Note: this is an article I wrote several years ago, which I just unearthed on my hard drive. I made some minor edits before publishing it. The final two paragraphs are new, though. I’ve written about the problems of women who think that 30 is the new 20, and the rather uncomfortable position they are… Continue reading Dating in high school, college, and beyond
I previously highlighted some of the utterly horrifying stories that can be found in abundance on the “relationships” board on Reddit. It’s essentially one train wreck after another. There is one aspect of that board that I’ve either missed, or which was recently added: as I just noticed, the logo of that board is —… Continue reading Something bizarre about reddit/relationships
I would like to highlight a comment, which was left by blog reader James some times ago, on the peculiar issue that nasty bitches want us alpha males to lower our standards and instead of joining the MGTOW movement or pairing up with young, attractive women, pick them instead. James succinctly summarized their double standard:… Continue reading According to fat feminists, only men need to lower their standards
The West has gained absolutely nothing from “free love” or its modern manifestations: clubs, bars, and Tinder. What did we gain by undermining the family unit? It certainly was nothing positive. We used to have mom, dad, and 2.5 children per household. Divorce used to be rare. Divorce furthermore used to be heavily discouraged by… Continue reading Hook-up culture and the degeneracy of the West
The other day I was bantering with one of my bros. He told me about one of the girls he is seeing. It was pretty clear that she was only a nice piece of ass to him. Then again, to her he was largely only an alpha cock, with the addition that she somehow deluded… Continue reading Dumb Girl ROI: College or boob job?
Following up on my last post, Horny little sluts make for bad girlfriends or wives, I’d like to elaborate a bit on facials. As much fun as it may be to give a slut a facial, it should be pretty clear that it is a rather demeaning act. The bigger picture is that some PUA… Continue reading Ladies, facials are demeaning!
Here are some notes from Capt. Obvious on slutty women and why you should not seriously date them, inspired by a comment left by Chuck on my post on born-again virgins. He wrote: Oh how true this is! A girl I used to “date” I met during a threesome when she was in her late… Continue reading Horny little sluts make for bad girlfriends or wives
I just came across a recent psychology paper that maps personality disorders and traits. This fits nicely with some of my recent articles, in which I highlighted that traditional women, i.e. non-Western women, make for much better partners. The paper is called Genome-wide analyses for personality traits identify six genomic loci and show correlations with… Continue reading Want a sane girl? Psychology research tells you what to look for!
Blog reader “Manuel S.” asked a question about born-again virgins in response to my post, The kinds of women you should not date: But what about [women who] disavow of their past and “find Jesus”? They in theory become conservative women, right? Can a man afford to buy that conversion? The answer should be obvious,… Continue reading Don’t fall for “born-again virgins”
Following up on my last post, I’d like to add one important aspect: if you are a man with not a lot of options, you are arguably a lot better off not dating instead of taking a pick from the bottom of the barrel. Recall that when it comes to women, the bottom of the… Continue reading The kinds of women you should not date
When I want to have a good laugh, I stop by Reddit and check out the “marriages” and the “relationships” board. You wouldn’t believe what you find on there. Here is one of my favorites: How do I tell my wife that one income isn’t going to work? My wife had been out of work,… Continue reading Reddit/Marriage: husband makes a shit salary, wife doesn’t want to work
The other day I was bantering with a friend of mine. At one point, we were bullshitting each other about the possibility to quantify that great relationships with women are immensely better than poor ones. The implication is simply that a poor relationship drains you and makes you hate your life. On the other hand,… Continue reading Bad versus healthy relationships
A popular claim among “enlightened” Western women is that it is a double standard that men are encouraged to fuck around, but women aren’t. If you are a stud, you are worthy of adoration. Yet, if Jill wants to do what Joe does, she is a slut, and gets looked down upon. More recently, some… Continue reading No, the slut/stud dichotomy is not a double standard
We take the advances of technology as well as the erosion of morality for granted. Yet, a mere twenty years ago access to the Internet was not easy to get by. Ten years ago, you would have been an early adopter with an account on Facebook. Five years ago Tinder was far from being mainstream.… Continue reading Sex is Serious
In light of my recent post on the bullshit claim that married men live longer, I’d like to tear another oft-repeated and related claim to shreds. It is the claim that men live longer when they marry younger spouses. You’ll find plenty of sources on that. It goes back to an allegedly solid academic study.… Continue reading No, you won’t live longer just because you got a young spouse
Alek Novy left a longer comment today, which deserves wider attention. I’m replicating it below with very minimal editing. Today I looked at my Facebook feed, and I noticed the same thing I always notice. My feed is full of feminist status updates about women’s rights. – Not a single one of them is even… Continue reading Guest Post: Thank God for Facebook and ugly chicks (by Alek Novy)
I recently watched Grizzly Man, a documentary on a rather unfortunate fellow named Timothy Treadwell. That guy devoted his life to befriending bears, grizzly bears, to be exact. The documentary is well-made. You have Werner Herzog narrating with a heavy German accent, and see plenty of videos of Timothy interacting with bears. There was just… Continue reading What you can learn from Grizzly Man for dating
On my last post How to ruin relationships in one easy step, blog reader Houdini stated that a lot of men are in denial of the fact that the vast majority of Western women are unfit for a relationship, and wondered why that was the case. So why is that? The answer is simple: if… Continue reading Why Western men put up with crappy Western women
I have done a lot of soul searching the last few months. One of the topics I tried gaining some clarity on was on why relationships fail, and what could be done to prevent it. The sobering conclusion I drew is that there is very little you can do to save a relationship once it… Continue reading How to ruin relationships in one easy step
I had an interesting coaching call at the end of last year, which had a lot to do with cognitive dissonance. As we all know, girls quickly drop that they have a boyfriend when they want to get rid of you. Some girls spout this out almost reflexively. Heck, I once approached a girl by… Continue reading When she clearly likes you but tells you she has a boyfriend
Some days ago I promised writing a post on the dark side of picking up women. I think this is a topic that is hardly addressed. To be completely frank: I don’t think that what I am going to write about is applicable to your garden-variety PUA who is willing to fuck literally anything, and… Continue reading Picking up women causes emotional damage
Here is another great reader comment. Alek Novy has a few words for people who complain about “negativity”. While such people are, in my opinion, concern trolls who do not deserve any attention, Alek’s eloquent comment certainly does. The number one reason guys don’t get as much success with women as they can… is because… Continue reading Featured Reader Comment: For Guys Complaining about “Negativity” (by Alek Novy)
Isidia left a great comment on my article Reminder: Women can be pretty great. I thought it deserved more attention, so I’m replicating it in full below. A guy whose laycount has reached triple digits is arguably the one who is wounded most by his conquests. Along with the emotional rollercoaster he experienced with his… Continue reading Featured Reader Comment: The Player as a Victim of his Success (by Isidia)
When we discuss women, and dealing with women, and all the stress and trouble they cause, it’s easy to get the impression that we’re a bunch of misogynists. That’s not an impression I’d like to give, though. Admittedly, I have had plenty of negative experiences with women, but they pale in comparison to the many… Continue reading Reminder: Women can be pretty great
When you look back at PUA theories of yore, you’ll get the impression that their creators were unable to deal with uncertainty. In order to achieve a certain outcome, they invented a bazillion of steps, like “overcoming last-minute resistance”, which is pretty much a bogus idea to begin with. For some, like Mystery, getting a… Continue reading You can never be certain with girls
Probably every dude who has female friends — no not chicks who “friend-zoned” you but women who groom you as a backup in case things go sour with their current partner — may at some point have heard the claim that they “fall in love with assholes”. Likewise, if you bang a lot of women,… Continue reading Ladies, this is why you fall in love with assholes
I’ve been bashing Amy Schumer a bit recently. In my post Men can learn a great lesson from the real Amy Schumer, I made the point that a male Amy Schumer equivalent would be a lot more desirable than the female original. One reader objected to this and claimed that it was a myth that… Continue reading Of course ugly men are better off than ugly women
Yesterday I wrote a brief post about my failed attempt of watching the movie Trainwreck. I just couldn’t watch it. After a few minutes I had to stop because Amy Schumer is just so fucking unattractive, and the plot of the movie seemed completely unbelievable. It was about an incredibly unattractive fat woman with a… Continue reading Men can learn a great lesson from the real Amy Schumer
In the comment section to my last article Don’t bother getting body fat down to sub-10 % levels, none other than Alek Novy demolished a reader who presented some rather questionable hypotheses with regards to working out. Even if that guy was right, Alek Novy still wins that argument because if an extra 1% in… Continue reading Min/Maxing won’t work in dating either
The other day I heard, once again, a phrase that never fails to crack me up. As so often, the context was online dating, which is apparently an excellent venue for hooking up with single mothers, willingly or not. A guy told me he has been exploring Plenty of Fish. His success was more along… Continue reading She “forgot to mention” that she has a child from another man?
As someone tried to pull out the old “looks aren’t everything” card in the comments section recently, I’d like to point out how devious that kind of argument is. First, those people claim that all I promote is “looks, looks, looks”. As a follow up, the claim is made that if all you had were… Continue reading The false dichotomy of looks vs “game”
My previous post on women who “forget” taking the pill was a specific example of a more general phenomenon, which some of you may be familiar with: women who want to suck you dry, but not in the good way. Here is an example that is representative for the pattern. There was a girl I… Continue reading For some women you are a mark
It is quite obvious that feminists campaign against pornography and prostitution on a societal level. On the group-level, women commonly attempt to slut-shame other women, or bully their better looking peers. Arguably, the motivation behind these actions is to keep the price of pussy high. Alek Novy so fittingly calls this the “pussy cartel”, which… Continue reading Would you bother with women if prostitution was legal and (very) cheap?
Despite MGTOW sites growing in popularity, the average red-blooded male is still very much concerned about getting laid. True, he may not get a lot of pussy, but he’s certainly spending a lot of money on its pursuit. Thus, more or less every guy can easily be made aware of the enormous monetary cost of… Continue reading The time cost of women
The other day I watched Van Wilder, a reasonably entertaining comedy about a rich guy who postpones graduating from college because he just loves it so much. This won’t be a blog post about the plot of that movie, albeit I was quite surprised about how many non-politically correct jokes there were. As I normally… Continue reading Why you shouldn’t date Tara Reid