Women

The Psychology of Sluts, or: Women and Boners, and why you not Getting One Makes them Upset

One of my clients recently shared a story with me that covers a topic that is not often discussed, if at all. I’ll remove all details. The gist was that he couldn’t get hard after foreplay with some random woman, and the chick got pretty pissed about it. Instead of trying again later, she eventually… Continue reading The Psychology of Sluts, or: Women and Boners, and why you not Getting One Makes them Upset

Men

When it comes to Women, it’s better for a Man to be Jaded or Cynical than a Simp

After posting my article on how I would raise my son in order to keep him from turning into a spineless little simp who puts women on a pedestal, my girlfriend made the following objection: But, but, but what if he would turn jaded or cynical. Wouldn’t that be worse? This objection is easy to… Continue reading When it comes to Women, it’s better for a Man to be Jaded or Cynical than a Simp

Men

Your son should have plenty of sexual experience

A while ago one of my readers, Neutralrandomthroughts, asked me the following, which I paraphrase from memory: If you had a son, would you encourage him to fuck around? This is a question I have thought about quite a bit. My girlfriend also asked me about. In the following, I’ll outline my current position on… Continue reading Your son should have plenty of sexual experience

Dating · Relationships

The happy couple you see may hate each other’s guts

If you want to be happily married, the odds are stacked against you. The divorce rate is around 50%. On top, you can safely assume that not all the remaining marriages are happy ones. Just read up on issues like dead bedrooms, marital infidelity, or, for a perhaps unexpected twist, the fate of guys who… Continue reading The happy couple you see may hate each other’s guts

Dating

Acknowledging the realities of dating is not defeatism

My dating advice largely centers around the importance of looks, status, and money. Of course, this is in stark contrast to mainstream advice by dating gurus who proclaim that “looks don’t matter”. It is of little surprise that about a decade after the PUA heydays, such claims are no longer as prominently made. People have… Continue reading Acknowledging the realities of dating is not defeatism