As I’ve talked about earlier, I deliberately abstained from women in my adolescence, chasing a dream instead. Only after that didn’t quite come to fruition did I start bothering with women. Partly, I did this out of curiosity. Things turned out quite well on that front, and I probably got hooked a bit too much for too long. Plenty of guys I know took a different route. Of course, there was the occasional guy who just couldn’t get laid to save his life. The others ended up having girlfriends. Those were not always the most fortunate pairings, though. Yet, they just couldn’t stand the thought of being single, so they took whatever girl they could get, in true beta cuck fashion.
The issue with young guys is that they can’t assess their market value properly. True, if you’re young and broke, your sexual market value may not be great at present. Yet, if you’re broke for a good reason, for instance by taking out a modest amount of student loans to help you finance a degree that will lead to a decent career, you’re in pretty good shape. Literally the moment you sign your first contract, your sexual market value will skyrocket. Some women chase after those guys. After getting fucked in every hole by every Chad, Matt, and Brad of every athletic team at their college, they panic because all they are getting with their B.S. in Communications are unpaid internships. Suddenly, some awkward geek who will soon have money flowing out of his pockets looks very attractive to them. (She’ll continue fucking other guys behind his back for as long as she can.)
Less extreme are examples of guys who pair up with fairly okay-looking girls. Those girls are insecure and don’t think they’ll do any better. Besides, Matt and Chad never tried putting their rock-hard cocks in her butt. She’s your regular plain Jane. Both may be of pretty average caliber. Still, the guy may end up doing a lot better in life than his girlfriend. I don’t have a lot of data on that, but I have a few of anecdotes of such women pushing very hard for an early marriage. Those women may even be conservative if not prude, but those are women who only ended up not being sluts because they didn’t have the opportunity to take lots of dicks. There is probably not much virtue in a woman like that keeping her legs together.
Common in all kinds of early pairings is that the age gap between the man and the woman will be quite small. She may even be a bit older than he is. The problem with this is that she will end up hitting the wall really hard, really soon. Your typical 20-something couple, which might look evenly matched for a few years won’t give you that impression in ten years. The average 30-something man looks infinitely better than the average 30-something woman. It’s downright bizarre.
When I was in my late 20s and realized how screwed some of my friends or acquaintances were, I thought I had dodged a bullet. Had I continued my life of voluntary celibacy, I would have come out ahead of most guys. Man, there were couples you wouldn’t believe: one guy had a girlfriend of the same age, with a somewhat cute face but a few pounds too much. She looked borderline acceptable in her 20s, if you were in a really generous mood, but in her 30s you would throw up in your mouth if you saw her.
I never questioned any of my male friends about some of the choices they made, but some of them felt very uncomfortable once I started bringing the occasional girl along. I once dropped that I was dating a girl 10 years younger than me, which was the nail in the coffin of one of my friendships. My first wife was 8 years younger than me, which some of my supposed friends didn’t like either. Imagine showing up at a get-together and seeing the pissed-off faces of both guys and girls! With my Asian cutie, who is 16 years younger than me, I’m getting similar reactions. My male friends are all cool with her, but the chick of one of them, just a girl he was fucking at that time, did not seem happy at all when she met my girl. Not one bit. She probably got, once again, alerted to the fact that her time is running out.
As a guy, it is very easy to get out ahead of the competition. Keep in mind that the average guy will end up with a really crappy girlfriend. I think you are way better off staying single, and fucking hookers, if you really need to, than settling for an average woman. If you have been dating seriously throughout your 20s, you may realize that your women have been aging a lot faster than you. In that case, hit the eject button and start over. Pick someone much younger! You deserve it. No matter how you view it, if you pair up with a woman your age, you’ll invariably lose. Things may be fine in your 20s. In your 30s, the guy who chose to stay single will be better off, and that is without taking the problem of divorce into account. Even if the relationship is great, Joe Average at 35 will be together with Jill Average at 35, and that it really not an attractive prospect. Joe never realized his potential. I’m not saying that you need to abstain from women in order to ‘win’. You can as well date throughout your 20s, but make sure you eject before things start getting too serious.
If you don’t intend to marry and have children, you can live out a life as a happy bachelor. Otherwise, you would be well advised to not settle down while you are still acquiring resources. I see this among friends of mine who have had stellar success in their careers. If they would enter the dating market now in their 30s, they could date the most fantastic women. These guys only got more desirable year after year. By waiting to settle down, they would have ended up in a much better position, objectively speaking.
As a guy, you have a lot of time. Women don’t, which is why they pressure you into marriage. I’d say that even Joe Average in his 20s should just hold out. Scratch that. Especially he should hold out. He may not be able to smash pussy like Brad and Chad, but the shit-tier quality he can get in his 20s he could do without. In the worst case, he gets nothing, which is better than an old and used-up Jill Average. Of course, all you guys are of top-shelf caliber. You should go after younger women. Leave women your age for guys ten to twenty years older than you are. You win by not playing their game.
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