.e. have taken dick in all sizes, colors, and shapes until they realize that the frequency and quality of dicks decreases with age, until they, like her, get jolted out of their delusion because they’re approaching The Wall at full speed?
Her insistence that “shit tests” are normal behavior and that “alphas” would know how to handle it is ludicrous. While that aspect of female behavior may be very common nowadays, it is not what I would consider normal and healthy behavior. If anything, “shit testing” is a lame justification for having the emotional maturity of a poorly raised five-year old. Any “alpha” drops a woman like that. An alpha’s way of “handling it” is to kick out a woman like that.
Lastly, how plausible is it that a woman who is at best a 6 and who has a dismal dating history could give good dating advice. How about leading by example? The example certainly shouldn’t be along the lines of mediocre-looking women at wall-hitting age who spent their 20s waiting for Prince Charming but took countless cocks to make waiting more fun.