People love hiding behind “irony”. If something looks subpar, just claim it wasn’t your best effort. Instead, you were being ironic with your creation. People write ironic books, songs, even source code. Some dress in an “ironic” way. It’s a convenient excuse to escape any criticism. It’s also a great way to make sure you… Continue reading Anti-Trump Aerobics
In the comments section there was recently a discussion on old PUA concepts being alive and kicking. I think it was Alek Novy who remarked that the few remaining companies are no longer absurdly ridiculous and distance themselves from their former teachings. Out of curiosity, I clicked around a little bit. Note that I’m not… Continue reading Look at this future pussy slayer!
I used to stress the importance of style. It is of course not unimportant, but a much bigger determinant of your success with women is your physique. Thus, if you walk around in a plain T-shirt and your female acquaintances remark that you surely work out, you’re fine. From that point onward, adding more muscle… Continue reading How to figure out whether you’re buff enough for successfully picking up girls
A common problem I encounter in my consultation sessions, but certainly one I’m familiar with from personal experience and stories of friends is that guys commonly ignore red flags when dealing with women. It is very easy to see why this happens: you meet a girl, she’s great in the sack, and fun to be… Continue reading Ignore red flags at your own peril
Among the brainwashed masses there is still the belief that all women are sweet little angels. Plenty of guys are in for a rude awakening when they encounter a thoroughly evil or crazy woman. I was once with a woman who was not very stable. She could be very sweet, but then she could recall… Continue reading Examples of evil women in action
I criticized Jordan Peterson for calling MGTOWs “pathetic weasels”, and outlined that MGTOW consists of two groups: genuine MGTOWs who realize that the odds are stacked against them. The world is full of shitty women and the court system will eat them alive. There is another group: “Virgin-TOW”. Those are men who seek shelter in… Continue reading About Jordan Peterson’s backpedalling on calling MGTOWs “pathetic weasels”
Women prefer men to belong to either the same or a higher socioeconomic class. Men want women from the same or a lower socioeconomic class. In this context, it is often pointed out that today’s “high-achieving women” can’t find any suitable men. Susie’s got a PhD in Education, so she just can’t date some Joe… Continue reading The “education gap” in dating is bullshit
By now you have learnt that “just being yourself” doesn’t get you girls, unlike your mom told you. You may also have learnt that approaching hundreds of girls indiscriminately doesn’t get you laid either, let alone with “10s”. So, what is left? That’s easy, check out my books. My free ebook Debunking the Seduction Community played a… Continue reading Want a head start? Buy my books!
I previously wrote about how women deceive men with makeup and fancy clothes. When I see a woman with a lot of makeup in her face, I’m immediately turned off as I presume she’s hiding a rather ugly face underneath. Likewise, clothing that disguises the shape of the body is a clear no-no. However, there… Continue reading How Taylor Swift is able to make every guy lust after her
When I want to have a good laugh, I stop by Reddit and check out the “marriages” and the “relationships” board. You wouldn’t believe what you find on there. Here is one of my favorites: How do I tell my wife that one income isn’t going to work? My wife had been out of work,… Continue reading Reddit/Marriage: husband makes a shit salary, wife doesn’t want to work
Besides Vinnie constantly acting like a cuck, yet not suffering any consequences for it, “Entourage” depicts something else the average male can readily identify with: crab mentality. This concept is based on an interpretation of crab behavior. Apparently, if you dump a few hundred crabs into a barrel, they drag each other down instead of… Continue reading The Crab Mentality in “Entourage”
Quite some time ago we had a brief discussion on the HBO show “Entourage” in an Open Thread. I would like to revisit that and flesh out my previous remarks. “Entourage” has often been highlighted by PUA gurus morons as an example of a show full of characters guys wanting to get better with women… Continue reading Why “Entourage” is “Sex and the City” for beta men
While going through my intimidating backlog of notes, I came across another amusing piece. A longer article in the Daily Mail with the title, Why are so many smart women so bad with money?. There is some pretty incredulous stuff in there. First, I’d like to berate the author for her unjustified premise. Why do… Continue reading A note on “smart women” who can’t handle money
I just stumbled upon a particularly stupid “info graphic” I had saved some time ago. The claim is that sitting causes obesity. Have a look: It is simply mind-boggling. Let’s assume it is a fact that between 1980 and 2000 exercise rate indeed stayed the same, sitting time increased by 8 %, and obesity doubled,… Continue reading Sitting makes us fat?
I’ve been writing for a few hours, until I heard some woman scream. I didn’t think much of it at first as there are a few families living in the area. I quickly realized that it wasn’t a woman shouting at her kids (way to go, mom!). It didn’t stop, so I got up and… Continue reading There is a psycho woman outside my apartment building
In my post on Jordan Petersons’s misguided view on MGTOW, blog reader “patriarchal landmine” left the following sarcastic comment: it’s obvious that when mom locked me in my room and withheld food from me, it was because I was a bitter loser mgtow who just couldn’t get laid at age 8. First of all, thanks… Continue reading Beware, there are genuinely evil women out there
In my last post I mentioned that a reader responded to my gushing over Jordan Peterson with a link to a video in which he ridicules MGTOWs as “pathetic weasels”. That reader just posted the link, not providing any context. I’ll briefly talk about why that kind of behavior is questionable at best, followed by… Continue reading Lazy comments, on this blog and in real life
Not too long ago I publicly declared that I have a man-crush on Jordan Peterson. In response, a commenter posted a video clip with Peterson’s take on MGTOW (I’ll have more to say about that kind of comment in a different post). Here is the clip: There is a really great sentence in it: “Maybe,… Continue reading Jordan Peterson is wrong with his opinion on MGTOW
The other day I was bantering with a friend of mine. At one point, we were bullshitting each other about the possibility to quantify that great relationships with women are immensely better than poor ones. The implication is simply that a poor relationship drains you and makes you hate your life. On the other hand,… Continue reading Bad versus healthy relationships
Complaining about typical Western women is one thing, discussing alternatives instead of committing to a harpy is quite another. So, let’s talk about that issue. First, we should elaborate on a definition of “non-Western woman”. As a working hypothesis, it seems suitable to instead speak of women who do not exhibit mainstream Western behaviors such… Continue reading The realistic alternative to Western women
A popular claim among “enlightened” Western women is that it is a double standard that men are encouraged to fuck around, but women aren’t. If you are a stud, you are worthy of adoration. Yet, if Jill wants to do what Joe does, she is a slut, and gets looked down upon. More recently, some… Continue reading No, the slut/stud dichotomy is not a double standard
We take the advances of technology as well as the erosion of morality for granted. Yet, a mere twenty years ago access to the Internet was not easy to get by. Ten years ago, you would have been an early adopter with an account on Facebook. Five years ago Tinder was far from being mainstream.… Continue reading Sex is Serious
Swedish libshits love jerking each other off because they successfully deluded themselves to be a “humanitarian superpower” and not, which is much closer to the truth, the laughing stock of the Western world. It was only a matter of time until they got to experience a terrorist attack on their own soil. This is what… Continue reading Tailspinning Sweden: Let’s control our borders after a terrorist attack!
Jordan Peterson is, in my humble opinion, one of the greatest minds of our generations. If you don’t believe me, then please go through his lecture series on Personality and its Transformations as well as Maps of Meaning: The Architecture of Belief. He is one of an extremely small number of people I admire. Peterson… Continue reading Support Jordan Peterson!
Man, Sweden is so fucked. But let’s not indulge in too much schadenfreude, as the rest of Europe, and the entire Western world, for that matter, isn’t far behind. Here is a video that recently made the rounds: It shows Ali Gimmegrant who provokes a bunch of policewomen by throwing rocks at their car. Only… Continue reading Tailspinning Sweden: Gimmegrant dominates three policewomen
In light of my recent post on the bullshit claim that married men live longer, I’d like to tear another oft-repeated and related claim to shreds. It is the claim that men live longer when they marry younger spouses. You’ll find plenty of sources on that. It goes back to an allegedly solid academic study.… Continue reading No, you won’t live longer just because you got a young spouse
Following up on my last post Exercise for Readers: Do married men live longer?, I would like to make a few remarks. But before I start, urge you to read the comments that were left under that post, if you haven’t yet done so. They are worth reading. I was particularly pleased by the wide… Continue reading So, do married men live longer?
On a recent post, blog reader Don commented: I once asked a question about the absurdity of women expecting their husbands to pay for a life time of her expenses just because they love them by forcing ideals of marriage. I got similar responses from Feminists. One even suggested that men live longer in marriages.… Continue reading Exercise for Readers: Do married men live longer?
Let me tell you a story of two Toms. The first Tom went on a date with a woman he met through his social circle. They met for a drink, and one drink led to another. A couple of hours later they ended up back at his place. He undressed her, pulled her pants down,… Continue reading Women who don’t shave respect neither themselves nor others
Blog reader James posted a link to a good article on involuntary men. I’ll post the link for now: http://www.elle.com/life-love/sex-relationships/a33782/involuntary-celibacy/ I currently have a lot on my plate, so I won’t be able to write a dedicated article. As always, though, I read all comments.
Alek Novy left a longer comment today, which deserves wider attention. I’m replicating it below with very minimal editing. Today I looked at my Facebook feed, and I noticed the same thing I always notice. My feed is full of feminist status updates about women’s rights. – Not a single one of them is even… Continue reading Guest Post: Thank God for Facebook and ugly chicks (by Alek Novy)
In my last post I mentioned that society let’s women get away with lying. What is even worse is when the emperor has no clothes. It’s one thing to put so much make-up on a plain chick that she appears to be attractive. However, claiming that some fattie is attractive, or even a role model,… Continue reading Oh, we have fat fitness models now!?
Some of you may be familiar with Million Dollar Extreme, which is a trio that focusses on very non-politically correct comedy. That probably isn’t quite accurate. Instead, they simply hold a mirror up to society. They had a show called “World Peace” on Adult Swim, which wasn’t renewed for a second season because the cucks… Continue reading A must watch: “The Wall Show” by Million Dollar Extreme
To me it seems that the average person in Europe is blissfully unaware how incredibly fucked the West really is. The situation is so much out of control that only radical measures, and by this I mean Duterte-style interventions, would change things for the better. However, such a strong leader seems unlikely to emerge as… Continue reading Tailspinning Sweden: “Let’s hope criminals stop committing crimes”
This just popped up in my Facebook feed: A thread on Quora on the following question posted by a girl: A guy asked me out today and I told him “no,” but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn’t he try again? Here is what a sane man would do: – take your “no”… Continue reading An example why Western women are fucked in the head
Some of you are probably familiar with Johnny Sins, as he is rather prominent in a particular kind of movie genre. This is what he looks like: He’s a pretty buff dude. According to some online source, his stats are 174 lbs (78.9 kg) at 6′ (183 cm). By any means, this is a fantastic… Continue reading Johnny Sins and the problem of unrealistic expectations
I recently watched Grizzly Man, a documentary on a rather unfortunate fellow named Timothy Treadwell. That guy devoted his life to befriending bears, grizzly bears, to be exact. The documentary is well-made. You have Werner Herzog narrating with a heavy German accent, and see plenty of videos of Timothy interacting with bears. There was just… Continue reading What you can learn from Grizzly Man for dating
Some time ago a reader posted a link to a clip taken from one of the Dirty Harry movies. The video is further below. I don’t want to focus so much on what Clint Eastwood’s character says, or his body language, which shows his utter disapproval of the charade he is supposed to take part… Continue reading An overlooked example of the masculinity (“alphaness”) of Dirty Harry
I’ve been writing about issues related to dating Western women recently, with the obvious implication that non-Western women may be worth exploring. In that context, we have also had some heated discussions about interracial dating in the comments. Among others, readers brought up that Asian men might have difficulties dating, as they tend to be… Continue reading Interracial hierarchies of sexual attraction, or: why Asian men are almost as fucked as Black women
There are quite a few men who have contracted yellow fever. It’s not difficult to see why. If you’re a relatively unaccomplished white man, you’re still very attractive to a low-class girl from Thailand who is lithe and supple, while the equivalent category of women back home you could get consists of trailer trash you… Continue reading “Asian women are stealing our white men!”
I’m currently going through enormous email backlog, and came across an email I received last October, where one of my readers (thanks again, R.!) gave me some very detailed insider insights into the whoring business. One remark stood out in particular, as he shared his observation that it is not necessarily the hottest whores who… Continue reading Ladies, this is how you can get basically every man
On my last post How to ruin relationships in one easy step, blog reader Houdini stated that a lot of men are in denial of the fact that the vast majority of Western women are unfit for a relationship, and wondered why that was the case. So why is that? The answer is simple: if… Continue reading Why Western men put up with crappy Western women
I have done a lot of soul searching the last few months. One of the topics I tried gaining some clarity on was on why relationships fail, and what could be done to prevent it. The sobering conclusion I drew is that there is very little you can do to save a relationship once it… Continue reading How to ruin relationships in one easy step
I had an interesting coaching call at the end of last year, which had a lot to do with cognitive dissonance. As we all know, girls quickly drop that they have a boyfriend when they want to get rid of you. Some girls spout this out almost reflexively. Heck, I once approached a girl by… Continue reading When she clearly likes you but tells you she has a boyfriend
Some days ago I promised writing a post on the dark side of picking up women. I think this is a topic that is hardly addressed. To be completely frank: I don’t think that what I am going to write about is applicable to your garden-variety PUA who is willing to fuck literally anything, and… Continue reading Picking up women causes emotional damage
Here is another great reader comment. Alek Novy has a few words for people who complain about “negativity”. While such people are, in my opinion, concern trolls who do not deserve any attention, Alek’s eloquent comment certainly does. The number one reason guys don’t get as much success with women as they can… is because… Continue reading Featured Reader Comment: For Guys Complaining about “Negativity” (by Alek Novy)
Isidia left a great comment on my article Reminder: Women can be pretty great. I thought it deserved more attention, so I’m replicating it in full below. A guy whose laycount has reached triple digits is arguably the one who is wounded most by his conquests. Along with the emotional rollercoaster he experienced with his… Continue reading Featured Reader Comment: The Player as a Victim of his Success (by Isidia)
When we discuss women, and dealing with women, and all the stress and trouble they cause, it’s easy to get the impression that we’re a bunch of misogynists. That’s not an impression I’d like to give, though. Admittedly, I have had plenty of negative experiences with women, but they pale in comparison to the many… Continue reading Reminder: Women can be pretty great
When you look back at PUA theories of yore, you’ll get the impression that their creators were unable to deal with uncertainty. In order to achieve a certain outcome, they invented a bazillion of steps, like “overcoming last-minute resistance”, which is pretty much a bogus idea to begin with. For some, like Mystery, getting a… Continue reading You can never be certain with girls
Probably every dude who has female friends — no not chicks who “friend-zoned” you but women who groom you as a backup in case things go sour with their current partner — may at some point have heard the claim that they “fall in love with assholes”. Likewise, if you bang a lot of women,… Continue reading Ladies, this is why you fall in love with assholes