Probably every dude who has female friends — no not chicks who “friend-zoned” you but women who groom you as a backup in case things go sour with their current partner — may at some point have heard the claim that they “fall in love with assholes”. Likewise, if you bang a lot of women, and quickly move on from one to the next, you may be all-too-familiar with all kinds of stalking behavior, and women pushing for a relationship just because you spent one night with them. It seems quite rare indeed that a woman does not want to see you again after you have given her a good orgasm.
There is a fundamental difference between men and women, which explains why slutting it up feminist-style (to be like the guys!) just does not work for them. As a guy, sex is just sex at the start of a potential relationship. If you don’t spend much time with a woman, besides fucking her, chances are you don’t grow emotionally attached to them at all. With women this is dramatically different. It’s almost as if they question their “love” to their boyfriend the moment they catch themselves looking at some other guy. I’m joking, but there is a deeper truth.
The problem is that with women, emotional attachment seems to be triggered with orgasm. Emotional attachment also increases with the amount of time she spends with you, and touching. This explains two kinds of behaviors. First, women who do not want to “get hurt” will let you wait because they don’t want to get taken advantage of. They will only have sex with you once they are reasonably sure that you will commit to a relationship as they would rather miss out on sex than enduring the heartbreak that comes from pumping and dumping. Second, there are women who end a one-night stand very briefly after sex, in order to avoid getting emotionally attached. They keep the interaction at a transactional level in order to avoid emotional attachment.
On the other hand, women who fuck around a lot, and don’t set any boundaries, end up with guys who affect them emotionally, for instance by boning them, or via physical contact in general. Their emotional attachment is a consequence of physical intimacy, not the other way around. To make it even clearer: what kind of guys fuck women for sport? It’s guys with at least a slight narcissist bend. Thus, Annie, chances that the guy you follow home is indeed an asshole are pretty high. You didn’t give Lame Joe a chance, and lack restraint, so you’ll end up with a lot of assholes you’ll fall in love with, and this happens due to physical intimacy which you granted all-too eagerly.
It seems people used to know about this and therefore strongly discouraged their daughters from fucking around. On the other hand, guys were encouraged to fuck around, before settling down with a proper woman. For guys, it can really be “just sex”, while women have a much different emotional response. You could probably explain this in evolutionary terms, but I rather stick to observations than mere speculation. Yet, traditional values are out and slutting it up is in, so naive women will have to endure heartbreak, or go all in and lose the ability to fully experience emotional intimacy. The latter is a concept the manosphere has summed up as the “thousand-cock stare”. Those women are essentially like prostitutes, the main difference being that they are a bit more selective, and don’t charge money.