No, you don’t need to bother with women if you don’t want to

An interesting aspect of having an internet presence is that sometimes people approach me almost as if they are asking for approval to do something. A few times guys asked me about my opinion on dating much younger girls. Of course, as long as they are not breaking any laws, that’s totally fine, regardless of what the feminist mainstream may tell you. Quite some time ago, though, someone asked me essentially the opposite question.

Let me rephrase it instead of quoting: his situation was that he was doing fine in life — solidly established, but by no means a baller. Being in his early 40s, he doesn’t feel at home in the party crowd anymore either. He mentioned that as he got older, and met more (Western) women, he has gotten incredibly jaded about dating. His conclusion was that women don’t seem to accept him or value him as he is. Instead, he much prefers the company of his dog.

That guy wanted to know what I thought of his situation. That was easy enough to handle as the answer was quite obvious. I’ll spell it out regardless: if you feel perfectly fine on your own and do not desire the company of women, then don’t bother with them.

I have had my ups and downs as well and have had, despite not having the slightest problem getting girls, phases in which I just didn’t want to have anything to do with them as they just didn’t seem to be worth the effort. Frankly, if you hang out with a fucking moron on a regular basis just so you can get laid, you need to get your head examined. The time investment just isn’t worth it. It took me a while to realize that the problem wasn’t so much with women in general, but with typical Western women. Typical Western women you can certainly bang, but more likely than not they will be nothing but a headache if you attempt having a relationship with them. Thankfully, there are still a few traditional women around, albeit they are few and far between.

3 thoughts on “No, you don’t need to bother with women if you don’t want to

  1. Aaron, you are a smart guy but it is weird if people see fit to ask you existential questions like this.

    1. To some, “gurus” are replacement dads. I think it’s a bit weird, but I’ve gotten used to it.

    2. It’s the Internet, “weird” is par for course!! 🙂

      I guess Sleazy could also be seen as the “alpha” older wiser brother we should have to help us out. With all the feminist programming in university or male bashing media content, it sure is nice to have a guru…and better than those RSD nation hacks!

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