The other day I received an email by someone who bought one of my Sleazy Stories books. He wrote that he was particularly surprised by one of the chapters as the girl described in there reminded him a lot of an ex-girlfriend of his. Over the years, I have gotten similar emails, albeit not very often. What some of those guys seem to have in common is that they do not have particularly extensive experience with women. Otherwise, they may have realized that there are certain female archetypes. If you have been with, say, 20 or 30 women, ideally at the level of a fuck buddy or beyond, you have basically seen everything the female sex has to offer in terms of their psychological makeup.
Only because the behavior of women is so predictable is it possible that we can share our experiences online and benefit from it. What is interesting, though, is that your typical woman is oblivous to the fact that she is not all that special. She’s just like any other woman with a similar personality. There are just a few combinations. In fact, guys who are smooth with girls are smooth for that very reason: they have interacted with similar women and therefore they can just go through the motions because they have gathered reference experiences with women similar to her.
Quite a few women have told me that they have never met a guy like me. I have heard this in various contexts, referring to my uncanny ability to read a woman so well that my escalations unfold in a very smooth manner. However, I have heard the same from more impulsive women, those on the cluster B personality disorder spectrum. To them, I was the only guy who could ever handle them. Yet, I was just as tired of their shit as any other guy who ever dumped them. I have just dealt with so much bullshit that it does not particularly faze me. (Of course, those women never see it coming when you inevitably dump them because no matter how smooth you are, you do grow tired of those crazies. Meanwhile, they think that guys have to learn to deal with their crap instead of working on themselves.)
I think most men eventually get a glimpse of that reality. While they may not reach a point where they will be able to deal with various kinds of women with relative ease, they will probably realize that their current sweetheart has characters traits similar to some ex-girlfriend. On a more intermediate level, you get to the point where some women almost appear like pastiches to you. This is because very few if any women have excentric hobbies or interests. Thus, your current girlfrie
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